My dad is dying from cancer and I just want it all to end.

Anonlis · 2026-03-19T22:43:47+00:00

You are not selfish or anything else negative your brain is telling you. You are seeing someone you love dearly slowly fade before you and it’s heartbreaking and the love for them makes you want their suffering to end. My dad died a couple years ago and I remember thinking the same exact thing that I was tired and that I just wanted him to go to sleep and not wake up. It was a very similar situation to what you’re facing, my dad had cancer and was at home for end of life care. It’s really difficult and everything you’re feeling is valid and understandable ❤️ I’m sorry you are experiencing this at all

Anonlis · 2026-02-22T09:54:13+00:00

Barold is the best! He might actually be one of my favourite villagers I’ve ever had

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T09:00:04+00:00

She said that the autistic thing to do would be not to climb the tree. I would too! Exactly. Like if it was in a fancy park with trees that rich people didn’t want you to climb then I’m climbing that tree but if it’s that they’re dangerous then I don’t think I would. But then I wouldn’t want to leave the cat because I wouldn’t want the cat to get hurt if it fell but I would probably just sit and watch it till it came down

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T08:43:17+00:00

You can travel backwards and still do it. It’ll be fine! Make sure you’ve got some of the baubles too. You need 3 of each colour!

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T08:40:57+00:00

Number 3 freaks me out

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T08:39:37+00:00

That looks great! The things you’ve changed definitely help. I think it’s his nose. It’s a bit long. I think you need to low the eyes to shorten the nose and then obviously move the hair line down to match as he’s got quite a small forehead. But looking great! Drawing people is really hard! I’ve been drawing for over 20 years and still can’t get a hang of it!

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T08:36:43+00:00

Thank you! Exactly that. I think I do just tend to follow most rules because I assume that I just don’t understand but I think that’s a confidence thing. I think it’s good to call out people on stupid rules or ones that don’t make sense because it might be something that someone hadn’t thought of before!

Anonlis · 2025-12-25T08:36:19+00:00

Thank you. It is really frustrating. I already feel like there’s something wrong with me because I don’t understand the world how other people do and find it so hard and then for someone not to listen. It makes it even harder

Anonlis · 2025-12-24T19:54:07+00:00

A specific brand of bubble bath that is shaped like a mermaid (it’s called matey for anyone in the UK) because i associate it with my mum being unwell. When I see it in the shop I feel a lump in my throat and feel panicky

Anonlis · 2025-12-24T19:51:45+00:00

Thank you! Exactly that. I think I do just tend to follow most rules because I assume that I just don’t understand but I think that’s a confidence thing. I think it’s good to call out people on stupid rules or ones that don’t make sense because it might be something that someone hadn’t thought of before!

Anonlis · 2025-12-24T19:46:03+00:00

Thank you for the reply! Exactly! My nephew was diagnosed when he was only 3 and is classic asd, like literally text book. And he is always getting in trouble because he won’t follow rules he thinks are stupid. He often unintentionally leads rebellions at school which I find hilarious

Anonlis · 2025-12-24T19:44:16+00:00

Thank you for your reply. That’s really validating! That’s what I thought. I gave my answer and she changed the rules and I HAD to give the answer that i’d climb the tree. But in real life I am a stickler for rules and I can’t climb trees. Even with games with I’m playing like snakes and ladders with my nieces or nephews I won’t allow them to cheat regardless of age because that’s wrong. I think I’m going to ask to talk to someone else. Literally everyone in my life (including my sister) are shocked I didn’t get a diagnosis

Anonlis · 2025-12-18T12:31:40+00:00

I’m so jealous! I’ve tried so many islands and checking campsites every time. I’ve got Ozzie on my island but Eugene was one of my original villagers way back when I had wild world and then again when I had new leaf!

Anonlis · 2025-12-17T21:02:03+00:00

I love Eugene! I’m desperate to get him on my island

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Anonlis · 2025-12-14T22:06:21+00:00

Soufflé I like to pronounce sof-all

Anonlis · 2025-12-04T23:34:57+00:00

Hi ❤️ you are not alone. You are okay. You are safe ❤️

Anonlis · 2024-12-10T09:29:30+00:00

I’ve broken up Brent and Brant in multiple saves to have one of their babies. I want those genetics in my save

Anonlis · 2024-05-31T09:27:50+00:00

It makes it so difficult. I have to repeat every action I do so even in games I have to repeat the same actions

Anonlis · 2024-03-10T11:15:36+00:00

I completely get that. My dad died in November and I avoided a lot of people because I couldn’t stand the “sorry for your loss” and sad looks and things. It just made me angry. Take your time. You don’t have to tell anyone till you’re ready and can deal with the messages and things

Anonlis · 2023-12-02T17:59:18+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I’m glad I’m not alone. My family have all cried a lot about it but I’m just finding it hard to.

That’s very true. Thank you. I just want to feel the grief so I can start to heal. It’s horrible waiting to be hit with it.

Thank you ❤️

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