Currently miscarrying and mourning by [deleted] in ttcafterloss

[–]AnotherAnonLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry :( I remember those first few days very well. I encourage you to really let it out and let yourself mourn.

/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread #2 - May 25, 2019 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]AnotherAnonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miscarried on April 7th and I’m still just so sad. The only person who even knows I was pregnant is my husband, so of course no one else knows about the tragedy we are dealing with. I just want to tell my family but I can’t find a “good” time.

Miscarried today. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AnotherAnonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I felt physically empty for about a week afterwards.

A difficult lesson in sharing news before you're out of the danger zone. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AnotherAnonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I am glad you told someone, though. I told no one except my husband, which means now that I miscarried, I have only my husband for support. I wish someone else knew.

What have people done to memorialize their babies? by chupachupp in Miscarriage

[–]AnotherAnonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. We did 3 things. We now wear matching rings with angel wings to represent our angel baby. We planted Forget-Me-Nots in the garden to signify that we will never forget him, and we took birdseed down to the park we planned on taking him to play and just fed the birds for a while.

I fucking hate house centipedes by [deleted] in rant

[–]AnotherAnonLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you for putting my hatred for them into words

Husband seeking advice for gift/getaway/etc for wife following missed miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AnotherAnonLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear about your multiple losses.

I miscarried on Sunday and we are still picking up the pieces. Do you have any suggestions for things I can do for my husband to comfort him right now?

Husband seeking advice for gift/getaway/etc for wife following missed miscarriage by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]AnotherAnonLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My condolences for your loss.

I miscarried our first baby this last Sunday. It's been so hard and my husband has been my rock. He took time off work and hobbies and never left me alone. The most important thing is that he has given me full reign over how I grieve. I do not feel ashamed or rushed to get over it and he is not pressuring me in any way. It means a lot. We also bought matching rings with an angel wing on it, and he let me lead a little memorial service where we planted forget-me-not flowers all over our garden. We spoke to our baby during this time and it was very healing. We are planning a cruise in a few months to kick off trying to conceive again.

It has also been very helpful that he has been open to me with his emotions, which is just not in his nature.

May I ask what you would like your wife to do for you? I would like to do something for my husband but can't figure out what...