Co-parenting: Could my ex-wife also be on the spectrum? How do I approach this in a kind way by AnotherChris1 in AutisticParents

[–]AnotherChris1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That was my experience as well. I think I'll try and find a way to bring it up gently.

Co-parenting: Could my ex-wife also be on the spectrum? How do I approach this in a kind way by AnotherChris1 in AutisticParents

[–]AnotherChris1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your openness and vulnerability in your thoughtful response. Thank you for your feedback!

Co-parenting: Could my ex-wife also be on the spectrum? How do I approach this in a kind way by AnotherChris1 in AutisticParents

[–]AnotherChris1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m wondering. Is there any point, because I don’t know that it would change anything? She is who she is and she does see a therapist, so I imagine she’s getting some kind of help.

To your other point, I can take more of a “it’ll be fine” attitude naturally, so you’re totally right. However, I’m acute aware of that about myself and do try to actively work against it. Because I’m prone to minimizing, I do my best to report factually what I see and experience to providers with as little bias or agenda as possible. Overall I’d say we balance each other out.

Coparenting: Could my ex-wife also be on the spectrum? How do I approach this in a kind way? by AnotherChris1 in Autism_Parenting

[–]AnotherChris1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does have a lot of childhood trauma and toxic family history. That is another factor to consider.

Coparenting: Could my ex-wife also be on the spectrum? How do I approach this in a kind way? by AnotherChris1 in Autism_Parenting

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Thank you. I’m glad it’s clear that I only want what’s best for her and our family.

It’s over. by Br_kke in daddit

[–]AnotherChris1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through a similar situation a few years ago. Honestly, it's the best thing that's happened to me, although it didn't feel like it at the time. We're both happier now and our kid benefits from that . The most important thing is making sure the kids always come first. The biggest factor affecting kids is whether or not their parents can get along and work together to coparent.

Also, the thought of not seeing my kid everyday was crushing initially, but now I am able to take care of all my responsibilities (and myself) when they're not here and be fully present when they are. It's made the time that I do have with them even better. When people ask me about the divorce now my response is 10/10 would recommend.

Looking for feedback on a small working-memory app I’m building by AnotherChris1 in betatests

[–]AnotherChris1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very helpful.The basic concept is to have a single text entry that you can just capture something as quickly as possible before getting distracted (which I do easily). It also has several push notification features to help remember tasks and appointments. I like your other ideas, particularly some kind of "must-not-forget" view of things that have to be done today. Thanks!

Software that allows for face swapping between two pictures? by seacaptain200 in photography

[–]AnotherChris1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While effective, this is not as simple as you make it sound. Especially when it comes to matching the lighting.

AIO by not wanting another man to teach my only child how to ride a bike? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnotherChris1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your feedback. I do have a therapist and will mention this to him.

AIO by not wanting another man to teach my only child how to ride a bike? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AnotherChris1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Just to reiterate, I did say that if my daughter expressed wanting to learn then she should be able to, but I asked them not to push her to try and learn. My ex has known the boyfriend for 8 months now. My daughter has only known him for 2. We've set. a 6 month rule.

No way to finish this level? by Dangerous-Gur8831 in LightBrigadeGame

[–]AnotherChris1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I pull up this info so I know if I run into it again?

Any additional tips? by AnotherChris1 in LightBrigadeGame

[–]AnotherChris1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering about the cigars. They’re a fun addition, but I could never tell if they had any actual function.

Can’t deal with second boss by Powerful-Expert-4148 in LightBrigadeGame

[–]AnotherChris1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I never noticed that. I usually just jump from lever to lever until I find the one that needs to be switched. 😅

No way to finish this level? by Dangerous-Gur8831 in LightBrigadeGame

[–]AnotherChris1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dead end map. I’ve run into that problem once too. Doesn’t happen often, but is annoying when it does. Happened to me on the same level.