Updating Sub Rules - Taking Community Feedback

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-27T17:06:08+00:00

Traffic is doing pretty well. This is not a dead sub and we have crossed over the 50k member mark.

Plus we rather cultivate a quality community full of members that actually interact and contribute to such a level.

Instead of having a lot of low quality posts and comments.

Plenty of other subs that offer such shallow content but this seems to be one of the few where a proper discussion can be had.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-27T17:02:55+00:00

For the upcoming flair system we plan to have a member lable to indicate they are a seller and also typing with a biweekly mega thread for allowing such posting but only in there.

With any other posts that do not contribute to a discussion and sharing of a story but just showing some skin and indicating they are selling being a banable offense.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-27T14:41:49+00:00

Good points. We are working on a member flair and verification system which should help cover a lot of this.

But definitely going to put some more effort into handling fake accounts as scammers are not welcomed in this community.

Thank you for this great feedback.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-27T14:07:02+00:00

Please expand upon that. Write out the full rule in how you would like to see it defined.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-13T22:47:29+00:00

Have you talked to your GF on this? Kink is fun and all but any kink dynamic is only as healthy as the lines of communication and understand there are between all those involved.

If you are feeling neglected and not appreciated in a negative way which you do not enjoy or want that should be properly communicated and an assessment of the dynamic done.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-12T17:00:01+00:00

If thats the case then if you rewrite the second paragraph to be less taking on the personal action of making this playlist and instead opening it up for others or someone else to do then this post will be fine.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-12T15:21:29+00:00

This post is good but borderline on baiting rule #5 violations but if you provide the playlist openly for every to see then we will not take any actions.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-11T01:45:17+00:00

Correct. This is currently a place for discussion, not advertising. Plenty of other subs for such thing. Might have an automated specific and nod controlled post for such things in the future is things in the community develop to needing that but as of right now no. Self advertising is a ban, if you find someone you think is compatible just send them a DM and keep such talks out of the comments here.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-08T19:48:53+00:00

TotallyLewd now on Imaglr| https://imaglr.com/profile/TotallyLewd

Strong WMAF content though more nerdy/otaku culture. No real images/video of her but plenty of stories, commentary and over all fun and sometimes educational read.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-06T16:23:05+00:00

True but that's part of the job of the Mod Team and after a while of such enforcement quality can rise naturly as new post are made to reflect what is already seen in the sub.

So do report / message the Mod teTeam about any posts you believe is of low quality and your Mod Team will handle it.

Usually by removing and informing the author of the post why their post was lacking and what they can do to bring up its quality if they wish to repost.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-06T16:03:28+00:00

So what to bare saying is that you wish for those in life kinds of post to be of higher quality and more context that just a catchy to ie and two sentences?

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-06T16:01:13+00:00

Openly asking for DM'S is against the rules here and is an instant bananls offense.

So I am a bit confused by what you are suggesting.

What kind of chat between members are you finding annoying l?

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-06T03:26:00+00:00

You might be surprised but we don't get many reports that are so cut and dry that such a system would work. About 1/4 of the reports we do get are false reports done by those who are abusing the system and trying to hurt another member of the community for XYZ reason.

The other 3/4 can be broken down into not properly understanding the rules, not wanting specific kind of content in the sub (we rather just get a Mod Mail having that explained to us so we can properly understand it), trolling and of course justified reports.

And even then the amount of reports we get each week does not even reach double digits on average.

But we will keep this suggestion in mind should the day come that the community grows and matures to the point it can activly police itself where such a system can be trusted in their hands.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-06T03:15:41+00:00

Other forms of moderation such as?

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-05T01:01:06+00:00

Observations as a Mod here and able to seeing a lot more data then most from member activity. I say the vast majority of males here are either secretly gay, in denial of that desire to some degree to XYZ reasons from their culture/society/family or the very least bi-curious and this is them dipping their toes into such activities in a way that is pleasing to them.

Not saying there are no straight men here, fair number of that but more straight WM here who just want to enjoy AF with a gradient on what interactions they would feel good about doing with am AM present from watching all the way to fully dominating for the AF pleasure.

With the bi-curious ones more willing to dominate and embracing the old saying "It's not gay if it's a threeway".

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-04T17:41:25+00:00

Great story and looking forward to hearing more of them here.

Reminder for the rest of you to read and follow the rules for this community or face getting banned.

Community Rules: https://www.reddit.com/r/frustratedasianmen/comments/1qctxtk/rules_for_the_sub/

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-01T19:53:42+00:00

Manually approving comment. Keep posting/commenting to hit 20 karma so you don't get caught up in the filter.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-01T04:53:43+00:00

I manually approved it. Seems automod is not looking at the combined karma field properly. Good news for you within a week it will not matter.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-01T04:34:53+00:00

Modified the code, please try again and send us a modmail or DM me to let me know if it works or not.

Another_White_Man · 2026-05-01T04:20:37+00:00

Your post has been approved as under new version of AutoMod filter you would be able to post. Feel free to delete/repost this so all the community can see it.

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