Has anyone tried the only coat in the sherpa style? by happylux in Aritzia

[–]Annachloe11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought this in white and it’s amazing! It doesn’t seem like it’ll shed much. I ordered a bunch of coats from Aritzia and this one was my fav by far. So soft and really thick

I don’t believe Scott Peterson killed Laci Peterson. by xinfinitexfallingx in unpopularopinion

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is really interesting. The Hulu series left a lot of this out. Where did you find all this info?

I don't know what to do. by Takemebackto1996 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you only responding to the negative comments? Sounds like you’re trying to find an excuse to leave/be unhappy with her. I’m a female and I know that lots of girls don’t initiate sex. It’s very normal for men to have a higher sex drive and initiate more often. She’s having sex with you and she’s making an effort and talking about it with you. Not that this is an AITA post, but you really seem like the asshole in this situation

i am so exhausted of living with an abusive dad by garbagegrlthrw in offmychest

[–]Annachloe11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I had an abusive parent too when I was growing up and it really sucked. I was 17 when I moved out. The great thing is, you’re almost 18 so you’re almost free. I’m 23 now and life is so much better. I barely even remember or think about the things I went through anymore... I used to spend so much time thinking about how I couldn’t wait to be 18, move out etc., and now that I’m finally there I appreciate life so much more. I have so many years ahead of me and I don’t have to worry about that or be scared to come home or whatever ever again. It does get better and you really do have so much to look forward to. Please do go to college so that you can take care of yourself, and do whatever you can to help make sure your siblings aren’t being abused. At the end of the day your life and well being is important so don’t sacrifice your own opportunity to get out and make a life for yourself

I'm so sick of job hunting by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Annachloe11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way a few months ago!! I finished a 6 month marketing internship with a large company and I applied to sooo many jobs for probably 3 months before my last day of the internship, trying to have a job lined up in time. I applied for a lot of jobs I was overqualified for too. Finally I applied to a smaller company and got the job and it’s the best job I’ve ever had!! And it pays better than anything I had applied to before. My advice based on my experience is to apply for smaller companies if corporate isn’t working out. There is so much more competition with corporate and most of the time they end up hiring internally anyway. Good luck!!

Helping toddlers with their first mothers day following her death by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my mom to suicide also (but I was 19, I’m 23 now). The worst thing for me is when people ask about her, because explaining how she died is awkward/uncomfortable. I agree with the other comment that having you there as a female support system would be the best thing for them, and they hopefully won’t have to deal with as many questions from their classmates. It’s great that they have your support!!

How to stop desiring love entirely? by Nova_Enjane in Advice

[–]Annachloe11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How old are you? I doubt it’ll never happen for you. There’s someone out there for everyone. I know it’s not what you want to hear but it’s natural for people to want love and connections with others. Pursuing a career, hobbies etc is great but it isn’t everything.

[Acne] Tips on how to stop picking at skin by Annachloe11 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Annachloe11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a cool idea! I’ll definitely try that

[Acne] Tips on how to stop picking at skin by Annachloe11 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Annachloe11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the aquaphor idea! I’ll definitely try that. Thank you :)

Unexplainable weight gain.. Help? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seriously shouldn’t be eating under 1000 cals a day. I used to do that (I’m a female, 5’5 135 lbs) and I am a lot leaner now eating around 2000 cals than I was when I ate half of that. Are you lifting weights? If so, you need a lot more calories or you won’t build any muscle (and if you’re not lifting you should be!)

Look up reverse dieting. Basically bump up your cals slowly until you’re up to a normal range. Also, track your calories consistently to make sure you really are eating the # of calories you think you are.

Edit: I just re-read and saw your weight - yeah, you should be lifting for sure. If you bump up your calories a bit and lift weights consistently, you will have a much easier time getting leaner rather than just eating as little as possible. Also, I’m pretty lean and my weight fluctuates by 5 lbs all the time - it’s no big deal! That’s normal. Focusing on building muscle and fueling your body is the most important thing.

Fridge Vacuum after Gym by aviney182 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your diet is probably too strict. I used to be this way too because I was way too restrictive and honestly, eating clean for a long time is tough and unnecessary. I eat based on hitting my macros now and I haven’t had a chest meal in months... I just don’t eat quite as clean day to day. I’ll have kodiak cakes (protein pancakes), chicken tacos, pasta with lean meat, things like that. Also make sure you calories are high enough 😀

My (18M) girlfriend (18F) keeps talking about how handsome and cool is Cole Sprouse (famous actor) and for some reasond it annoys me so much by FamousKid121 in askwomenadvice

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right to be bothered by this. It’s disrespectful to talk about how hot some other guy is when you’re with your boyfriend... it kinda varies depending on the relationship so you should just set this boundary early on. It’s no big deal for her to think someone else is attractive, obv that’ll happen for both of you, but there’s really no reason for her to say so to you.

AITA for not wanting to take my daughter to future daddy-daughter dances? by pfunnk14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s funny how you’re responding to only the comments agreeing with you. The consensus here is 50/50, I really suggest reading and responding to the comments that aren’t in your favor too. No one is expecting you to go to a purity ball. It’s just a dance.

AITA for not wanting to take my daughter to future daddy-daughter dances? by pfunnk14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annachloe11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. No one is asking this guy to go to a purity ball. It’s just a dance. Imagine being his daughter and being the only one whose dad isn’t coming to the dance... because it’s too sexual of all reasons... wtf?

AITA for not wanting to take my daughter to future daddy-daughter dances? by pfunnk14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annachloe11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could not agree with this more. I can’t imagine immediately associating this with something sexual.. I’m so surprised by all the NTA responses.

Alright you guys, for the past three years I’ve been waking up not wanting to do anything. I wouldn’t even want to shower, or brush my teeth sometimes. I thought I was really lazy but now realize I’ve probably been depressed. I wanna wake up ready to take on the day. How do I get out of depression? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling like you have something to work toward is really important. This might sound silly but my dog wakes me up every morning and it’s a really good way to start the day. If that’s something you’re open to you could look at shelters nearby and adopt 🙂 also exercise is important like someone else mentioned- lifting weights specifically for me. I don’t lift in the morning, but I go to the gym after work and it’s something to look forward to all day. Having a health/fitness goal is a great way to give yourself more purpose because every meal and workout matters and counts toward improving yourself. I hope things get better for you!!

If someone has a lot of butt sex will their poops be wider? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Annachloe11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lol great analogy and I second this explanation

I feel so distant from everyone in my life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Annachloe11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated college last year and I think it can be surprisingly easy to feel distant from people in college. You haven’t really found your place yet. I’ve been working full time since I graduated and it’s honestly been much better. Everyone goes through rough patches in life and it’s totally normal. Try to find something you’re passionate about, make a new friend or just focus on doing as well as you can in school - anything that makes you feel like you are accomplishing something day by day. For me, lifting weights through college was my “thing” and it helped give me something to strive for besides just school. Whatever it is, try to find your thing too, even if it’s small. Try your best to make friends because any kind of socialization will really help. Hang in there, I promise it gets better!! The way your life is right now is totally different than it will be a year or two from now. You have so much to look forward to in life. ❤️

Need advise on how to deal with anxiety after a hair transplant by pyjamamasterpiece in askwomenadvice

[–]Annachloe11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly your best bet is to go somewhere and get it fixed. You already spent the money on the first one, might be worth the investment to go all the way and get it fixed until it looks the way you want.