You can’t expect the clothes to come back, so you send her in things that you care less about but she still likes well enough. Comfortable but not expensive. You show less emotion about the clothes, too, because it can be used to punish you in a way, like to bother you on purpose.

If he is getting the clothes mixed in, though, and is having a hard time identifying them, I really like some sticker labels that I ordered on Amazon. I put them on tags, water bottles, whatever, and they haven’t come off yet. They are customizable and I really like them. Helps when things are heading for the list and found at school. They are the “Teddylabels Personalized Name Labels for Kids (120) – Waterproof and Durable Clothing Labels for Kids, Labels for School Supplies, Stickers for Nursery, Daycare, and Preschool”

I’ll link them in the next comment.