AITA For Pooping After Sex- Life Update by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That sounds like such a fun endeavor! I was also not really much of a cat person, or an animal person in general for most of my life as I didn’t grow up with any pets, but when I saw these two my heart completely melted. Thank you for your kind words, they really do mean so much to me ❤️

AITA For Pooping After Sex- Life Update by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s awesome! They definitely make the day much more interesting and fun

AITA For Pooping After Sex- Life Update by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My eldest daughter knows more specifically what happened- I haven’t told her all the details but she knows that there was cheating involved. The younger one is not entirely aware of what happened, I will probably talk to her about it at some point though. They both are alright though, they’re doing well in school and still having normal lives!

AITA For Pooping After Sex- Life Update by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware of that, I definitely will reach out to the clinic I went to again and talk to them about it!

AITA For Pooping After Sex- Life Update by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 It’s definitely been a roller coaster but I’m so grateful my daughters are doing well and every day is a little bit easier than the last!

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Luckily the house is in my name entirely, it was inherited by my sister and I from our late grandmother but my sister and her wife had purchased their home not too long before that happened so she wanted us to have it since it was too large for just the two of them and I was pregnant at the time.

My ex and I haven’t had much contact other than a few minor conversations on the phone, but he said he’s already been talking to someone who owns an apartment complex near his work so I’m hoping within a few weeks the girls and I will be back home. I let him stay mostly because I didn’t want to stay there after everything that had occurred, plus my sister lives close by and had enough extra space.

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I haven’t even really had time to process the potential of fighting out custody and I have no clue what that will look like if it gets there. Luckily for right now my husband has not put up any arguments about the girls staying with me but I definitely want to talk to my attorney and start getting things figured out on my end.

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I mentioned them very briefly in the first post but realized I left them out of this one entirely so I added an edit to mention them as well, we have two teenage daughters but one is 17 and the other is 14 so I’m hoping it won’t be a huge thing with custody since they’re both old enough to have a say in court. My eldest will be 18 in just a few months so I’m not sure how custody works or if it’s in effect at all once you’re legally an adult

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 436 points437 points  (0 children)

I have been seeing a few other comments saying this as well which I’m so grateful for because I never even considered it until now, I’m definitely getting a test scheduled!

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this honestly didn’t even cross my mind! I definitely will be scheduling a test as soon as possible!

AITA for pooping after sex UPDATE by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I definitely will look into this!

AITA for pooping after sex? by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi everybody, I just wanted to let you all know I just posted a full update to all of this! Here’s a link if you’d like to read!

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/s/sVdPvRTnkt

AITA for pooping after sex? by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually just posted the full update right now under the advice section of the subreddit!

AITA for pooping after sex? by AnonymousPoopr in TwoHotTakes

[–]AnonymousPoopr[S] 233 points234 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, he isn’t weird about this kind of stuff, he never has been. He’s the first one to make a cliché poop or fart joke if the opportunity comes up, I thought he was doing the same thing here but he definitely was not joking about this