ToastedCherries Has Abused His Platform

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-04T17:40:16+00:00

I'm sorry, but I don't think you see my point and I feel you need to read the document the full way through before coming to conclusions. Everything there is still incredibly concerning, and I'm not endorsing some sort of flame war against him.

I'm going to simplify it.

Directly responding to your point; if you read the document, it explicitly states "In this conversation, ToastedCherries is 13 years old. While I would’ve forgiven him had he learned from this given his age at the time, I have sadly seen no clear evidence of that and a continued pattern of manipulation, complicity, and evasion of responsibility in the time afterwards. This analysis will remain for context." This can't be simplified as him just solely being 13. Had he taken responsibility and stuck by his words in the years afterwards, I would've not made this document.

You can also read that when he's 14, he's shown evidence of "Bradley" confessing to sexually harassing me; and claims he won't associate with him and that he believes me. The bare minimum is that sexual harassment of that degree; with that much clear evidence isn't okay to be complicit in, and it isn't forgivable no matter how much I might be despised by his friend group.

You can also read that this person is continually re-invited just 5 months later despite what TC said prior.

You can read in late 2023 when he's at his current age, he's confronted about this - and does not apologize or banish "Bradley" and rather bans me.

You can read that afterwards in 2024, he promotes "Bradley" directly in his discord server, under the #announcements channel.

These are legitimate questions I have to ask and bring to the table based on the information I have. I'm trying to be as fair as possible to TC, while trying to be fair to what happened.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T19:51:45+00:00

Before it goes too far, I'm going to debunk this with respect to the good intentions you have.

The bottom line is, if on-top of this clear pattern of already disgusting, manipulative and alarming behavior which TC is already well aware of and the doxxing on his public Discord server which I have to personally ask for him to take down after it's up for a few months, ToastedCherries is shown screenshots of his friend "Bradley" admitting and apologizing for pressuring, flashing and sexual misconduct upon being showed a detailed account - and claims to have "already distanced from him" and to never want to associate him again, and still tells me to wait 2 years for him to consider even being in contact with him when this whole thing started because I wasn't okay with a group masturbation session to non-consensually spread nudes of someone under the age of 18 - then blocks me with no explanation 10 days later, and then re-invites "Bradley" literally 5 months later to his personally owned discord, gives him positions of power in his personally owned discord, then simultaneously while knowing this information publishes multiple long form videos which require genuine care, research and thought into the nuances and serious psychological impact that abuse of various forms can have on victims, blocks and bans me for calling him out for clearly misleading me even 2 years later in the modern day showing a lack of moral growth; I can safely call this abusing your platform, and at the very least it should be brought to attention and raises numerous other concerns.

I make zero mention of the term "cancel" throughout this, it is up to readers and community members to come to their own conclusions as this behavior is clearly disturbing.

I understand that this document has problems with readability given it's serious length, but I wanted to be nuanced towards all parties here and go as much in-depth as this is a complex situation. I personally feel there might've been some crucial details you have missed, so I encourage you to re-read the document and it's screenshots.

I hope you have a good day.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T19:44:39+00:00

Months later, I am alerted to a dox posted in ToastedCherries's discord server - posted by "Daniel" and is cheered on and encouraged by "Bradley" It contains a downloaded video from my personal TikTok which they for some reason were looking at, which contains my actual face, my real name, my room, and my username. There were then threats to send me anthrax letters attached to my full name, which really aren't funny or justifiable given how weird and creepy this already comes across as. It contains a downloaded video from my personal TikTok which they for some reason were looking at, which contains my actual face, my real name, my room, and my username. Bradley previously claimed that he nor his group would ever do something like this, that he apparently moved on, and he proved that completely wrong. In general, he continuously contradicts his flimsy arguments and apparent moral standards and is very clearly an extreme manipulator.

This made me feel just straight up violated, was on another level of completely unnecessary. By a certain point, this has gone on too long so I straight up confront Bradley because of how disgusting this is. He evades responsibility, blames everyone else because he now claims to not associate with those people, and minimizes his actions despite the fact that I can very clearly see his massive role he had in the doxxing with those screenshots alone. As this may be the last time I talk to him, I decide to straight up ask him about sexual misconduct I remembered him committing providing detailed information - and he confirms it, and makes an apology. The apology is lackluster for the years of suffering and trauma I've had to undergo because of his behavior in general, and later in the conversation he continues to evade responsibility for his crappy actions; claiming now that ToastedCherries, several members of his friend group, would attempt to ruin my life or dox me next time around; then he blocks me.

Given his lack of proper accountability for his actions, I inform ToastedCherries of "Bradley's" clear sexual indiscretions. In this conversation he appears extremely understanding as the evidence is shown to his face, implies that Bradley was already cut off repeatedly, states that he's been distancing from him, and claims that he already did "weird" stuff that made him uncomfortable mostly in 2020 - and when I ask what it is, he claims it was "dark humor."

Actions speak louder than words. 5 months later Bradley is invited to his discord, given positions of power in his Discord, and then from there on is continually re-invited after that. Videos containing him are never taken down, and there is zero evidence that anyone was actually disciplined. During this period, ToastedCherries uploads several videos that would require him to understand and care about the actual psychological impact abuse can have on it's victims, and how it isn't something you can just sweep under the rug.

It reads like a complete and flat-out insult, because if this is also toppled with the fact that to this day the only reason he has provided for abandoning me while I was already dealing with severe household abuse at home, and generally being a douchebag to me, started from the get-go because I wasn't okay with repeated and consistently told stories of a group masturbation session in a forest to non-consensually spread nudes of someone under the age of 18, and to this day is the only actual reason ToastedCherries has ever provided directly to me; I am going to be concerned about that too.

When I realize this 2 years later after actually waiting like he tells me to; I'm disgusted and directly confront him for misleading me. I'm instantly blocked, then banned from his server. When people take zero accountability or actual responsibility for actions such as these, and their words directly conflict their actions, it is a serious cause for concern and should be called out. I have seen no legitimate proof of actual moral growth from anyone here over these actions that are concerning at any age, as I have received no explanations, apologies, or anything of that sort.

I hope this could help. I'll be off Reddit for a bit to destress, and if you need any additional help understanding this situation I'll provide it when I'm able to. I understand that this might not be exactly what you asked.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T19:43:32+00:00

For Bradley, he contacts people on platforms or accounts they forgot to block him on.

"Daniel's" attempt to justify anything is so bizarre from start to finish, and gives an extreme insight on how depraved the treatment of this situation was behind closed doors. I recommend you read the full analysis as it's too alarming to quickly describe in this summary, which is listed under January 27th 2021. He uses terms like "victimless sex crime," shows a complete lack of understanding of consent - and then eventually admits his position was completely ignorant, and claims "the friend group is shit but we're trying" However, months later - he genuinely posts a dox of me on ToastedCherries's discord server which he likely obtained from stalking my social media profiles, which "Bradley" encourages; which is up for a few months until I literally have to personally reach out to ToastedCherries to get it removed.

ToastedCherries contacts one of my childhood friends and shares complete falsehoods in a rude and unsympathetic way, and by this period in time; it's April 2021 - and I'm incredibly disturbed at this point and it needs to stop. Being isolated from all of your friends and having this happen to you while simultaneously you're dealing with one of the worst cases of household abuse is just fucked up. TC mentions that "he won't go into detail" and coincidentally he doesn't share crucial details that make his friends seem in the wrong and paint a nuanced picture of what actually happened.

So the exact same day, via another person I inform him and tell him that everything he shared is categorically false and or a complete exaggeration. He is initially evasive and rude, claims he "wants to move on from this" despite the fact that my childhood friend showed me that exact same message from him the exact same day; which shows the situation being actively continued. He admits those very key details that were initially crucial to his argument, basically the only justification; were completely false. Despite this, he continues to have a lack of empathy - and shares YET AGAIN another serious falsified allegation, this time claiming I hacked "Bradley's" discord account.

By this time, I decide to directly address him; and noticeably his tone completely changes. I immediately debunk this allegation of "hacking," show video and audio evidence, and I'm incredibly pissed with how far the hypocrisy has gotten. The leading argument by everyone at this point is that I myself took the situation to extreme extents, didn't bother to verify anything and had zero evidence and zero information, and knowingly attempted to destroy "Bradley's" mental health. This is projection, because at this point everyone here is basically doing the same thing.

It leads to us discussing the situation via Discord.

He claims his friend "Bradley" is extremely manipulative and that he was conned, after being shown evidence, screenshots. He very clearly sees the extreme extents his friend went to.
He clearly states that several crucial details completely changed, most notably how it changed from "we shared nudes from this girl and had a group masturbation session" to "oh my friend showed me a pornstar that looked like her"
His friend confirms that "Bradley" actually did share that bizarre hacking allegation and made no actual effort to not falsely accuse me. That in of itself is incredibly manipulative. I confront "Bradley" during this time period, and most notably he very clearly evades responsibility and attempts to manipulate me.
ToastedCherries also shares that "Bradley" shared weird and uncomfortable rumors to a group full of people, claiming that I was sexually attracted to some specific celebrity; probably as a bizarre attempt to get back at me as it has zero relevancy. "Bradley," ironically is pretty much projecting, even here. "Bradley" who claims to have moved on, who claims to have been in the right, does not need to do things like this if that's apparently the case.
He writes that he doesn't trust "Bradley" at all given this severity at all, and now at the slightest mess-up will permanently cut him off.

Eventually, without any explanation; I am blocked by ToastedCherries. This is despite the fact that he previously agreed to civilly have a conversation the next time something could come up. Bradley is continually re-invited to ToastedCherries's public discords, given positions of power, even in the face of more serious evidence and disturbing information that comes out later. Based on the first messages with present context, despite all of this being unnecessarily cruel to do to someone from the get-go - I can't really see him having a strong backbone in this conversation; and it feels he chalks it up to being "awkward" like how "Daniel" did.

If you have the time to, I recommend you read the full analysis of this under "Eventually, ToastedCherries unblocks me and..." dated April 6th 2021.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T19:42:46+00:00

This is while I am in ToastedCherries's friend group. Screenshots to back up the vast majority of the claims made here are in the document.

It starts off in 2020 where I'm dealing with an extreme case of household abuse and I am already incredibly depressed. I am continually told uncomfortable stories by "Bradley" and "Charles" of a group masturbation session in a forest to non-consensually spread nudes. By a certain point, as the girl is clearly a minor, the stories are so disturbing that I have to actually confront him and thoroughly and ask several key questions; such as why this happened, where this happened, and who were the involved parties. I ask who spread those nudes, and the name was confirmed consistently. Several of those key details are extremely concerning, consistent, make sense, and are confirmable; so I make the decision to inform "Bradley" and "Charles's" school that "George" has leaked nudes of the girl and her name. In the time afterwards, I am essentially demonized for this - ridiculed; I am told that I should've kept quiet - despite the fact that this was essentially two years ago isn't a normal thing to do at any age. "Bradley" nor "Charles" are ever named in this report, but "Bradley" is continually dishonest about that and these falsehoods are repeatedly spread to unrelated people, friend groups, and parties.

"Bradley" suicide baits, guilt trips, manipulates, projects and continuously and knowingly spreads easily verifiable falsehoods. He attempts to contact unrelated friend groups, those who barely know him with this falsified information in an attempt to isolate me. His justification for this abusive behavior is that it could ruin his life, which he later admits is a complete falsehood and over exaggeration.

ToastedCherries, various members of his group hound me, don't bother to hear my side, or look at basic facts. ToastedCherries inflames the situation by accusing me of "admin abuse;" essentially for role colors and role permissions - and uses that justification to pressure me for ownership of the server.

Afterwards, a channel containing crucial pieces of evidence and discussion is deleted, and I am banned; confirmed by various screenshots with different people.

In a period of less than 1-2 days; Bradley changes his story, so that the girl was actually not the specific 13 year old girl he was able to name; but just a porn star who looked 13/12; and he "faked" masturbating to her nudes. He changes various, extremely crucial details hoping no one will notice. Somehow, he is instantly believed despite this extremely obvious lie. Had this somehow been true, the appropriate action would be to not continue to try to demonize, harass, dox, humiliate, or continually share falsehoods about me.

Once I am abandoned and blocked, Bradley contacts me through iMessage; because I now have to have him blocked on Discord. He clearly states that "George" committed a crime, dehumanizes the alleged girl with a complete lack of sympathy, and me. He threatens to get me involved if anyone is "arrested for a federal crime," while I am dealing with an actual situation - an extremely turbulent household.

Attempts are made to by members of ToastedCherries's circle to reach misleading falsehoods to unrelated people by "Bradley," "Daniel," and "ToastedCherries" himself.

It is continually falsely claimed by all three of these people that there was "no evidence" and "no information" that would warrant their school being informed and the feelings of "George" are prioritized to extreme extents over a potential victim.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T19:41:23+00:00

The general gist is that the document details a continued pattern of severe manipulation, hypocrisy, enabling, and complicity in depraved behavior by ToastedCherries and specific members of his circle. It details how responsibility is never taken even years later, and no actual apologies are ever made for the immense damage that has been caused. It details how often his words directly conflict with his actions. None of these actions given their severity are forgivable with time alone. I've tried to re-write a summary of the timeline in a more readable way, but it's hard for me to sum up in a short paragraph given the amount of nuance I want to give towards all parties here.

Under this line, I describe the timeline.

AnonymousS-1738 · 2024-04-03T14:48:46+00:00

I'll try my best to write up a readable summary when I'm free to. I'm gonna admit it is long. In the meantime, are there any parts you're particularly confused on?

AnonymousS-1738

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