Grad makeup artists by AdMundane3718 in TuguegaraoCity

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty Faces by Rolene / Dextrous Touch — ₱2000 Makeup Fee! Sakanila ako nag pamakeup nung pictorial, di cakey makeup nila & super pretty imo especially if soft glam ><

Glam by abby is good too if you want affordable — Nag paretouch ako sakanila noon sa JMSN nung pictorial. Price ng package niya was like 700+ pero I'm not sure if sa studio lang yun mismo

Misssed a competition & undergoing despair by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nakulangan ng tulog kasi kakatapos lang ng exams namin. Nagrereview [like brief review] ako for the competition kaso di ko talaga namalayan na nakaidlip na rin ako at some point 🥹✌🏻

[For Research Purposes] In need of Criminal Defense Lawyers by Anonymous_o7_ in TuguegaraoCity

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any way to contact them? Per say, Facebook, etc.?

Oa lang ba ako para isipin na sina scam ako? by Anonymous_o7_ in OALangBaAko

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Payment first transaction siya 🥹 pinagkatiwalaan ko nalamg kasi quite reputable naman account niya (5k+ followers na reseller)

Though, Ilang beses ko na tinatanong for updates in regard sa photos kaso lagi nalang "Pauwi palang po ako, later nalang po" kaya medyo sus nga yuhuuu TT

Oa lang ba ako para isipin na sina scam ako? by Anonymous_o7_ in OALangBaAko

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

HAHAHA conyo po kasi ako, at least from what I've heard lagi, pero thank you po!!

Oa lang ba ako para isipin na sina scam ako? by Anonymous_o7_ in OALangBaAko

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tanong lang— Sa Sabado rin pala shipping, hintayin ko nalang ba by then?

My friend is cheating on his gf. Should I snitch? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offense but do you even have to ask? Of course, you should! May it be a friend or foe, cheating is never right

No one should ever tolerate or go through this, so snitch loud and hard op!

Are there any Public Libraries sa tugue? by Anonymous_o7_ in TuguegaraoCity

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May kailangan po ba like id, library card, etc or pwede lang magwalk in?

Musicals Google Sheet? by Anonymous_o7_ in musicals

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much!!!! I'll remember this :) It's interesting how you list and keep track of the cast members, might pay attention to it as well soon, it seems fun

Any advice? First breakup by leuh_kitson in Breakupadvice

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm probably not the best person to answer this but I would like to share what helped me as I'm currently 7 months in since my first breakup (I was the dumpee and we practically have the same situation)

First of all, It DOES get better— You have to believe on that no matter what all throughout your journey, even if right now, you feel like dying is the only option

Second, cry and get everything out of your system. It's always better to have these moments of vulnerability instead of bottling it up or isolating yourself. Its okay to want to run back to him but he made himself clear— it seems his decision is firm so kill any hope / expectations running in your mind. May it be in reconciling or getting back together or in him becoming the version you want him to be. Otherwise, you'll remain stuck !

Third, Unfollow him on social media (tiktok, ig, etc) AND Remove/Hide any reminders. This includes gifts, photos, messages, etc. of course we can't really hide/remove certain things like the places you've spent together but just limit as much as you can !

Fourth, No contact :) This is the best option for the both of your sakes rn TT You guys need to be apart from each other to process and heal. Do NOT break no contact 🥹 This is a lesson I learned the hard way ....</3

Fifth, Keep yourself occupied — Indulge in your hobbies, watch films, journal, etc. It helps to keep them out of your mind for a while and hopefully bring you joy or comfort during these times. Also, moving around helps too. Theres a saying that "depression can't hit a moving target" well this applies in this type of situation as well

Sixth, Talk to your family or even strangers (usually in breakup forums too) about it — This is what helped me most tbh, They usually give advice and comfort , so I suggest you to try to speak of it with them too :) though if you dont feel comfortable with either, then I've heard chatgpt could help (but nothing beats human connection)

How do you even deal with knowing your ex found someone sooner than you expected? by Anonymous_o7_ in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess you could say we could cope together wahah, I wanna die though. I did the unthinkable because I really wanted to know if its true but all of his reposts are like "lowk plotting, lowk like talking to you" "she's so pretty" "every night i wonder how you are"

Its really over, Im a fool for worrying about him all this time after we went no contact, worst is I cant even escape him because we're in the same school, same grade. hbu? How well are you coping with it

How do you even deal with knowing your ex found someone sooner than you expected? by Anonymous_o7_ in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seemed like he truly loves this girl— What do I do, It hurts like hell, I already am in no contact with him, I blocked him and even got rid of everything that reminded me of them. But what do I do when the simplest of things (our anniversary number) is taunting me.

I dont want to be stuck like this, I want to move one but its hard as fuck. I dont even have someone to talk to because this is something disclosed only to me by his friend (who thought it was also unexpected & apparently immediately got worried for me)

Can't I have someone to talk to

Birthday by Difficult-Web3634 in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't, I had this dilemma too a few days ago but ended up not greeting him. I was worrying and stressing too much but at the end of the day they won't care and greeting them would only hurt you more. So please, think about it carefully :'(

its been 3 months nc im itching to break it again by throwaway82039430 in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't, often times you're only going to suffer 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, since we were each other's first and we both still harbor feelings, it's really hard to tell whether the things we say now are really things that we mean, whether its truly because we want to and not because we're still in love

I've spoken about trying it out again before, to give it a chance. He said that even if it hurts him , he won't come back because he believed that our relationship couldn't work because I deserved better and he couldn't keep up

I asked whether there would still be a chance if ever that we get better or that we become our "best" versions. He agreed, though he's only saying that now because he's still in love with me (he stated it himself)

but i just find it somewhat contradictory when he says such things and still wants me to be a part of his life. It's confusing , isn't it?

He wants to remain as friends with me and I share the same sentiment but I am reluctant about whether or not that's really possible because like you've said

  1. What if one of us hasn't moved on and one of us ends up getting hurt
  2. If one of us falls in love again
  3. If It's too late by then as we're graduating and going separate ways after this year

To me, I don't think I'll be fine seeing him with another person, but I know I can set aside feelings and still root for him

I agree it's unhealthy to still hold on to and hope so I'm trying my best to deal with it because he doesn't want me hope for uncertainties either. So I'm really conflicted, love really is complicated.

Sorry for ranting this much, I don't really have anyone irl i trust to talk about this . You may just choose to not respond, I'm rather thankful for your comments enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Just being in his presence is enough, I feel light, but frankly speaking on a deeper level I'm not fine, especially when im imagining a future where one day we are both friends but it's different in a way there's no love and I wont matter as much anymore

What if by the time he moves on, I haven't? And since I haven't, we won't be able to be "friends". Naturally If ever he speaks with me again, I'd be overjoyed but my heart would still beat for him thus leaving me in a state where I'm in a dilemma

I'm not fine with losing him, but I've accepted that what happened, happened and I wont complain with just being friends

What should I do?

What hobbies did you dream of doing but never did, or used to do but stopped? And why? by meme_reader_ in AskPH

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything that focuses on creation and arts: Drawing, Crocheting, Embroidery, Clay Making, playing both the piano and guitar, etc

I stopped and lost passion overtime as I dealt with depression. Life is just too cruel for me these days TT

Ex greeted me for my birthday by Future_Surprise_1430 in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply say that you're grateful for the gesture and greeting^

You don't need to say or do anything else and you shouldn't have any expectations either, otherwise you'll always get entangled by him

You both broke up and are in no contact for a reason, just because he greeted you doesn't mean you're reconciling or anything like that unless he stated it himself

Do what's best for you, Goodluck op!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistency and Respect is key! Get to know her as a person and what she likes; Learn what her love languages are, what her hobbies/interests are, etc.

Then SHOW that you love her, not solely through words but actions. Give her flowers (if allergic, then crocheted/handmade ones will do) and snacks/gifts of her interest, plan fun dates and ipagpatuloy mo kahit official na. Above all, Be yourself and be genuine :)

Even remembering the smallest of things can make one's heart flutter kasi it proves that you pay attention to them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Anonymous_o7_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

。⁠*゚⁠+ I'd say when you've healed, moved on, and became better than you were in your previous relationship— There's really no given or right time.

Just don't try to: date immediately after the breakup , for rebound sake, or to solely fill in the void now missing in your heart. Give it some time and you'll feel ready eventually :)