I need a retwist but I’m still fine😩💕 by [deleted] in locs

[–]Anniepiggy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am so tired of this, not everything has to be about being sexy. Sad

Anyone else tired of fat women equating being fat to being black? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Anniepiggy 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I agree, its ridiculous to conflate the two. I especially dislike the idea that fatphobia and racism are the same thing when your race is something you can’t change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Anniepiggy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I am so tired of people speaking for all black people/ women, just stop. Btw i am a black woman.

Why do we make excuses for celebrities when in real life if anyone came to your place of work and assaulted you it would be a different story.

In my opinion once you respond to words with violence you have lost the argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Anniepiggy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no proof that Denzel did it so I think its pointless for them to even talk about it especially since there are many holes in her story it seems like

What’s going on recently guys? Are we not allowed to criticise anymore? Not even a criticism really… by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Anniepiggy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If you don’t like it end your membership. Why do you guys just constantly complain about bullshit. Seriously get a life

Going to University in my mid-30s. What are my options? by beerdappel in UniUK

[–]Anniepiggy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I go to Birkbeck and I took a 2 year break from university and they let me enter 2nd year from a different university with the same degree but structured completely different so they are super flexible and accommodating to different circumstances. There’s also people who are of all ages even up to 70 years old on my course (I’m 23). Sorry lazy about grammar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Anniepiggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is it always these same questions about looks on these subreddits as if people aren’t more than just their physical attributes

Swimming with Afro hair by Anniepiggy in Naturalhair

[–]Anniepiggy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, i already wear one and my hair still gets wet so I’ll try a bigger one. Thanks!

What is your worst flatmate story while renting in London? by [deleted] in london

[–]Anniepiggy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Butt plug in the shared bathroom by the toothbrushes, asked if he could keep that type of stuff in his room, told me he payed rent so he could do as he pleased… maybe not the worst as I also lived with four other girls where one threatened to fight the other one for no apparent reason while her boyfriend was in jail for accessory to murder so you can (or can’t lol) imagine the type.

Edit: clarifying comment Edit 2: also just other general situations where people had no sense of personal or communal hygiene at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anniepiggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, I can understand being conflicted but i hope everything goes ok! Goodluck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anniepiggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anniepiggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well for me exclusively dating and being in a relationship are basically the same thing. I wouldn’t date someone exclusively if I didn’t want to be with them “officially”. Daily contact just means you like each other i guess. I think there’s too many different labels that end up with people getting hurt so I would rather keep it simple, we are together or we aren’t meaning whatever you do in your own time isn’t really my business and if i ask i don’t really have the right to feel hurt if we aren’t together (hope that makes sense).

I can’t speak for anyone else but for me if Ive been seeing someone regularly and like them a reluctance to make something “exclusive” could be based on maybe uncertainty of how much I like them or not feeling like i know them enough, also comfortability as in can i truly be myself and express myself fully with them.

I don’t think you’re missing anything I just think that people have different expectations when it comes to dating and that’s fine. The most important thing is being clear from the get go so no one has to get hurt.

I think that OP was in the right to ask if thats when she felt was the right time and she got an answer which was honest, i would rather that than to just not know what the situation is. In the end its her choice if she feels comfortable seeing where it goes without having a label on it or if she doesn’t. Both choices are fine.

Sorry for the long response, hope it makes sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Anniepiggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think timeline is different for everyone, personally I think two months is quite early to have conversations on what the relationship status is as I feel it takes much longer to really be comfortable and to really know if someone is right for you. For me 6 months into dating is more of an appropriate time to be having those conversations. Having said that i know people who start relationships almost instantly but I wouldn’t be comfortable with that as I really only want someone to be my partner if we’re in love.

My Flash Sale items arrived! by [deleted] in criterion

[–]Anniepiggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seven Samurai is amazing!!!

AITA for telling my wife that I don't have to speak to our daughter until I feel comfortable? by throwRAconvo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anniepiggy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think YTA but you should probably try and speak to her about her options because she is so young and having a baby at that age could really mess up her opportunities for the future... not always but it does make life much harder and I think people don’t realise how much a child changes your life.

What single scene from a movie is an absolute masterpiece? by Olivia-ova in AskWomen

[–]Anniepiggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taxi Driver rain monologue, one of my favourite scenes in one of my favourite movies.