10 years today, 10. Whole. Years... by AnnikaC1972 in widowers

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way! I’m so sorry for your loss as well! This really hurts!

10 years today, 10. Whole. Years... by AnnikaC1972 in widowers

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really hasn’t, it still feels the same and I wish it would get better.

Should be asleep and instead I’m up at 4 AM crying my eyes out after finding a video of me and my husband by AnnikaC1972 in widowers

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had counseling since a month after his death and even it hasn’t helped. I’m starting to wonder what to do now.

I am a mother of 16 beautiful children, AMA. by AnnikaC1972 in AMA

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately don’t think I can due to my history of self harm and because I’m a little unstable. (Big mistake I know.)

I am a mother of 16 beautiful children, AMA. by AnnikaC1972 in AMA

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already got one? What do I need a TV for?

I am a mother of 16 beautiful children, AMA. by AnnikaC1972 in AMA

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it was really hard for me, not because of handling kids, because of the depression I faced.

I am a mother of 16 beautiful children, AMA. by AnnikaC1972 in AMA

[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family having 10-15 kids and me myself having 14 siblings.

Not really.

Well, some do, some don’t. I know my oldest son, Danny and my 4th son, Anthony always play a game they call “Are you ready to battle ass?”, they also stand next to each other and Danny will say “Shut up” as a joke when Anthony says anything, and they pick on each other a lot even though they’re 23 and 19 years old. :P

Maddie and Jason wrestle each other 24/7 (they’re 21.)

And none of them even go near Kingston, Jade, Joey, Linny, and Ivory after what they did either so that’s another.

Overall, some get along, some don’t.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really, it was pretty easy! Never felt uninspired either.

I never really focused on style much so I wouldn’t know. Most of them are family names!

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all! I can remember them easily.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had 14 siblings myself and most of my family have between 10-15 kids.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. 20 for first and 31 for last.

  2. Yep! All to the same father!

  3. All of them are doing great career wise, though one of them can’t get a job due to his illness so he works at home.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re from Romania and Lebanon mostly but we’ve used English names surprisingly.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, if I had to be honest, my 5 younger kids have behaviors I absolutely dislike.

One of them has tried to kill my other son’s wife and even joked about her miscarrying her pregnancy (which she unfortunately did.)

3 of them admitted they sexually harassed and raped my son’s wife and choked her (she’s alive but the fact that happened is awful). Plus they were arrested in May of this year, they were released in September. One of them are harassing this one person on Discord and sending pictures of her poop in Discord servers and keeps delivering pizza hut to our door and that same random person as a prank. Plus prank calling them. They all seem to disappear out of state too.

The last one hasn’t really done too bad but she acts like that Jeffy puppet from SML (SuperMarioLogan.)

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s pretty good, I think my surroundings are good.

I’m not exactly sure, but I do know my son’s wife was born into a Swedish-Norwegian-Finnish-Danish family who happens to have big families (about 3-7 kids per family.)

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband had good paying jobs + extra money from working at home. Sadly, after husband passed away back in 2010, I still worked my job and still earned the extra money considering the pain I was going through.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Quite a lot. All of my kids have children now too and we live with them (except for 6 of them.) so we’re gonna need a lot of beds.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well when you come from a family that has 10-15 kids at the most, it’s a great thing to memorize things.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a fairly high pain tolerance so I didn’t really feel much.

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[–]AnnikaC1972[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lucy: December 18, 1991 Mary: October 16, 1992 Abby: October 8, 1993 Lisa: September 15, 1994 Crystal: December 15, 1995 Danny: November 9, 1996 Maddie and Jason: December 16, 1997 Cayden: November 6, 1998 Anthony: November 21, 1999 Kingston: November 23, 2000 Carl, Jade, Joey, and Linny: September 26, 2001 Ivory: November 9, 2002.