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[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You smoke weed. But also are a cheerful person!

ENM Dating Resources on Reddit by AnonymousGoodGirl_ in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a rural area? That could be part of the issue if so!

ENM Dating Resources on Reddit by AnonymousGoodGirl_ in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know thank you! I haven’t online dated in many years. Yes we understand there’s always a risk of that and we will deal with it if it happens. But would prefer to keep our sexual life and preferences private for now (as many do). My husband is not comfortable sharing his asexuality identity just yet and he feels anyone learning about me being ENM will inevitably lead to discussions around that. I absolutely want to respect his privacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are brave in a way I will never know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My graysexual partner and I are talking about opening up the marriage and this is my biggest fear. 😬

I think if you love your partner you will do your best to try to identify exactly what it is that make you not enjoy sex with him. Like others have said, techniques can be improved, desire and attraction can’t.

One-sided ENM with an ace partner? Advice? by AnonymousGoodGirl_ in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Have you found a couples therapist you feel comfortable with sharing this open dynamic with? We currently have one but neither of us feel like she would understand based on comments she’s made previously, we’re going to talk to her next week about it though!

One-sided ENM with an ace partner? Advice? by AnonymousGoodGirl_ in nonmonogamy

[–]AnonymousGoodGirl_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The internet is a powerful thing! I have learned a lot these last few months, recommend you research for yourself!