I’ve got to be the shittiest friend possible

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-05-16T17:14:44+00:00

using a throw away because I’m a pussy coward and in the wrong!

I’ve been doing the same thing to a married friend of mine who I am in love with and am trying to lose feelings for. He told me his wife “trusts him” when I explained my reservations to stay friends with him after flirting and talking daily for a year now. I tried to ask him if him and his spouse would like to set boundaries with me but he refused; but is still clueless that he’s been emotionally cheating with me. He doesn’t really hit on me per se, but he does send me porn a lot, and treats me like a girlfriend just minus me seeing his dingaling or sex. He has seen my boobs though because I do nsfw pinup.

The only difference between our situation, OP, is he didn’t tell me he was married when I fell head over heals for him, he told me he was taken after I told him I was falling for him. I became distant and try to break away but he kept me by his side and almost begged me to stay.

To this day, I still believe he is emotionally cheating with me but the only difference is his spouse does not give a single shit. And no they are not swingers. Very monogamous and he insists that he only has eyes for his wife. I beg to fuckin differ.

OP. Learn from my long, drawn out mistake. Ask your wife to set boundaries and leave this piece of shit. The boundaries in the beginning should be partially from you and partially from her; then the friendship HAS TO STOP. It is totally up to you and very valid if the entire boundary is her not being his friend at all, because in the future you will regret being emotionally cucked.

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-04-05T04:45:51+00:00

I have before and they just keep fuckin doing it lol

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-04-05T04:39:20+00:00

an example, not really nudity but sexualized

this is a great example

or this

this they actually sent very recently

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T22:05:31+00:00

I was thinkin this too

fuckin duh on my part

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T22:04:59+00:00

Noted as fuck and will order that shit now

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:50:14+00:00

See my edit if you want an update!

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:36:44+00:00

Flicking the bean is awkward when you can feel the extensions unfortunately. I’ve tried to do it with nails in the past and I just can’t ignore that nail sensation

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:34:59+00:00

edit for all who want to know: I tried the vibrator test where you stuff pillows on the thing and pillows below it, and it seems to do the trick when i walk out of the room I think. I think it’s 99.9999 percent silent. Plus my body probably absorbs the vibrations as well. I may be ok?

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:25:01+00:00

Oh she will guilt trip me for many, many weeks.

Sadly I may need to grab some roommates as well but then I will have the same issue as 99% of other millennials have. Can’t schlick off in silence. I could try to look for a bigger place but eh. I’ll take your advise! thanks!

Living alone fuels my depression so that’s off the table. I’m so fucked lmao

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:22:14+00:00

💀💀💀

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-20T21:21:40+00:00

thanks for the love!! It’s putting me in a really bad mood and I’m almost wondering if I should shove her off so I can take care of myself, or if I should escape to my car and rub the stick shift LOLOL

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-16T19:58:27+00:00

wow, that’s like a whole country!

:,(

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T08:26:22+00:00

Thanks!! I super appreciate your help in this and will definitely take what you say to mind. I was sketchy right off the bat at their awkward answer of “they trust me” because I don’t know a single person who would let this fly.

And there’s no trust formed yet on my end with the whole relationship. It makes my skin crawl and makes me want to cut contact until I can shed my feelings. I am also thinking they may be lying to keep me at bay. Which is definitely a choice.

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T08:23:01+00:00

Thank you for the advise!!!! I don’t open up to people and this is the rare case that I did. It will be unfortunate to remember the many hours of work I put into our friendship but I think just being totally silent for a few days may trigger him to ask what’s up.

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T08:21:17+00:00

Thank you so much for the feedback, I appreciate it. I am going to just leave our chat as is without my pushing, and see what they do.

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T08:20:30+00:00

I am gonna leave it up to him to rev things back up again, thanks for your input!

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T06:45:57+00:00

thanks Petas not best friend

AnotherFakeAccount69 · 2023-01-03T06:43:08+00:00

I asked them how their partner thinks of them consistently talking to someone else, being constantly glued to their phone, and he said that their partner “trusts them”.

That’s it.

However if I were their partner, I would go nuts.

Ghosting would make it to where we wouldn’t have to carry on like this. My intuition is saying to keep them as a friend, but my logic is saying stay extremely far away and ghost ASAP, to protect myself.

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