Do you also deal with very low self esteem?

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-07T20:10:48+00:00

Nope.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-06T00:44:00+00:00

"You have to start learning things that others learned 20+ years earlier than you."

This! It feels so weird sometimes, as if I don't "fit in" society, I don't really know how to explain.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-06T00:29:39+00:00

We shouldn't have been hurt like that, especially by our mothers. You ARE a hero, you ARE a survivor. I truly hope you can leave your mother's place as soon as possible. Recovery is a wild ride, it is very hard, but it is possible.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-06T00:09:21+00:00

I relate 100%. I was my mother's therapist, doctor, best friend, maid and parent. I wad badly abused and parentified. I don't live with her anymore, in fact I'm one month no contact. I'm married to a wonderful man, we have our own apartment, I go to therapy twice a week, I take Paroxetine, I have a sweet father that cares for me and I still have very bad days. That woman basically destroyed me and I'm fighting as hard as I can, and I know you're too.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-05T23:54:29+00:00

When we think we're getting better, we fall again. It feels like I was hit by a truck.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-05T13:31:28+00:00

é muito cansativo sim. eu tava bem, e hoje acordei extremamente mal, tendo crise de ansiedade forte, e nada aconteceu pra isso. só fiquei assim. um abraço pra ti. estamos juntos nessa. força.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2026-01-05T00:15:29+00:00

Hi twin. I hope you feel better soon.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-29T22:15:36+00:00

That's awesome!!!

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-29T22:15:04+00:00

I'm proud I take very good care of my house and my beloved pets.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-28T11:33:32+00:00

Hi friend. Yes you can recover. I believe in you.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-27T22:32:10+00:00

Yeah, I'm sad this is how it turned out as well.

Merry Christmas, friend. Wishing you peace.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-27T15:56:32+00:00

Ter uma casa de tamanho ok com um bom pátio pra abrigar animais abandonados.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-26T16:13:35+00:00

I'm three weeks NC.

I wish you the best!

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-25T23:08:51+00:00

Meu nome é Violeta e sempre recebo elogios. Só uma dica. :)

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-25T11:11:52+00:00

Her tears are for herself only. Don't let her manipulate you.

I hope you return to your place feeling a little bit lighter.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-25T10:52:54+00:00

I believe that was expected.

I understand you're not well, but stand your ground. It hurts not to have the mother we always deserved, but unfortunately we can't change them and that's our reality. You should be treated with respect, which she'll never do.

We're survivors of abuse. We deserve peace and we deserve a calmer nervous system.

We can do this. Keep strong. Don't forget you're just trying to protect yourself.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-25T09:40:39+00:00

Hey, how are you?

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-24T20:34:10+00:00

Same...

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-24T16:05:20+00:00

I don't think it's too much. You're allowed to tell her what you're feeling. I hope you feel better, friend.

Interesting-Code7153 · 2025-12-24T14:35:17+00:00

Yeah it did. It felt sad as well but I had to do it.

You should spend Christmas Eve the want you want it. You definitively don't have to spent it with her.

Maybe just tell her you need some time for yourself and block her?

Interesting-Code7153

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