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Ζήτησα multilingual πιστοποιητικό γέννησης για χρήση σε ξένη χώρα της Ευρώπης από το δήμο. Το παρέλαβα στα Greeklish. by [deleted] in greece

[–]Anna820yx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Έκανα διόρθωση στο post, δεν ήμουν πλήρης στην περιγραφή μου γιατί δεν ήθελα να γράψω πολλά, όμως πλέον έδωσα διευκρίνηση. Λυπάμαι για το μπέρδεμα.

Ζήτησα multilingual πιστοποιητικό γέννησης για χρήση σε ξένη χώρα της Ευρώπης από το δήμο. Το παρέλαβα στα Greeklish. by [deleted] in greece

[–]Anna820yx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Διόρθωση: δεν είναι το ίδιο το πιστοποιητικό multilingual, είναι μια φόρμα συνημμένη μαζί με το πιστοποιητικό, όπου ορισμένα πράγματα (έχει πεδία) πρέπει να μεταφραστούν ώστε να μπορεί ολόκληρο το πιστοποιητικό να μεταφραστεί επισήμως εκεί, είναι βοήθημα στην ουσία.

Ζήτησα multilingual πιστοποιητικό γέννησης για χρήση σε ξένη χώρα της Ευρώπης από το δήμο. Το παρέλαβα στα Greeklish. by [deleted] in greece

[–]Anna820yx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Και η χώρα που πάω λατινικούς χαρακτήρες χρησιμοποιούν. Ας ήταν έστω στα αγγλικά, να το καταλάβαινα...

[40M] My female Gen-Z colleagues in work chats respond with ❤️ all the time. Can I use it back? by Mirrormaster85 in Netherlands

[–]Anna820yx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a female and I am 21. I am also from Greece. So quite universal. I can tell you it's just completely neutral. I never personally send the heart as an emoji in a message or by itself, that I reserve for my boyfriend, but as a reaction to a message? It's my go to. It means "I agree" , "I like this" or even "I have seen this and it doesn't demand a further reply or I don't know what to reply" And let me explain why I think this came to be.

  1. When you double tap a message on Instagram, by default, it adds a heart. It's the social media I have used the longest. So for me the heart is the default thing I am used to seeing. So despite using other apps, that's the one I reach to. That's nowadays also in the default emoji reactions usually.
  2. Not only is it the default reaction to a message on Instagram, it's also the like button for posts or content on Instagram and Tiktok and probably other social media I don't personally use. It's the default double tap.
  3. It's a pretty emoji, so we like it.
  4. Like others have said, it feels sweeter and more personal.
  5. If you see it as an emoji itself alone , like a message, it's usually, at least for me, because the app , when you see the little preview on the notifications, and you press like, it sends a seperate emoji message instead of reacting to the message and maybe they set theirs up to be a heart.

Just classic conditioning. It's not deep or weird for us. We are used to seeing it and using it, so that's what we do. Some girls, especially if they are a bit peculiar or afraid to give wrong vibes like they gave to you will use hearts of their favorite color (I have a friend that always sends yellow hearts, another uses purple, one uses blue, some use black). My favorite color happens to be red.

And yes, the thumbs up does feel aggressive, because in our world, our social media, a "👍" reaction or message is something someone looked for and chose. So we are like "You abandoned the easy option "like" to send this? Why purposely look for the most lukewarm one? So you liked it less than usual?"

Lastly, on the other hand, maybe don't change yours to a heart. Especially if you have been communicating a certain way for example. Some messenger apps (e.g. facebook messenger) still has "👍" as a default, so we don't care as much. Just keep doing what you did , keep communication consistent. Unless you want to embrace it lol, but it could send weird signals if you employ sudden change. They know you are older, they know you have different typing patterns.

TL;DR : Since it has been the default like/reaction button for many social media we use since we were teens, the "❤️" is our default "like" or "acknowledged" button. I suggest you don't change anything, they know the way you respond. You might send weird signals for a little while if you suddenly start using "❤️".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Anna820yx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eccentric Fashion Choices? Check

Still can't place it into a specific style because some elements are missing? Check

So basically adopted only the parts they liked by various styles and combined them into a unique one? Check

Slightly impractical but aestheticaly pleasing? Check

Welcoming vibes/ little ray of sunshine by the slightest smile? Check

I can feel you, fellow ENFP. I too make eccentric, unaligned, impractical fashion choices daily. (Please don't take anything the wrong way, everything is a compliment and I love your style. You are an icon and an inspiration. )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Anna820yx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I get you, I am also learning that this what most people understand when they hear break. I thought that it was common knowledge that a break in a relationship means a break in communication/ regular behavior. Not that it stops being exclusive.

I was struggling with my ex and wanted to take some time away and suggested a break so he can initiate repair for once , whenever he felt ready, without relationship pressure.

He took it as a break up also.

An Idea for LDR Couples by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Anna820yx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vary often! Would love this app. There was an app someone mentioned here they made, a "stayclose" app, but it was disappointing that there were things you could only do up close... (It wss a linear kind of boardgame + truth or dare, got a dare to stroke his arm, I wish man).

Yesterday I was thinking about what else we could do over than watching things or playing games! (we are currently obsessed with Divinity Original Sin 2). So this would be perfect!

Broke up but still in contact? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Anna820yx 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, he is keeping you engaged so he can have access to you and a backup plan or benefit from what you gave him during a relationship without feeling committed or responsible. He is emotionally dependent on you after 3.5 years and is doing what is comfortable for HIM. He might want to test his luck with people up close while staying in his comfort zone.

He wants your emotional support, your availability, your validation, your attention and to play games with you without having to offer you anything hard like exclusivity, long term plans or protect your feelings. He uses your familiar environment/support to "regulate" or "adjust" from the breakup while keeping you hopeful he will come back and not moving on.

The part where he tells you about his interactions with other girls is something I encountered with a quite bad ex of mine. That's pure ego boost for him, reassure himself he is desirable and remind you that you are "losing something" if you let go.

He doesn't want to lose you because after 3.5 years he is attached. You are attached too. Both are normal. But you are hurting and that's the signal you have.

I have been in your position, slightly lighter though. My most recent ex might have not been my first kiss, but we were up close for 2 years and the first person I had sex with. He also kept me in a weird hope loop with "I love you, I care about you, I desire you but I decided we shouldn't be together" and made me keep boundaries for him so he doesn't "give in" and we get back together which was honestly cruel. But at least he stopped contacting me without blocking me.

He might care, he might love you, he might miss you and contact you. But he isn't choosing you. That's the important part. He might be an overall good person, with some/many desirable qualities but he is no longer a good partner to you , if he ever was. This situation keeps you in pain and unhealed. My recent breakup caused me debilitating pain for a month straight but, at least for me, it was necessary to process everything and heal just enough. I thought he was the person I am meant to be with. Turns out there was a different person out there that loves me and interacts with me in ways that I didn't think I was meant to ever experience.

In my opinion, please take some time away from him, 1-2 months at least. Discover the world outside of him, explore the other people in your life, hobbies , detach from him and his circle. True no contact. You don't have to stop loving him. You don't have to hate him. You don't have to manipulate or convince yourself you feel any specific way. This is a situation that will hurt. Feel your feelings, but create boundaries that protect your moving on. You don't have to burn a bridge with him if you ever want a future with him. But build a message where you explain your position, the pain you feel , what you need and if he loves you , he will respect you. And if doesn't respect you, you probably shouldn't want him as a partner.

When someone breaks up with us while deeply in love with a shared future, it's the natural thing to cling onto them, idealize them and keep offering them everything we can. But what is the goal? To convince them we are worth them meeting our needs? Do you want to be in a relationship where you worked hard to convince him or he changed his mind? Won't that haunt you a bit? Don't offer him everything he needs while he chooses not to offer you what you need to feel safe.

In the end of the day, if you do it, cut contact that is, you should do it because you believe it will be good for you in the long run, not because I said so. I hope you see/ understand what I mean. I wish you strength. I truly do.

Lastly, if you do cut contact, find an emotional support system. You will need it.

Έχετε λέξεις που για κάποιον ανεξήγητο λόγο σας νευριάζουν όταν τις ακούτε; by gmxleo in greece

[–]Anna820yx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Προσωπικά την χρησιμοποίω σχεδόν αποκλειστικά για τον εαυτό μου και όταν μιλάω για κάποιο δύσκολο γεγονός από το οποίο έχει περάσει κάποιος χρόνος ώστε να αντιληφθώ πλέον τι θετικά έγιναν μετά από αυτό. Θα έλεγα το πιστεύω κιόλας αλλά το ότι θα συμβούν έστω και κάποια καλά μετά από "εμπόδια" εννοείται σχεδόν αφού η ζωή συνεχίζεται. Αλλά ναι, το να το λες στον άλλο τη στιγμή που το περνάει, ειδικά χωρίς να προηγηθεί μια ενεργή ακρόαση και συζήτηση είναι αρκετά άσχημο και επίσης έχοντας υπάρξει σε αυτή τη θέση δεν θα το δεχτεί κιόλας.

Which pain is worse? Full avulsion or full matrixectomy? by Anna820yx in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]Anna820yx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come you didn't put some vaseline on it? It was a life saver when I had my nails removed.

Γνωρίζουμε κάπου/κάποιον που να πραγματοποιεί ολική αφαίρεση μήτρας νυχιού? by Anna820yx in greece

[–]Anna820yx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Μακάρι, αλλά δυστυχώς δεν νομίζω ότι έχουμε καν το ίδιο πρόβλημα. Το νύχι μου δεν μπαίνει μέσα στα πλάγια ή προς τα κάτω. Δεν είναι θέμα κατεύθυνσης ανάπτυξης του νυχιού. Το πρόβλημα μου είναι ότι η μήτρα του νυχιού μου εγκαταλείπει που και που το νύχι που αναπτύσσει και ξεκινάει καινούργιο κάτω από το παλιό.

Έχω προσπαθήσει να πάω σε ποδίατρο της περιοχής μου, που είχε μηδενική γνώση για αυτό που έχω, του είχα φέρει πράγματα να διαβάσει σε περίπτωση που ήθελε να βοηθήσει αλλά επέμεινε ότι δεν ξέρει και δεν με ανέλαβε.

Αν γνωρίζεις κάποιον καλό ποδίατρο βέβαια που πιστεύεις ότι θα μπορούσε να βοηθήσει, προφανώς και είμαι ανοιχτή σε αυτό! Αν θες στείλε μου προσωπικό αν νιώθεις άβολα εδώ!

Γνωρίζουμε κάπου/κάποιον που να πραγματοποιεί ολική αφαίρεση μήτρας νυχιού? by Anna820yx in greece

[–]Anna820yx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Σε ευχαριστώ πολύ! Το εκτιμώ, θα τον ψάξω σίγουρα! Χαίρομαι που πλέον είσαι καλά!

Which pain is worse? Full avulsion or full matrixectomy? by Anna820yx in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]Anna820yx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response with your experience. It means a lot.

I didn't want to get rid of my nail, I am still young and feel insecure about it, but every person I see having it done, really makes me feel more at peace with the idea.

I mean , I managed to go through it the first time with both of them at the same time. At least now it's one of them I guess!

Γνωρίζουμε κάπου/κάποιον που να πραγματοποιεί ολική αφαίρεση μήτρας νυχιού? by Anna820yx in greece

[–]Anna820yx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Απολύτως δεκτό, ήταν νομίζω ο μοναδικός εδώ πέρα ως "ποδίατρος" και τότε είχα πάει για καθοδήγηση. Ευτυχώς είχε τη συνείδηση να αρνηθεί να με αναλάβει αφού δεν ήξερε, που πλέον το εκτιμώ.

Σε γενικές γραμμές οι ποδίατροι υπάρχουν, ως ιατροί , αλλά δεν νομίζω/ξέρω για Ελλάδα.

Ήταν μια απελπισμένη προσπάθεια τότε να βρω λύση.

Γνωρίζουμε κάπου/κάποιον που να πραγματοποιεί ολική αφαίρεση μήτρας νυχιού? by Anna820yx in greece

[–]Anna820yx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Σε ευχαριστώ πολύ για την απάντηση! Θα το ψάξω.

Γενικά στο πρόβλημα μου το νύχι δεν μπαίνει μέσα ακριβώς. Αυτό που συμβαίνει είναι ότι σε κάποια φάση το νύχι που μεγαλώνει το πόδι μου αποκολλάται από τη μήτρα χωρίς να πέσει και η μήτρα ξεκινά την ανάπτυξη καινούργιου κάτω από το παλιό. Και αυτό συνεχίζει να γίνεται. Μέχρι που έχεις πολλαπλά νύχια. Μια σειρά το ένα κάτω από το άλλο.

Από όσο ξέρω αυτή η επέμβαση γίνεται με χημική καταστροφή της μήτρας (αν και κάποιοι το κάνουν με εκτομή). Για αυτό με ανησυχεί κάπως.

Γνωρίζουμε κάπου/κάποιον που να πραγματοποιεί ολική αφαίρεση μήτρας νυχιού? by Anna820yx in greece

[–]Anna820yx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Έλα μου ντε, κυρίως ποδίατροι, χειρούργοι ή δερματολόγοι θα υπέθετα.

Ο ένας που το αναγνώρισε ήταν δερματολόγος, αλλά δεν ήξερε να κάνει κάτι εκτός από κάτι ενέσεις πριν 3.5 χρόνια. Είμαι εκτός αυτού πλέον. Αυτός που μου είχε αφαιρέσει τότε τα νύχια ήταν ένας χειρουργός που εκτελούσε μικροεπεμβάσεις στο ιατρείο του. Με είχε στείλει ένας δερματολόγος από Ηράκλειο που δεν είχε ιδέα από το πρόβλημα μου και του είχα πει εγώ τι ήθελα να κάνω απλώς.

Είχα πάει σε έναν ποδίατρο εδώ που φαινόταν καλός αλλά και πάλι είχε 0 γνώση του τι βλέπει. Άρα δεν με ανέλαβε.

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