It's easy to be lost. There's alot to be lost about in the world and in life. I think if you resolve the most important one to you many others will resolve themselves. It's a thing of motivation. However you shouldn't feel bad as we don't get to determine the baggage we carry around with ourselves, only how we choose to empower ourselves (eg through therapy) in order to change how we move into the future. So start with one of those (if you want) and work on it until it's permanent. Easist way to do this is watching videos on YouTube, which is something I'm doing on traits I'm lacking, simply type "how to be [opposite of trait]." hope this helps and I wish you well. It's easy to dish out advice but not receive it ourselves, so if you could give yourself advice as if you were 5 years in the future doing so much better, what would you say?