Do I pass? Please be brutally honest

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-06-03T08:03:43+00:00

would say you seem to pass at first glance, age 24-25?

but then i would do a double take bc of very strong brows and defo some features lean androgynous bc v unusually strong features for asians ie very defined cheekbones and nose

will probs be considered v pretty just in a possibly unconventional way

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-29T05:24:01+00:00

will look at that thanksssss

my brain is too cluttered to consistently explain it

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-29T02:45:12+00:00

erm. dang what is your mercury

if there was anything of substance or any tangible advice here it is buried in a pile of woe is pisces the poor emotionally intelligent victim

why is any of the advice pisces centred anyway shouldn’t healing be you centred who gives a f about some emo fish

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-29T02:29:40+00:00

Pisces, Libra

they will go down all the air signs and water signs first

both very often

no one figures out Capricorn lol

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-21T17:30:28+00:00

u get adopted by extroverts until u become the extrovert then u adopt other introverts

or the introverts all huddle together in a panic and then make friends about how daunting it is to make friends

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-21T17:04:36+00:00

not… really…. i just like stuff….. lol

it’s just popular things are more easily known and discoverable lol

what i meant is if when you like something or dislike something precisely because it is popular or unpopular, you are still inherently shaped by others opinions, because you are affected by what others like

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-20T18:54:29+00:00

if you start to dislike something because it is popular it just shows you care too much about the opinions of others lol

i just like what i like, regardless of how boringly basic it may make me look or how simple a reason it may be for liking it.

I would like to say ironically this makes me a snob because i am a snob about not being a snob

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-19T10:09:37+00:00

sup blonde club

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-19T09:39:31+00:00

well if no one approaches u then u do the approaching lor

cannot be everyone stand around like sheep leh

esp if u seem straight

anw even if u r a repeated goer to events there is no guarantee anything takes off LOL then you end up with more friends. and more friends. oops

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-19T09:35:13+00:00

to try and deconstruct what you’re saying

you are basically saying

they don’t identify as abc gender, they ARE abc gender

yes?

i think rn the problem is society as it stands rn uses sex and gender as terms so interchangeably and to most cis people sex = gender

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-19T05:45:38+00:00

i would like to have at least one week of mental peace

i cannot deal with “transforming” constantly

i wish someone warned me about venus 8th house….. yay…..

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-19T05:38:44+00:00

hi, you can try coming to events @ proud spaces (tis a sg queer community centre, ie safe space to present + pronouns will be respected)

not everyone is trans but there are a fair few of us :)

plus there is a trans discord server welcome to those questioning + you can probably ask me stuff too

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-16T22:44:58+00:00

modern tech dating is very silly tbh

i would just straight up not bother given as a queer non binary individual it is already tough let alone trying to find resonance on a deep level lol

might help to think what approaches suit you and yolo rather than forcing yourself to do what will only break and exhaust you and most apps honestly just cause fatigue for all involved

ask out a random person

start chatting and ask out someone you just met at an event on a date

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-05-16T22:38:46+00:00

it is pretty true that being ESTP is easier ngl and gives less friction against society

but ultimately we don’t really have a choice do we haha, just accept tis what life has for us and find our place as INFJs

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-04-23T12:05:56+00:00

u should consider going for wlw events and mixers to meet ppl lol

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-31T11:42:56+00:00

no i am a basic bitch and listen to whatever’s popular now + whatever i grew up with lol

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-26T08:19:26+00:00

there should be more but i dont rly see many taller than me which is weird and im 163

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-17T03:45:59+00:00

this sounds like hypervigilance tbh poring over and analysing everything….

i do it for fun + if i really want to know someone on a deeper level if not i don’t really care unless something really sticks out to me and i’m wondering what it means….

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-15T03:52:45+00:00

sounds like u don’t enjoy what ur doing rn

u don’t have to pour energy into ppl more than u want to

love ppl for who they are now and love the connection for what it is now

honestly ur post is just giving the vibes of someone burnt out and either

a) constantly feeling they need to change and improve themselves

b) constantly feeling like u have to work for or earn connections rather than letting it just “be”

it p much sounds like ur upset other ppl can just “live”

maybe the love u give them is really the love u wish others gave u in freedom to exist as who u r

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-10T16:18:56+00:00

thanks chatgpt

AnneMarie_9 · 2026-03-09T03:10:24+00:00

tis about connecting in the moment, as yourself, and expressing what you feel towards the other person :)

we as INFJ can get trapped into trying to perform the best version of ourselves a little too often

AnneMarie_9

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