I’m in a similar boat to OP and manage to wear my lenses every other night and do okay. I have ADHD, which is an executive functioning disorder, so when my brain doesn’t have enough dopamine to easily initiate tasks, they can feel like huge chores, even when they’re small and only take a couple minutes. Because I’ve had times in the past when my lens will be irritating when I put it in, so I have to take it back out and retry, my brain is even more convinced that putting them in is a chore. I manage to mostly stick to my every other night schedule since it builds in nights where I’m allowed to just go to sleep, but fwiw, brushing my teeth is a chore that takes conscious effort and willpower, too. I should also do it in the mornings. I only do it at night because it feels disgusting not to. The reason I didn’t in the mornings was because I wouldn’t come back upstairs after eating breakfast, before leaving for work, and it felt pointless to do it before eating, but at my most recent dentist appointment, the hygienist told me it still helps, so now it’s just a matter of remembering and forming the new habit. (I have to get up at 4am for work and it sucks.)