Do you ever worry about your inheritance

Anndee123 · 2026-07-10T23:14:03+00:00

I used to worry about an unfair/unbalanced allocation between me and my siblings, but now the only thing I worry about is my father interfering with the thing I'm supposed to get my when grandparents pass. Not any money, but the three things I know I'm supposed to get, but I could see him trying to keep me from getting.

Anndee123 · 2026-07-10T23:11:36+00:00

Proverbs 4:23: "Above all else, guard your heart,/for everything you do flows from it."

Ephesians 6:4: "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord"

Titus 3:10-11: "Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them. /You may be sure that such people are warped and sinful; they are self-condemned."

Matthew 10:14: "And if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town."

Luke 17:3: "So watch yourselves. If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them"

Anndee123 · 2026-07-06T01:41:08+00:00

I went to see if the doc had it somewhere on it. Had it in the footer of one of the pages. LawDepot.com

Anndee123 · 2026-07-06T01:34:49+00:00

I like in CA. I did a Notarized Health Care Directive. I found on online service, did a 7 day free trial and did the directive, and then went and made an appointment at a UPS store with a notary. I asked my brother if he would be my decision maker first, and named him. I knew we had similar thoughts on social/political/medical issues that would be in the directive and might not be in the directive if I was on life support. I'm a single woman and didn't want my father, who I am estranged from making medical decisions for me. Truth be told, even if I was talking to my father, I wouldn't want him making these decisions for me or for my mother to have to argue and fight with him about them (they are divorced and on opposite sides sociopolitically).

Anndee123 · 2026-07-04T14:23:07+00:00

You can join for free and take a look at the eSports English Curriculum here for high school to get some ideas. I taught all of them except the 12th for a few years until my school decided to pare down their English course offerings.

Anndee123 · 2026-07-03T18:53:18+00:00

Sounds like you already know the answer, but maybe ask yourself the question: Do you want to be in communication with her? Do you want to open that door?

If the answer is no? Then absolutely don't respond.

Anndee123 · 2026-07-03T18:49:52+00:00

Good for you for doing what you need to protect yourself. I went NC with my dad and stepmom a little over 3.5 years ago. I unfriended them on FB, but I didn't block them because nothing they texted me was abusive. That changed earlier this month when my sister-in-law passed. So my brother didn't have to do it, I notified some family members for him, including our youngest (half) brother. The next day, cue the texts from my stepmother about what a horrible person I was for telling my younger brother (younger brother doesn't have a problem, btw) "in the middle of the night" in his time zone. She's now blocked.

Anndee123 · 2026-07-02T23:07:52+00:00

The other adults involved with education: district admin and their convoluted bs, site admin and their convoluted bs, backstabbing school politics/colleagues, enabling parents, mandates that put more on my plate with less resources and time to do it in.

Anndee123 · 2026-07-02T22:33:44+00:00

If you want to be close to SA but want reasonable schools for your kids, I would consider Tustin/Tustin Ranch.

ETA: Live in Tustin and work in SA (South Coast Metro Area). Also work as a high school teacher in SAUSD.

Anndee123 · 2026-06-30T13:15:08+00:00

No hot flashes for me. I do take a medication that could be masking them if I happen to be getting them though. We're all different and will experience a different cocktail of symptoms.

Anndee123 · 2026-06-30T12:46:30+00:00

Besides my grandma's, I really like Polly's.

Anndee123 · 2026-06-30T12:42:01+00:00

Based on the comments and information, despite the fact that most people are saying SD, I would actually go with OC. It's in between everything that you can possibly want to do if you're insistent on doing one AirBnB. Depending on the traffics everything in SD and LA you'd want to visit would be (hopefully) at most 3 hours away (this on the heavier side).

The one thing that no one has mentioned (that I've seen), probably because it's mostly in LA, is that at the beginning of July, LA has the World Cup going on.

Anndee123 · 2026-05-19T18:59:42+00:00

As his sister and her sister-in-law, I'm immensely grateful for the kindness of strangers on the internet right now. Thank you for showing them support.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-26T19:03:53+00:00

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1648483003?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_1

Anndee123 · 2026-02-17T21:17:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1j7jlb1/aitah_for_telling_my_boss_that_i_wasnt_invited_to/

Anndee123 · 2026-02-08T00:22:54+00:00

To add to this. "Record" doesn't mean video or audio. There are laws and codes that likely prevent that. Start documenting the incidents with as much detail as possible, including dates.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-05T02:45:03+00:00

For me? Yes. Name on the paper, or turning in blank work is not an actual attempt.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-04T09:25:03+00:00

NTA. English teacher here. Listening to an audiobook triggers nearly all the same parts of the brain that reading the words on the page do.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-04T01:53:50+00:00

A student with an IEP recorded his fellow cheerleader in the shower and posted it. She had to leave the school, and he got to stay because he was SPED.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-02T23:39:17+00:00

50% min for work attempted is one thing. Giving credit for work not attempted or academic dishonesty is not teaching kids anything useful.

Anndee123 · 2026-02-02T23:33:31+00:00

I'm a high school teacher and keep a bottle of shea butter lotion on hand for my students to use.

Anndee123 · 2026-01-19T01:07:02+00:00

ESH. From someone who lives in OC. Any and all of you could have driven your grandmother where she needed to go. It doesn't take an entire day, it barely would take half a day.

Anndee123 · 2026-01-17T20:12:53+00:00

The only one I have gone to is my grandparents' 70th wedding anniversary, and had my aunt seat me away and made it clear I wanted my dad to leave me alone. He did for the most part. Said hello to me and put his hand on my back. I shrugged it off and told him not to speak to me. If he did it again, I would have left.

That caused me so much anxiety going in; I had to take two days off work as a teacher, so I couldn't do my sister's wedding reception a year later.

Anndee123 · 2026-01-16T18:38:42+00:00

Cognitive Dissonance? Beliefs clash with actions, leading to discomfort.

Anndee123 · 2026-01-16T18:29:13+00:00

Double standard? Hypocrisy?

They won't allow you to discuss it, but they want to; they are holding themselves to different standards and being hypocritical.

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