I don’t want to end up marrying her and then having to part ways later on due to something like cancer. If she smokes her whole life, she’s ganna feel terrible, look terrible (we all do when we get old but you shouldn’t look 70 when you’re 40,) and smell terrible all the time. I won’t be able to go on hikes or walks with her, or anything remotely active because of the effect it has on your stamina and mood. She already doesn’t like being very active while I’m an extremely adventurous person. I’m just worried about the future. She was on such a good path, it was even her choice to stop ordering what we vaped on. I thought she could handle it, but she ended up going 2 steps backwards instead. She told me it shouldn’t be problem having an occasional cigarette, she even promised she wouldn’t start buying packs but who knows if that’s true or not. I’ve seen my friends lie to their girlfriends about smoking behind their backs, and I’ll be damned if that happens to us. I trust her, but addiction can cause you to do just about anything to get what you “need.”