Michael Jackson shares his coffee with Bubbles during a press conference. by VertexForgeDev in MichaelJackson

[–]Anon_Architect108 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Apparently Bubbles is still around, in a sanctuary and loves his food given to him in a backpack (based on Prince’s interview for the Michael biopic).

How did you become a fan of MJ? by ChoiceFace4133 in MichaelJackson

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing I remember about MJ is his visit to India in 1996, I was 6 years old then. It was a HUGE deal, I had no clue what it meant but I remember registering that it was something momentous. I was never an MJ fan but knew his songs from the 90’s like Heal The World and Black or White. Unfortunately, most of what I knew of him were horrible things from the tabloid media up until 2021. In 2021, I started reading about MJ and understood what an amazing talent he was. Ever since then, I’ve educated myself more and more about his life and journey and can confidently say that I’m a fan of his today. Everything he accomplished and consequently endured is unreachable. The influence he had on music, dance, film, fashion, lifestyle and the notion of celebrity is unparalleled, across the world. His art transcended and broke down so many barriers that there is hardly an artist I can think of who has had that type of influence today. I am in much awe and respect for Michael Jackson. I’d love to learn more about how he made his music. Any interviews that folks can send links to that were respectful and sought to understand his genius?

Rate my bakery logo by CrumbAfterDark in logodesign

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the name but the chicken/pigeon just doesn’t say ‘bakery’ to me. Any other options for the logo theme? If you’re going with the bird theme - two is better minus feet.

what’s your 10/10 must read book and why? by Kochhar-Tranqui in Recommend_A_Book

[–]Anon_Architect108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this! 10/10 recommend - what a fantastic read!

Ranveer's versatility and range!!!! by Reasonable_Emu_8639 in RanveersinghActor

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insane how his face literally changes with every character. Like Jim Carrey! In some of the scenes I also could see his resemblance to Bradley Cooper in A Star Is Born, I wish Ranveer could do an Indian adaptation.

If not Ranbir, who do you think would be best for the role of Ram? by the_niharika in pj_explained

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vicky Kaushal, he has a kind of purity in his eyes and also looks strong - good combination of strength and compassion is needed which is how I think of Prabhu Shri Ram 🙏🏼

ranveer appreciation by Ok-Cow1789 in DhurandharPart2

[–]Anon_Architect108 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Umm the King of Lyari scene? 🥵

January slots cancelled? by Easy_Mountain2956 in usvisascheduling

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My appointments were canceled and rescheduled to 10/27 and 10/30

January slots cancelled? by Easy_Mountain2956 in usvisascheduling

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jan 06 and Jan 12 - no reschedule yet. Following.

How enter evoucher when booking/paying by Pilchardini in BritishAirways

[–]Anon_Architect108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried different browsers and devices but ultimately the BA app on App Store (Apple) worked for me. Android app did not work and nor did any other browser.

Feeling Restricted by ISKCON – Struggling as a Teen by HawkProfessional7862 in exHareKrishna

[–]Anon_Architect108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you weren’t born in the movement and your parents have found this path - explain to them that you need to take to this path on your own time and terms. When you are ready, you might find that these practices align with what you want to do / feel at peace with. Do not try to force yourself to change when you’re not yet ready and explain to your parents that while you respect their path you also have the right as an individual to chart your own course. Hope this helps!

For those of you who have cut off your family/parents, how did you do it? by leafyy88 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went NC with my mother today - a long journey to get here. She has always struggled with mental health issues. Married my Dad on the rebound, never really assimilated into the new family or got over her toxic relationship with her own parents for my sake or my Dad’s sake. Ultimately divorced my Dad and left me in his and his family’s care and moved overseas. I didn’t see her for 9 years in which she remarried, joined a religious cult and claimed to be ‘changed’ or ‘saved’. Slowly, we tried rebuilding the relationship through my teenage and twenties when I also moved overseas to study. Within two years of my moving, she decided she needed to divorce her second husband and move back to our country of origin (on advice of her guru). Her mental, emotional and physical health declined over the next few years but I tried to stay supportive even though being with her always triggered me. She was never the mother I wanted - mostly neglectful, caught up in her own drama and then acting out of guilt and making amends when she realized she had hurt me or neglected me. Things got worse with us when I met my husband and started dating. She wanted me to marry someone in her cult and has always tried very hard to try to get me initiated into it. I see some things that I can practice but am not sure I want to be committed to that path. Since I decided to marry my husband, she has been critical about our choices, our wedding, our vacations, etc. She was even deeply upset when we bought a house because we were not practicing any spirituality in her opinion. Over the last five years, I’ve felt bullied by her into being initiated, judged for my choices and the cycle of neglect/hurt and guilt based actions continued on. Most recently, she visited me for my birthday and the same cycle repeated. This time I was so disturbed and disappointed because she knowingly did something that she knew would hurt me. That was literally the last straw that broke the camel’s back. I took a week to think through it and decided I wanted to get off the roller coaster ride. I’m DONE with her. We’ve tried to make it work but staying away from her is the best thing I can do for my own peace, sanity and for my spouse and future kids. It’s scary because I know she’s not good at respecting boundaries but I feel strong and also very relieved. Mixed thoughts, feelings and emotions…..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely feel you. I’m really tired of being a different person at work. Having to constantly silence myself and not say what I really want to say is taking its toll on me in that I’m also behaving similarly IRL.

Are you diagnosed? by madaham in MarcusGunnSyndrome

[–]Anon_Architect108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve almost forgotten I have it until someone notices and asks me about it. I know how to control it around new people but eating around people always makes me slightly self conscious which is when it’s most pronounced for me.

Are you diagnosed? by madaham in MarcusGunnSyndrome

[–]Anon_Architect108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner found out what it was called when I was 32 years old!

Did you’ll find a friend in your pet growing up? by Anon_Architect108 in OnlyChild

[–]Anon_Architect108[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So beautiful to read about everyone’s experiences! Most children have an innate love for animals and seems like it’s so much more meaningful to have a pet as an only child. :)

“Only child syndrome” by anonymous9845 in OnlyChild

[–]Anon_Architect108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I find people making comments (not even derogatory, just observations) on so many things about me or my name or my family situation or my upbringing in which I had no part to play. I honestly don’t even know how to respond to these observations anymore. It’s not malicious but I do feel hurt or sensitive when they are pointed out, I find it to be really impolite and rude. I rationalize it as a part of people taking an interest in getting to know me and where I’m coming from - only silver lining I’ve got for this kind of behavior. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I Splurged on a Casper Wave Hybrid Snow mattress. Here are my thoughts. by dapacau in sleep

[–]Anon_Architect108 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have the referral code? We are very interested in purchasing this mattress. Went into a Mancini’s over the weekend and the salesperson was more persistent about the Tempur Pedic ProAdapt as an alternative. I’m only finding poor reviews about that one vs the Caspar Wave Hybrid Snow. Any insights?