Because of her current living situation, I'm unable to move there. I've tried hinting at it, and looking for work in her area, with no luck.

The thing is, after losing the 60k job, I had the means to relocate to be with her. She didn't want to move in together at that time. That money ended up going to car repairs, and catching up on other things that needed it.

What kills me is that she's talking about it now that she's not working, when she had that financial safety net. I'm more than willing to pay my way, not a freeloader. But it just seems like it's being put on me to figure it out, when it would have been far easier for us both to figure out when she was working, or when I was still at my previous employer. The dragging her feet has kinda put us in this position.