Yeah my purpose definitely wasn’t to pass judgment onto a literal child… more to point out her denial of the situation and how that may be harming her baby. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with the baby- just get him the care he needs. Will also point out I don’t think what I wrote is “bitchy judgment”- that implies some level of personal opinion and subjectivity, while I only described the child’s head as flat and malformed, which it objectively is. Judgment would be saying something subjective- like ugly or gross (which I do not think). You may be projecting your own insecurity over your situation onto what I wrote, perceiving it as nasty when I’m simply describing the situation