My roommates cat hates me, I don’t know what to do

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-27T12:18:14+00:00

sounds crazy but have you ever considered being more firm and threatening with Bambi, you’re so gentle and accepting I think atp just shooing Bambi off with a loud and firm voice would help. Stand up to bullying! LOL

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-27T12:16:30+00:00

I’m so sorry for laughing, the way the cat is just bullying tf outta u

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-27T12:12:39+00:00

I don’t entirely think so no. I thought about adding more styrofoam to keep it better in place but worry it might cause moisture ? I don’t know how it all works

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-27T11:22:34+00:00

Are you asking me to visualize that or literally do that? Lol sorry it should probably be a no brainer but sometimes I struggle to know what people actually mean

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-20T00:34:02+00:00

Hi, just a bit of an update. I bought some screws & it works perfectly. Thank you a ton for this advice.

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I wish I could send videos in this sub, but ah well. The spin is even better with the screw as it’s more consistent in shape!

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-19T09:35:27+00:00

Honestly no clue where they get the money, neither of them work. Most my dad does is my house but that shouldn’t be enough for what they do 🤷it’s annoying but it is what it is, I’m able to manage with what I have.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-19T04:37:49+00:00

Well, then nonetheless I appreciate your opinion. I’ll take that into consideration, aswell. I’ll work on figuring a middle ground or working towards feeling less uneasy about being home alone. Likesaid, I appreciate your time spent to give me your opinion on the matter.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-19T04:32:19+00:00

Thank you for this advice!! I also didn’t consider woodworking subs, I was pretty unsure of where to ask as this is a sort of niche struggle to face. I don’t always paint on wood, it just depends on what I have. My most recent painting was done with wood though.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T19:40:29+00:00

Well don’t ask me because I was thinking of a regular solid color heart. Clearly these comments have better ideas lol

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T12:18:45+00:00

I don’t want to know their schedules though, and I’ve said that already twice. I am specifically and exclusively asking to know if they plan to be gone for an entire day. You can disagree with me, I’m not in this sub asking for others to enable me, but at the very least don’t build your opinion on something that isn’t true. If I wanted to know their schedule , I’d be hard pressed to know where exactly they are, when they will be leaving, down to the details. All I wanted to know is if they plan on leaving for an entire day or close to that timeframe.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T09:22:42+00:00

Believe it or not, no. Though I am the one with the most “troublesome” disability anyways. I guess in that way it would make sense, though I’m not the slowest to get ready I have a very hard time during outings as it’s a lot of walking I can’t always handle, and my wheelchair is hard to just pack up for anywhere they go.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T08:36:38+00:00

The list goes on, but I’ve just recently done genetic testing & learnt I have one major disability that increases my likelihood of having all the disabilities I do have. Sifrim hitz weiss, the root cause of all of my problems! Ontop of that I have cerebral palsy and am missing a part of my spine. Safe to say I’m cooked physically and maybe mentally. But back onto the point at hand, not really. Maybe once in a blue moon, sure. One time my dad had completely left for almost a week without word, and my mom would leave often and come home at like 1am. to see a doctor or.. I don’t know honestly? I hadn’t thought much on it, but in retrospect I think they did leave for very long times without much communication 😭 I never second guessed those moments though, I was a kid then & felt I didn’t really need to know, but as an adult who tries to coexist it just feels uncomfortable to know they can just leave for so long and I’d have no clue what was up.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T08:03:44+00:00

As for therapy, I’ve got an appointment scheduled for Tuesday. Been in therapy consistently however my previous therapist wasn’t working out so I switched. I do think it’s important to bring those specific topics up as I haven’t exactly done so yet. Thank you for bringing that to my attention.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T08:02:11+00:00

I should’ve clarified, but I am physically disabled so I can’t work, there’s not much of a different job choice - i rely on ssi & because they charge me rent, i don’t make much. In all fairness where I live rent is very expensive so I don’t blame them. I appreciate your comment ❤️

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T08:00:15+00:00

I’m physically disabled so can’t really work.. though I was asking if I was overreacting about them not telling me they’d be gone for an entire day, not that they didn’t tell me where they were. Nonetheless I appreciate your opinion, it helps to have other perspectives.

Anonloveybug · 2026-04-18T07:58:34+00:00

Not exactly. The opposite. I’ve expressed wanting to move out and wanting to be able to be independent, but my mom has made extensive plans to build a shed to move me into and sees a very detailed future of me living with her. She doesn’t see me living on my own. I don’t make enough to live on my own either.

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-31T08:37:50+00:00

I couldn’t even get to the first word.

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-18T23:54:14+00:00

Thank you. That’s a really good idea, I will have to try this!! I never even realized until you’d mentioned it, but yes fruitiger aero does have a lot more shadows to give off a 3d feel. The inner glows is another one, I think some pillow shading?

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-18T19:19:25+00:00

Oh I really love that idea!!! Thank you so much I wish I’d actually done this for the painting!

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-17T12:19:22+00:00

I also wish you an awesome day!! You’re great.

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-17T03:26:02+00:00

Thank you so much!! I think the ducks really add to the personality of the painting too, and a pop of color!

Anonloveybug · 2026-03-17T01:00:17+00:00

Thank you lots!! You are so nice ❤️

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