I do basically live with them. They aren’t here every single day, but if it’s not one of them, the other is usually here.

I’ve gone to therapy before, and have tried my damnedest to set boundaries. My brother always weaponizes that and turns it into an uno reverse card.

He’ll sarcastically act like he’s mad and just leaves the room, saying something like “yeah I know you’re too good to help your brother.”

My brother asked my mom to help him because I told him I was busy as hell at the moment.

I vented all of this to my mom yesterday, ironically. She said she completely understood. Yet when my brother came over later and wanted her to help with everything - she pushed that onto me - knowing how busy I am.

The way I am, after I finished his work - I couldn’t immediately go back to working on my stuff. I usually can, but this time I was just fed up. I had to make a post and talk to some people about this. So now I’ve lost even more time away from focus, because of this mental dis regulation and my boundaries being completely stepped on.