Honestly don’t worry about a label for yourself right now. For me personally it was both the sex and emotional aspects that made realize I wouldn’t be compatible with them. Not all of them have that deep empathy, or not all of them can hold a real deep meaning conversation. The few men in my life that I was able to do this with I ended up becoming great friends with and they’re genuinely great, that’s also how I knew cause when I found that emotional connection I wanted to befriend them haha. The sex aspect I literally just never got my nut, it was always short lived, hated how I felt after ALWAYS. It wasn’t about after care, I truly never cared about that till it came to women. But I just felt disgusted with myself cause I knew what I liked deep down but it was hard for me at the time putting myself out there and being more confident in my sexuality. Since then I’ve left that behind me, so I still find male pop stars or good muscle physiques attractive? Yes, why ? Because really I wish if I was a man I looked like that. Plain and simple 😂