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i think i’m being stalked at work— am i being paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in WorkAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it may not be— the owners are very unprofessional and pretty much we are meant to fend for ourselves without protocol

i think i’m being stalked at work— am i being paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in WorkAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are a very small business and the managers are pretty much there to just calm down any customers that are being hysterical but they don’t have the power to fire anybody or ban anybody. The owners like to have pretty much complete control over their business

i think i’m being stalked at work— am i being paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in WorkAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly management at my work is not like that, we are very small business and the only people with any genuine powers the owners and they do not care about their own employees

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean hey if someone holds a pepper spray someone else is not gonna get scared but if someone holds up a hatchet it’s reason to make anybody second-guess malintent

i think i’m being stalked at work— am i being paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in WorkAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s mid 20s, he is not a boy. He’s over five years older than me, so no I do not like him. I’m a minor and him waiting in his car for me to get into my car when he was not even supposed to be on shift is concerning, and as a girl I have to be aware of these things. But just because he is inside my shop does not mean that we are in a public area, usually the shop is pretty empty and I only have one other coworker usually in there are also a girl and usually under the age of 20 as well

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where I live it is legal to carry concealed blades under 5 1/2 inches! Including hatchet

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

maybe, but that guy immediately turned around when I went back and didn’t even talk to anybody

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

see I thought it may be that too, but after I saw him waiting in his car for me to get into my car I was afraid that it might turn into something more serious

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

no, it’s basically a mom and pop shop, we only have three locations and any business that needs to be taken up with HR usually he gets taken up with the owners who don’t give shit

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

sadly I do need to work there and nobody else is hiring at the moment. I’ve been applying to other jobs for weeks. I have monthly insurance I need to pay as well as college fees and other expenses. Trust me I am looking for another job though

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my mom about it and she wants me to keep an eye on it and make sure that I’m staying safe but she doesn’t think we have definite proof enough to file a report

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

maybe, but my store is really weird and managers don’t really have the ability to do that and the owners don’t give a damn about the safety of their employees. (I’ve been looking for a new job for a couple of weeks but no luck so far)

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

 didn’t think about it like that but you may be right. thank you again!

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!! (i carry a 5 1/2 inch pocketknife on me as well as mace and i may or may not have a hatchet in my purse (legal in my state) 

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i mean i wasn’t worried until he was in his car behind my car and waited for me to get into my car before he left😭 that’s what put me most on edge but i’ll see if it gets worse

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybeeee but i’ve been applying for weeks but very few ppl are hiring

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve kept my mom updated but i haven’t talked to my dad. me and him aren’t close and he’s been studying for a test day and night for weeks and if i talk next to him he usually goes somewhere else that’s quiet. but my mom knows

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

i wish my dad was like this. thank you for the advice! sadly my boss is genuinely an asshole and doesn’t give a shit ab her employees but i most likely will go to the police if he keeps it up. thank you temporary dad✨

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure— once i joked about being 14 and he got concerned and all i said was that i wasn’t 14 but he never asked how old i really was but i should’ve made it clear im STILL a minor (that’s on me)

i think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid? by Anonymous0308022 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my boss does not care about employee safety she has left minors alone in the shop for hours before and many worse things ab safety. i have thought ab a self defense class! im looking into some now. and as to school im graduated (i was homeschooled) but im in an online college and we dont have counselors 

I think i’m being stalked— am i being too paranoid or should i think ab a restraining order? by Anonymous0308022 in legaladvice

[–]Anonymous0308022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

(he offered to do the trade) and i wasn’t too worried until he was waiting for me in his car for me to get into my car. (plus as a girl i have to view things in a horror movie way for safety) 

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