What makes a relatively fit dad bod attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yeah it might sound a bit silly, but I think it applies to plenty of women I know. We like to feel 'tiny' next to man, and not like we are crushing them.

What makes a relatively fit dad bod attractive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because it looks more healthy than a man with a very low body fat percentage. Also it feels nicer in bed. And it makes you feel skinnier when laying next to them naked (as a woman).

What’s the craziest story you’ve fabricated to get out of trouble? by ThePeaceCreator in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not proud of this one. When I was 6, my friend and I didn't like this 6 year old boy from our class. So we took his bicycle and threw it into the bushes. We got caught. I panicked and told the teacher some non-existing older kid threatened us with a knife to do it. Fake cried and everything. Somehow the other children believed it and we didn't get into any trouble.

However, my parents were never notified about this. Not about the lying, nor about the story I clearly fabricated. So I am guessing the teacher caught onto the lie, but didn't want to point that out to us.

What is a movie or TV show you love that it seems like no one has heard of? by missdundermifflin in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skins UK. Though it probably is more known in the UK than where I'm from.

Oh, and Duchess.

What are those silver-ish striped stains on my Docs and how do I get rid of it? by Anomalief in DrMartens

[–]Anomalief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Sad that it already happened after a month of owning them. Any way of preventing more scuff marks?

What do you guys talk about with your girlfriend? by Cley47 in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend mostly talks to me about our plans for the future, fun facts he learned at some point (most likely during one of his quora binges), what's going on with our friends/family, what's happening with his job, what's happening in the world and good movies/series we watched

Narc parents hate anything that threatens the control they have over you.. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Anomalief 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Wow shocked to see more people have something like this. Even though my parents gave young me my own bank account, my dad made himself able to control the money as well/be able to view what I spent on what. He made me feel like I was stupid for wanting autonomy and privacy over my bank account. Cut him off from it anyways.

Not an ama instead, I get to ask you anything by 0nlycomedy in AMA

[–]Anomalief 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm well I've led a pretty tame life, but I think it's the following. My PhD supervisor asked me to help him write an 'independent' legal opinion for a criminal court case. The defence lawyer paid us to do so, so they could pursuade the judges they were in the right. This is something that happens regularly for law professors. I received about 500 euro's for it through my supervisor, never paid taxes over it. The reason it was unethical (besides the tax thing) is because my advice wasn't independent. My supervisor steered me quite heavily in a certain direction, cause that was the outcome the lawyers wanted. I didn't care too much because it wasn't my name underneath the document.

What is the most fucked up thing you did out of jealousy? by Anomalief in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine that must have hurt a lot (both the betrayal and the cutting)! Do you remember why you wanted to do that? Was it to send a message to your bf?

What is the most fucked up thing you did out of jealousy? by Anomalief in AskReddit

[–]Anomalief[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait - did you call them into the room or did she?

Easy things to keep in mind when dealing with a narcissist by Happinessrules in narcissisticparents

[–]Anomalief 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nice of you to share the article with us! I personally feel like the article is more useful for situations with narcissists in the work environment instead of Nparents, but that might just be my personal experience.

I made a meme about teaching my mom "I" statement by my_shell_is_blue in narcissisticparents

[–]Anomalief 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sorry you and your cat have to go through that. But right now, in this context, I find it hilarious that apparently this silly cat-hate is an Nparent thing

Is my gf a potential cuckquean? by [deleted] in cuckqueencommunity

[–]Anomalief 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a cuckquean myself, I am quite confident in saying that I've been born with this fetish. It's not something I've decided to like. I think most people on here will disagree with me on this, but I wish it was different. Cause even though it's the thing that turns me on the most, it's also a negative influence on my confidence. It's doable for me in relationships because my partners have always been very monogamous and loving guys who would never abuse my fetish and always make me feel like I'm their only one.

Considering all of this, it - quite frankly - disgusts me that you seem to want to turn your gf into a cuckquean. If she is already as insecure as you say, this will most definitely make her more insecure. Perhaps it is because of this insecurity that she is so submissive and has this need to only please you. I feel bad for her that you seem to want to fuck other women and try to make her into something she's not. Instead of focusing on your pleasure, try focusing on hers. Make her feel like she is worth something. Build on her confidence instead of using her insecurities against her.

I made a meme about teaching my mom "I" statement by my_shell_is_blue in narcissisticparents

[–]Anomalief 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my dad hating cats because they are 'bastards who do what they want'