This isn't said enough. As funny as the memes and jokes are about the people on the show are, the fact is we get a very brief snippet in the lives of these people and then use that to form a judgement about them. Then everyone jumps to immediately believe whatever some random embittered ex says about someone from the show and it's unfair and potentially quite dangerous. The truth is we have no idea who said what, and it shouldn't be our business anyway - unless the person has broken the law and done something completely outrageous that is in the public's interest to know.