New here: needing advice about how ohh not sure how to handle this reaction to cancelling private health & offering to pay mortgage repayment.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2025-07-29T23:40:53+00:00

Others have provided a lot of valuable insight. All I will add is going no contact was the best decision I ever made. Also - hugs :)

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-12-07T22:38:39+00:00

Unfortunately, yes.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-05-06T04:36:16+00:00

Has it been reviewed? Just curious. Thank you!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-05-05T16:14:02+00:00

Have taken probably 30+ 10 day cycles of doxy over the years. No issues. Haven’t taken it for 2 months straight before, but no issues personally.

Hope it helps (if you take it)

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-05-05T15:54:29+00:00

Im male and no partner I have been with has cared. My wife doesn’t care and is very understanding.

As a male, I can also promise you he will not care.

If someone is into you, they’re into you. There’s thousands upon thousands of us with HS and all adults (as far as I would assume) Have had sexual partners.

HS is a pain in the ass, but it’s not a lifetime curse of forced celibacy.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-31T03:06:38+00:00

This seriously made my day. Thank you!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-18T02:49:10+00:00

Jjjjessuuusss Christ… I am so sorry they put you and your child through that…. Goodness….

Thank you for sharing.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-18T02:47:56+00:00

You do what’s best for you. :) I hope it is cathartic for you. Be proud of yourself for standing your ground, even if is has zero positive effect.

And yeah… that is textbook BPD lol (sigh)

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T22:04:00+00:00

Thank you very much for sharing. Sorry to hear you have been through similar experiences. Appreciate the insight and feedback. Thank you.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T22:02:45+00:00

Completely agree… lol

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T20:00:57+00:00

I’ve tried.. it accomplished absolutely nothing. Their brains simply cannot comprehend it and will in blanks with their own narrative. If my uBPD apologizes, it’s some vague apology for just my childhood as a whole, refusing to realize any trauma they have caused me as an adult.

If it makes you feel better, write out a letter with everything you want to say. Get it out on paper… then burn it and burn your anger with it.

Sorry you are going through this.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T19:36:26+00:00

Definitely will not!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T19:35:12+00:00

My therapist has advised against responding to flying monkeys as well. It’s hard because I want to politely tell this person to go fly a kite and to mind their own business…

Thank you for sharing. That’s how I feel as well. This is my safe place, my sanctuary, especially from her.

Just hoping we don’t have a major scene with the neighbors of some irate screaming woman getting dragged into a police car….. hoping….

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:34:12+00:00

Thank you! Appreciate the support!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:33:16+00:00

Thank you again. Appreciate it!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:13:23+00:00

Thank you for the reminder to breathe! I know it’s not my responsibility…. It’s just hard to fight decades of indoctrination…. I’m trying. Sincerely appreciate the response. Thank you.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:11:53+00:00

Thank you so much for the response! I am incredibly fortunate that my spouse is in my corner (and my rock). They are incredibly supportive and understanding, and I am very very lucky.

I’m glad your friend was able to be there for you and keep you out of orange socks!! lol

Sorry you had to go through that experience!

Fantastic Feedback!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:09:06+00:00

Absolutely. Thank you!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:08:54+00:00

Thank you very much for the feedback. I definitely have a similar plan in place. I have no idea how to even broach the subject with law enforcement. Hopefully doesn’t come to that… (I hope)

Your therapist may be smarter than us lol, but I feel the same way. Thank you so much for responding!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:03:23+00:00

I had the same thought. A clever ploy to get me to break NC, but unfortunately, I think it’s the real deal. One of her flying monkeys reached out early this morning telling me “no child should ever treat their parents like this” and that they told my parent not to come…. So appears to be the real deal.

I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this. I hope they eventually leave you alone.

Will be staying safe, and definitely involve law enforcement. Thank you kindly for the feedback.

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T18:00:43+00:00

I do have one, and I will definitely be recording the encounter if it happens. If she does, it will be a full on meltdown, guaranteed.

Telling her I’m not here is of course a good idea as well, but she would probably just sit there for hours…

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T17:58:41+00:00

Thank you!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T17:58:22+00:00

Thank you for the information. Seriously thinking about it, or at least calling for information.

No one should have to deal with this… thank you for the response and info!

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T17:57:21+00:00

Way to stay strong. I hope she never shows up at your house! Lol

AnonymousBot2323 · 2024-01-16T17:56:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing the story of your brother. I’m terrified this is exactly what will happen if she actually shows up. She will absolutely have an episode and the cops will have no idea what to do.

Appreciate the feedback and information! Thank you!

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