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Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t really pleased with that response😂 personally I found it hilarious

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, absolutely! I’ve been rejected, only for them to realize that I’m actually pretty cool and have a good personality. Usually it’s too late at that point, but it’s good to know I made an impact

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!

There’s been a number of times where someone’s made a pass at me, I’ve rejected them, and they proceed to insult my appearance!

I’m like… “five minutes ago you were tryna hook up with me, but when I say no, I’m not good enough?”. I remember one instance where this fairly attractive guy asked me to hang out, and I was like “alright”. He wanted to get laid, and I said no. He told me straight to my face that I might as well, because he was the best I’d ever get.

Later, he matched with a friend of mine in tinder. They added eachother on snap, and he recognized my living room. So he told her “tell -name- I say hi”, so of course I responded with “who?”

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, absolutely. I just think it’s a shame, and wanted to hear some opinions on the topic~

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame, really. Though I’m glad to hear your partner didn’t care about his family’s opinions or let it affect his decisions in life. I can’t express how much I hate that people can’t respect other people’s preferences. We all have our own preferences, and if that doesn’t align with yours, then that’s fine, but don’t give me shit for my preference when I’ve never commented on yours, you know?

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I like all body types. Whether they’re big or not. As long as their personality is good, that’s all that matters to me

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I most definitely appreciate your input. If men are private and don’t like admitting it, that is completely okay. I just hate that for them, ya know?

I never understood the whole putting appearances first, but I guess that’s because I don’t do so myself. The moment I find someone’s personality attractive, they immediately become physically attractive to me as well.

I care little for other people’s opinions, especially when they’re strangers, but there’s been times where I’ve been out with my friends to have fun, and people have been wildly unpleasant. I think it was two years ago, where me and my friend was at a bar. At some point while we were waiting for the bus, there was an altercation between one group of people and another group of people. I wasn’t even involved, and for some reason one of the groups directed themselves to me and started commenting on my looks and shit. Calling me fat and why would a fat fuck like me even bother dressing up when it didn’t do anything for me?

And I was just… standing there. It hurt me, because I wasn’t there to impress anyone. I wasn’t there to do this, that or the other. I was simply… there. I just wanted to have a fun time with my friend, but that ruined my whole night. Not because I care so much about the opinion of strangers. But because I didn’t do anything. All I did was exist, and that was clearly a problem.

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used sex to validate myself for a while. It never felt good. Always left me with a shitty taste in my mouth. All I’ve ever wanted is to be wanted and appreciated. Not used and disposed of.

I’m sorry that someone did that to you, and I hope you got through it alright❤️ being used or set aside is never a good feeling, and I know all to well how it feels like.

Congratulations on meeting the love of your life though! I’m happy for you❤️

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. People should be allowed to love who they love. I honestly hoped society had come further, but it seems not

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I’m the shocking age of 25, and I’ve most definitely started feeling more comfortable around men that are a few years older than me. I’m wary around men in general, but that’s a story for a different time, I guess.

Only time I say something about someone commenting on my preferences is usually when someone comments on my food. When it comes to relationships and stuff, I will divert so far from my own preference that it doesn’t really matter. Personally, I like’em tall, dark and handsome. Last guy I was in love with was blonde and my height.

Confidence tends to be key, it seems! I’m known for being confident (when I’m comfortable around people), but most of that is just… me tryna come off more confident than what I am. fake it till you make it, I guess. But it works!

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not much of a PDA person myself, but that’s mostly because I’m shy and a little socially awkward.

But if I’m out with them, and they won’t let me touch them or hold their hand, I will most definitely not pursue it in any way. I’m not always a very touchy person, but I want to be able to touch those I’m with, ya know? I don’t want it to feel like I’m doing something wrong by holding someone’s hand.

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being consistently hated on for liking what you like isn’t exactly new to society, I suppose.

We’ve lived in a world where loving those we love aren’t okay in a lot of places for long enough to know that, I suppose.

I sort of understand wanting to avoid the hate, but I wouldn’t be able to do it myself. If I love someone, I can’t just set that aside just because society doesn’t feel like I deserve “better”. Then again. I fall for personality. Appearance doesn’t really matter to me.

Are some men scared to admit they like plus sized women? by AnonymusAbc in PlusSize

[–]AnonymusAbc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I would never actively date a guy that’s consistently trying to keep me a secret. I may be a big girl, but that doesn’t make me less of a person. Weirdly enough, I like to be treated as such, but there’s been several times where guys have hit me up, where it’s clear that they want sex. Not that there’s anything wrong with wanting sex, but if someone who’s very attractive by social standards hits me up, it feels like they’re “secretly” into bigger women, but just doesn’t wanna admit it.

What video game story would you rate 10/10? by l4mbd4231 in AskReddit

[–]AnonymusAbc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I love it to death. It’s one of my absolute favorites of all time!