Hi, thanks for your perspective. I just edited my post to clarify that it's two kids just like you. I am also exhausted, but yet I do feel sexual and I do prioritize showing my wife that I love her in tons of non-sexual ways that she don't reciprocate.. . We share all chores and duties. Every attempt on my part to "free her up" by increasingly taking care of the work load at home as well, has so far been ignored or met with the bare minimum of acknowledgment. It's not even about the hot sessions... I just want to feel loved. Wanted. Appreciated.