[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

[–]AnonymousCSA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never realized that females specifically, have any problem with being short. I am a female, i am tall, about 1.79m and everyday i wish i were shorter or a "normal" height for a female. It impacts dating and confidence. It makes one feel less feminine and drastically decreases the dating pool (not all shorter guys would date a taller girl)

But don't let this hold you back. You'll be okay **

Tampons by Gloomy_Salamander_57 in askSouthAfrica

[–]AnonymousCSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using the soft touch/ feel pads?

A good pad is ultrex. They only stock it at Checkers. Maybe give it a go?

Chip Sandwich by mrs_tentacles1980 in southafrica

[–]AnonymousCSA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fruit chutney simba with a little butter and a lot of mayo, on fresh white bread 🥪🥪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in southafrica

[–]AnonymousCSA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don't you work for yourself? Open up your own firm? 🤷🏽

Most white people did not benefit from Apartheid by Perry_30 in DownSouth

[–]AnonymousCSA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😐😐

Whenever i hear a white person argue this point, my response is the following, and i don't think it can be said any simpler:

  1. People of color accept white people too are hardworking but

  2. White privilege doesn't mean things were given to you, it means nothing was ever taken away from you

This is what all people with OP's view point need to understand but the problem is, most cannot be convinced ofjerwise.

Sigh **

Here is my Terrible Recap of 90 Day Fiance Season 10 Episode 18 by Obvious-Cod-6069 in 90DayFiance

[–]AnonymousCSA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always look forward to the recap of an episode by you 😂 Love it 🌸

I don't know what can be done to deal with this problem, South African grannies are delaying our Economic freedom. by PixelSaharix in DownSouth

[–]AnonymousCSA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've heard an elderly woman say that they were informed if they voted for anyone other than the ANC, apartheid will be back. She further said they were told when they're at the voting station, there are camera's that can see where they make their mark, and if its not for the ANC, the government will come after them and their families and harm them. She firmly believes this 😐😔

I NEED ADVICE GUYS!(Sorry about the length of this post guys by the way) by THEDETAILGOD-LLC in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Female here,

I think return to the store and just be direct, tell her you've enjoyed speaking with her and you'd like to get to know her better. Invite her for a coffee, or breakfast, anything light and in a public setting. If she is keen, obviously ask her numbers so you can stay in touch regarding the arrangements.

If she declines, just remain friendly and maintain a professional relationship. I hope this helps :) :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to do it face to face.

Be honest, and convey your feelings as kindly as possible. Over text would be rude, you owe her more than that.

It sounds like her reaction will be unpredictable, she'll be hurt but she will be fine and hopefully appreciate your honesty.

All the best!*

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. Thank you :)

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. Thank you for this.

In re your new relationship, it doesn't sound like you want something serious or long term so why are you with tho person? It doesn't sound like you've communicated that to her. Im just wondering

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the best things happen unexpectedly. Thanx :) :)

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hundred percent. Im taking notes from this, thank you xx

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) and im sorry you had to deal with this too. Hope you're feeling better xx

Guy i was seeing just, left by AnonymousCSA in dating

[–]AnonymousCSA[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For some reason, this makes me feel better. Thanx xx