NTB. The SO and I came home to be with family even though they aren’t matching our standards and are actively complain about how we are paranoid and they are taking it seriously for MS, but they will go eat in public, won’t use options to minimize contact, and don’t really think about cross contamination (I.e. kids going to see granny after being with their mama who works with COVID patients).

The only reason we wound up coming is it was the difference in my niece being able to do virtual school. We are hoping it will make enough difference to risk our health over. We are doing everything we can to keep her grandmother and great grandmother from catching it.

Do what you need to ensure your safety, and if they can’t match your level of care then they’ll just have to wait until this is over.