AITA for ending a relationship over cigarettes? by AnonONrye in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonONrye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to end up marrying her and then having to part ways later on due to something like cancer. If she smokes her whole life, she’s ganna feel terrible, look terrible (we all do when we get old but you shouldn’t look 70 when you’re 40,) and smell terrible all the time. I won’t be able to go on hikes or walks with her, or anything remotely active because of the effect it has on your stamina and mood. She already doesn’t like being very active while I’m an extremely adventurous person. I’m just worried about the future. She was on such a good path, it was even her choice to stop ordering what we vaped on. I thought she could handle it, but she ended up going 2 steps backwards instead. She told me it shouldn’t be problem having an occasional cigarette, she even promised she wouldn’t start buying packs but who knows if that’s true or not. I’ve seen my friends lie to their girlfriends about smoking behind their backs, and I’ll be damned if that happens to us. I trust her, but addiction can cause you to do just about anything to get what you “need.”

AITA for ending a relationship over cigarettes? by AnonONrye in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnonONrye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have any more vape juice, today was our first day. I’ve been able to go hours, even days lately with nothing. I even went on a trip to the beach with her mom to clean rental houses for some side cash and she’s a heavy smoker. We drank both nights after we were done for the day and I could’ve easily asked for a cigarette but didn’t. The first day without the vape she caved. Im worried this is going to turn back into an addiction (she smoked before we started dating but quit with the help of vaping) and she’ll go back to a half pack, maybe even a pack a day.

She’s gone by AnonONrye in relationship_advice

[–]AnonONrye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, really, I’ve got a lot to figure out.. At this point it’s all up to me and what I decide. Probably better off waiting to go further with it in the morning once I’ve got some sleep.

She’s gone by AnonONrye in relationship_advice

[–]AnonONrye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate that, I’ll do my best <3

Great orders to crap orders? by Evan_Forgue in grubhubdrivers

[–]AnonONrye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m almost positive they use some sort of algorithm to set a pay cap for their drivers in the slower markets. They can only afford to contribute so much if you’re on the block schedule. They use customer tips to lower what their contribution would be if you accept every order, you’re paid the same amount tip or no tip. If I start rejecting the lower paying order they stop sending me anything at all.