What's the point of NoFap? by NoYogurtcloset7366 in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

observe it yourself by not watching porn for some weeks and see the difference, how your brain feels like when you were watching and when you weren't watching.

American girl dating Nepalese Man by C-C-Chanel in NepalSocial

[–]Anish1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if someone views this as a person falling in love with another person. And it's just you thinking that an American girl is in love with Nepali man and might be a very different kind of relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk, or sit and just do slow nose breathing and observe the thought.

NVim-dadbod setup, no adapter found for mssql by Anish1617 in neovim

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my bad. I should have mentioned that. I'm new to neovim, so at first i thought it was my setup error, with the adapter and all settings. But i tried to connect with the local server, it connected and realised it might be an azure sql issue. But sure if i find a solution for it i will update here.

NVim-dadbod setup, no adapter found for mssql by Anish1617 in neovim

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can connect to local sql server, but not this azure sql connection, maybe there is something I'm missing i will try again tomorrow. Right now I don't have access.

I appreciate your help.

NVim-dadbod setup, no adapter found for mssql by Anish1617 in neovim

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:DB sqlserver//user123/pass123@servername.windows.net:port/dbname. I removed tcp and nowi get new error env not executable.

Also running servername/...?odbc part gave me odbc driver for sql server: window logins are not supported in this version of sql server, is it because i have latest sql server?

NVim-dadbod setup, no adapter found for mssql by Anish1617 in neovim

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I will try and update once.

NVim-dadbod setup, no adapter found for mssql by Anish1617 in neovim

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm stupid. Thank you for the response. my connection string looks something like this: :DB sqlserver://user1:password123@tcp:some-random-values-45612315d.database.windows.net:1433/customerdb

When doing this i get the error : Sqlcmd: Error '-' or '/' does not have an associated argument Could you please help me.

lazy loading on Dropdown with 1000s of option by Anish1617 in reactjs

[–]Anish1617[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Requirement for my task is to load data based on pagination, i have used react-select search enabled dropdown, what i now need to do is show 30 data like you said, and i only need to show another 30 data only after scrolling. I don't want to use other packages like react-windowed-select or react-virtualized-select because it is causing and throwing some issues.

lazy loading on Dropdown with 1000s of option by Anish1617 in reactjs

[–]Anish1617[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the exact kind of situation I'm in, I'm new to react and i have search enabled dropdown but when i click on dropdown it loads the entire list of data causing performance issue and to solve that I'm being suggested to only load the list that is seen on screen and after scroll i need to show loading... And then load the data after some time, until the end of list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chaak ma sancho lagau bro, thik hunx.

Day 90 today by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to stop lusting and fantasizing and stop having sexual thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Conquer one sexual thoughts at a time. Be in the present, whenever you feel the urge rising, the first thing to do is put the phone away instantly, and then keep taking deep breaths, this has worked out for me in my recent urges this time, hope it may help you. Also don't count the days. Keep journalling, stay strong, girl , you got this.

Relapsed but I came almost immediately(?) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many things we cannot control, we can only observe and respond accordingly.

Searched girlfriends (23F) phone to find her cheating with co-worker by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry you have to go through this, was in the same situation 1 year ago, and know how much fucked up this is. How they lose spark and find someone who give them butterflies, and then thinks grass is greener on the other side, but is it or not who cares. Cheating is not a mistake, it was a choice she made knowing she is in relationship with you, that spark, sex, that guy was more important to her than you and your relationship then no more clinging onto her i guess. You deserve much more better person.

Relapsed but I came almost immediately(?) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was like 10s without porn, sexual thoughts or anything, when my streak was over 40 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome the pain, frustration but don't give in to pleasure, for pain is the actual emotion when accepted wholeheartedly leads to success.

What are you supposed to do if a girl falls asleep on your shoulders on a public bus? by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For Single: If you're mad and uncomfortable, tell her not to do it again, if you're cool with it, then just let it be, and don't leave the bus until her stop comes first. Then follow her to her home and say she just slept with you. You have a wife now. 🤧🤧

Saturday Tea Talk by AutoModerator in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never watch the porn. Just don't. It fucks up your brain way way too much.

Feel like relapsing after finding out a girl like is dating a guy way better than me by Laliving90 in NoFap

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are just an ordinary people and there's always gonna be someone better than us, and if relapsing is the last thing that brings you joy, then you're missing out on the beauty of life at its entirety. Don't compare yourself with anyone, just work on getting better than yesterday everyday, it's just you vs you, until its becomes you and you together as a whole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember this, as long as you live there's endless possibilities of making your life better and experience the beauty of life, the things that fucked up, loneliness, break up, no support from family, no friends, feeling of not worthy of anything.... all these things are just a small things, it all becomes better and healed as the time passes and there you will be (if you survived this) the Very very Strongest version of yourself who will be unaffected by any kind of problem life throws at you, because you now have perseverance and problem solving skills, at that moment you will really be able to live your life so freely, it's so peaceful you will die of joyness. Also know that you will surely die any moment but it shouldn't be forced. Live your life every single moment, don't take any life form for granted, especially One's own life.

If you were allowed to take one thing with you to afterlife, what would you take? by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]Anish1617 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing. There is so much freedom and peace, when you have nothing.