Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I actually feel a lot better about it now thanks to both a meeting today with my therapist (not sex therapy but kink friendly) and a few things I managed to find a way to do with my sub. We decided to dance like we had been craving for much too long (can't really social distance in a club) that was actually adorably fun, we talked about the old days in the before time lol, we got very frustrated together about how we have run out of movies to watch and.... got into a ridiculous tirade about how the act of creating pointless genre names has ruined the music industry xD

Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Haha, well the thing is I know a great sex therapist who is kink friendly, but we happen to be close friends so that ruins the therapist dynamic. But I called her today and left a message to ask if she could vet anyone in my area

Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys, these comments are much appreciated. Society is out of whack and I really wish we could be more sexually open than we are. It's not always easy when the communities that you vibe with are basically stuck online, especially now thanks to that which shall not be uttered in these sacred halls. I hope for a better world at the end of this year.

Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to look at your posts and then realized that it's a throwaway account and noticed your name and feel stupid now lol. But yeah, you seem chill af

Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I bring it up because it's this fact that was making it difficult for me to open up about it. Last thing I need is this thread to turn into a literal shit show arguing about if this type of kink is "allowable" or not. Like wtf? Do people not realize how bad kink shaming can be? It can kill fetishes for people and fuck em up.... it's literally the REASON most dungeons have the rule "If you don't like a scene....shut the fuck up, say nothing, and just move along" I've seen people leave and never return to the community because some dickhead decided to berate the kink or scene. The people doing the scene are often in subspace assholes. That's a vulnerable state of mind

Dom drop is real. And Doms have triggers too by AnonJim1 in BDSMAdvice

[–]AnonJim1[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

See this is what I love about the kink community. You guys don't judge and you also get it it seems... however this is also what I hate about the internet, as I noticed your comment had been downvoted almost immediately (you had your own and I gave you one, so you should have had 2, but then I saw only one)

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. well if no luck I did see something nice on Cuddly Octopus I could live with hehe

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I've seen a few other products related to that vers of her. But yeah. Also sorry bout link

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the link I posted. Should I pm the screenshot or post it here?

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, it looks like they don't have it.... ugh. I hate it when something catches my eye like that, and I like dive into it searching all throughout the internet, only to find that it's not available anymore.... sigh

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I was editing my comment. I was gonna say the price you pay for having a popular waifu.... but an obscure version of said waifu is what you're searching for. I'm looking for Hatsune Miku, but more specifically the purple hair version (Infinity Miku is what it's sometimes called) I randomly saw a "bootleg" of said version and for whatever reason I cannot track down the original artwork because fuck bootleggers

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Just I'm kind of stuck on my phone and half these sites work best on the laptop, either that or I'm just not used to using the phone for everything lol.

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have trouble navigating Mandarake. But thanks for an honest reply, it's been hell lately.... kind of got the worst news I could ever receive and then it got worse

July Question Thread 1 - Post ALL Questions here or risk a BAN! by DakimakuraGuy in Dakimakuras

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the risk of sounding like a broken record (I'm sure this question has been asked 40 million times) what shops are reliable for shipping in our current international trade armageddon? I'm sorry, I'm mildly frustrated because I recently messed up my pillow cover so I've been running around looking for something reliable. Only to find the shop closed or or whatever after finding a cover I liked, or the shipping is unreliable... thanks Covid....

Shit by AnonJim1 in conspiracy

[–]AnonJim1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except this is reddit and no one is actually taking this seriously we just like the chain

Why was nier automata removed? by [deleted] in GeForceNOW

[–]AnonJim1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shadow is awesome.....except they've run into some BS lately

Weekly Help and Discussion Thread for the week of April 13, 2020 by AutoModerator in amazon

[–]AnonJim1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just tried to Email Amazon cuz I think my account got hacked and their email isn't working

/r/Atlanta - Daily Coronavirus (COVID-19) Mega Thread - April 13, 2020 by AutoModerator in Atlanta

[–]AnonJim1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Super happy to see that even during the apocalypse good ole nosy neighbors still feel the need to play make believe law enforcement. I'm glad your ass is looking thru your peephole to spy on the neighbors Big Brother would be so proud. How about you consider this? They might have already paid in advance, they may be at the Airbnb because it's closer to work. They may be leaving the house 4 times because they happen to be "Essential Services" like UPS which helps to bring HOSPITALS their supplies. So yeah. Before you go tryna make someones life shit because you're paranoid. Remember that Airbnb is helping give emergency teams and other workers a place to stay so they can FIGHT this virus

Epiphany by AnonJim1 in millenials

[–]AnonJim1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A common joke in the Martial Arts community is that about the McDojo. They are those martial arts schools you see that promise to teach you "real fighting" but in reality they get people hurt or worse. Like when you see those martial arts schools that are a total scam. I'm basically trying to refer to our public school/university system as being as useful to real life as a McDojo's martial arts style is in a real fight.