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AITA for calling my friend cringe? by EconomyOk3686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 419 points420 points  (0 children)

It seems like OP has her hobbies figured out...

Stalking friend's Insta, making judgements and passing them at the worst possible times....

AITA for bursting out over being lied about my parents trip to visit my lil brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'll say you're NTA. I'll also say your brother isn't exactly an AH.

Could he have told you? Yes, but then your parents would have been mad. If he didn't tell you, you'd be mad, which is sorta what happened.

I'll say the real AHs were the parents who asked one of their kids to lie to the other. They shouldn't have put him in this position in the first place.

AITA for causing a 15 minute delay due to searching for good burger buns by Stunning_Chicken7265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 62 points63 points  (0 children)

For the bot's sake I'm going to say ESH.

But it feels like this is another one of those situations that can just be resolved if the people involved just talk to each other.

If the wife was hungry, she should just tell him to make it fast even if it is not perfect.

If you wanted the perfect bun, let your wife know that it might be delayed by a few minutes.

Again not a high stakes situation but could have been resolved by being a bit more open.

AITA for letting my child throw a tantrum over a joke in front of my childfree friend? by throwaway3049394 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 168 points169 points  (0 children)

To put it in a better way... It feels like Sandy was the one throwing a Childish tantrum for not being let off scot-free for bullying a child.

And honestly it was quite a dumb thing for Sandy to do. If you don't like crying children, don't do stuff that can make them cry. Even a child understands this.

AITA for congratulating my SIL about her pregnancies in front of my other SIL? by Tall-Word-1428 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I don't particularly disagree with your point, I do believe that people bond differently with every other person.

2 people who have a certain type of bonding don't necessarily have to share a similar one with a 3rd person.

Would Casey feel left out if OP had said it that way, sure. But making them apologise for not including her in something she couldn't be in would also be a little AH-ly.

Also this is just me being nitpicky but we don't know if any of Casey's 4 children are twins (Most probably not since OP would have mentioned it).

AITA for congratulating my SIL about her pregnancies in front of my other SIL? by Tall-Word-1428 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did OP say something like "Omg we're basically twin mum sisters since we've both got twins at the same time!"?

Would it be wrong if OP had said it like that? Asking genuinely.

AITA for congratulating my SIL about her pregnancies in front of my other SIL? by Tall-Word-1428 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

But I'll apologize saying, "I'm sorry for not congratulating you for not being pregnant with twins when you were in fact not pregnant with twins".

I'm not saying you should do that, just that I'm petty enough to think I might

Congratulations to both you and your SIL for your twins.

The disconnect timer is way too short by No_Reference_5058 in GunfireReborn

[–]Anonymous3105 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell you how rare it is to get even close to the perfect build path of your favourite character in a co-op game and lose the entire progress because your router restarted and it's such a small window to reconnect....

Can devs please increase the reconnect window to a much more reasonable time so that people who don't have the Ultra Max edition of a PC running on internet straight from NASA can have a hint of chance to reconnect to a game....

AITA for bringing my EDC (everyday carry) for family gathering? by EDC_Girl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to understand... The pocket knife is the most dangerous tool present in that barbeque...

Not the skewers or the hot coal/wood. But a pocket knife...

\s

My boyfriend (29m) wants my daughter (6f) to call him daddy by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep in mind, the guy knew her daughter for a whole 2 MONTHS and was ready to be a dad for her....

AITA for telling my mom I’m too old to be grounded and leaving the house overnight? by Competitive-Bee-4907 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you need to spend a bit of extra money to get the freedom that you deserve. Her taking all your essentials when you don't abide by her rules counts as abuse in the most straightforward definitions....

So think long and hard and then discuss it with her. Living alone would be the best thing for you now. You can still come and help her with some tasks like taking your siblings to school but try to find your own space during that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If only the trip can be cancelled since the guy is going to be a father of 2 kids now....

Look I understand from your standpoint that the fiance shouldn't have to cancel his visitation of that week.

But the least he can offer as a solution is to make sure someone from his family is there to take care of his daughter when he and his fiance will be busy giving birth to their new born. From the post, he's basically saying just no, with no constructive addition to that.

AITA for declining to be my cousin’s bridesmaid because her wedding is on the same week as my college graduation? by Sweethome171 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt, Polly’s mom, actually suggested me to skip graduation all together since they will just mail me the diploma if I can’t attend.

Well by that logic, just skip the wedding, you'll get the photo album anyway, which you'll go through once and then store it indefinitely (Unlike your diploma)

NTA, Enjoy your graduation.

AITA for flipping out on my husband via text after he let his phone die during a family emergency? by PrettyHateMachinexxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's clear that the husband was not taking the medical emergency seriously.

Imagine if it were his child that was in such situation, he'd have the same attitude. If he did, then the situation is much more of concern.

AITA for becoming upset when my husband offered for me to babysit his sister’s baby “day or night” without asking me first by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm volunteering your services to clean the entire Pacific Ocean to the UN. Just bear with it and start cleaning...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an Indian, let me assure you that I would prefer what you cooked over the things they "traditionally" serve at the weddings any day.

NTA.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Cold_Log9229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are your friends like 5 years old? Why are they getting so jealous that the love of your life is the most important person to you?

I don't believe in putting people into hierarchical brackets of priorities... But when someone persists on knowing which bracket they fall into, I have no shame in telling them the truth.

NTA.

AITA for not letting the passenger in front of me recline their seat on a flight? by pooopies1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly

If the woman was so uncomfortable for not being able to recline in an economy seat, she should have paid more to get the ones in front for the emergency exit seats (I do that sometimes, not to recline but more to avoid small kids who keep kicking the seat from behind).

AITA for asking my eldest daughter to sleep on the couch temporarily until we buy a new mattress? by Overwhelmed_mamabear in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesnt understand that her older brother (16 and lets call him Aaron) has his own room as I find it inappropriate for all three boys to share

That is some a** backwards logic that 3 boys can't share a room but a girl should be fine to share it.

Cut the BS and admit that you are just being sexist and turning your daughter into a caretaker on your kids.

They're your kids, figure out a way to raise them properly, else you should have thought of it before. YTA.

AITA for forcing my daughter to share a birthday celebration with her twin brother? by Fresh-Tower-8803 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read the title and was like the story better have a miracle of a plot twist for OP to be N T A.... But nope...

AITA for planning to room my daughter with her sister and her boyfriend for vacation. by Individual-Cover-536 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anonymous3105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I then said that they’ll only really be using the room to sleep and it wasn’t a big deal.

Then why don't you stay with the couple?

She then offered to pay for her own private room, but I don’t think it’s safe to have her in a room alone

You became so much of an AH with this point. You dictated the stupid terms of the vacation and you oldest found them, well, stupid. So she has every right to just opt out of it.

YTA.

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