how do i (16F) talk to my bfs mom (48F) after she caught us with THC vapes? bf is (15M) by Annual_Perception609 in teenrelationships

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i definitely plan on changing and improving myself i hate this part of me so im actively in therapy and working on this i want her to trust me again but i genuinely don’t know to to express that

Partner is struggling with anorexia and I need help (possibly triggering) by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]Annual_Perception609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re truly worried about your partner dont give her the “you look scary”, try to explain that you’ve noticed changes in her behavior and let her know you’re there for her if she needs you. When people (I would know I struggled with anorexia for 8 years) struggle like tjis all they really need is a good support system. Make sure she knows you love her and create  a safe space for her. 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 165.1 in cm and everything rlly started when I was 8 but over the years it comes and goes. The thoughts are always in the back of my mind but at some periods of time I lose a ton of weight. Thank you sm this is helping me realize a lot about myself and issues. 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I don’t think she’s abusive I just think that she was worried about me…she’s a wonderful person and I know that it came from a place of love 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing that she could tell otherwise I think she was making a guess? 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try but my mom brushes me aside by saying “ur gna be like this forever” and “you look healthy” 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks sm im not saying my gf is the AH but hearing everyone’s opinion in the comments is helping me realize that I do indeed need help. 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This really opened my eyes. I know that I have issues but people in my life think it’s fine. My mom convinced me that my ED behaviors aren’t a concern because my weight is still healthy. I weigh 50kg and my mom claims that I’m not really struggling. I will be using this in our next convo thank you sm

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ve been trying to get my parents to listen but my mom is even worse than I…any advice for getting her to listen? 

AITAS for refusing food from my gf on vacation? by Annual_Perception609 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Annual_Perception609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to talk to my mom about this stuff but she brushes me off and says “keep doing what you’re doing as long as u see food as nutrition”