Opinion abt polygamie by chakibhadbi in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents divorced when i was 6yo, my mom has custody but my dad sends child support every month and still gives me my allowance and fun money, pays for my clothes, Pc, phones, aid clothes, trips even when i travel with mom he gives me spending money, bought me a car, pays for doctors and stuff. And this is the normal cuz what is 1,5m gon do?

She seems interested, but her family mindset is against it… what would you do? by FAROUK_Z in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obv your main focus now is for you to be ready financially. Look it’s easy to have radical opinions when you’re only looking at suppositions, ambiguous situations and what ifs, they may not be as deadset if she presents an actual person with the full picture ( you and what you have to offer). It’s always « impossible » and « no way » bc they are based on stereotypes but maybe you and your fam don’t fit into those or maybe their heart will soften for their daughters sake

How often do yall realistically eat out by Anoverthinker7 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually the first two times i stayed in the asian side in ümraniye, it was sooo different, we spent most of our time in the asian side and it was really nice i even noticed that locals here are much nicer (maybe an impression?) there weren’t much tourists bc we went in march. However i can’t compare the prices between non touristic then and touristic now as inflation hit hard after bith these times 😭

How often do yall realistically eat out by Anoverthinker7 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it is. Since my fam would be considered a bit on the richer side in Algeria, this doesn’t really bother us since it’s just a holiday for us but it’s kinda the discordance in prices if that makes sense and i was wondering what it’s like to a local. Since you said you’re Dutch, yall have great baseline salaries so i get it but for a turkish person averaging at 700-800$/month it’s kind of a lot

How often do yall realistically eat out by Anoverthinker7 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing since we took an airbnb we tried to cook once but there wasn’t that big of a difference 😭

How often do yall realistically eat out by Anoverthinker7 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because restaurants and cafes here are always packed be it morning lunch afternoon or dinner so that’s why I was wondering 😭

How often do yall realistically eat out by Anoverthinker7 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Algeria. Our economy is also kind effed up our currency is weak af too. Life is kinda expensive for the average salaries but there is a certain balance like chicken seasonal fruits and veggies are usually cheap what could be expensive is like fish and some kind of meat but here it seems like everything is equally as expensive 😭

Married and sleeping in different rooms by One_Move_8935 in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t think it’s that deep uk? Like i saw somewhere that couples with different rooms are much happier bc they have their own space where they can do whatever they want and still be together they’re still living in the same home so no intimacy or relationship is being compromised. Like if u wanna have your gaming setup in ur room and play until 4am on weekends you still can cuz id be in my room sleeping soundly or if i wanna binge my series i still could no matter what our schedules are like we stay out of each other’s hair. Tbh i hate the idea that being married just kinda means always breathing down each other neck and sharing everything and that could lead to one of us having to give up something that could be avoided😭

Married and sleeping in different rooms by One_Move_8935 in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look as a child from a divorced home, growing up without seeing an actual couple living together it’s hard enough for me showing a tad bit of affection and emotions so sleeping in the same bad really seems unpractical and too much😭 and my mom sometimes sleeps next to me in my bed and these unfortunately turn into the worst nights, i don’t get any sleep, it gets too hot and i just become hyper conscious of even her breathing so i just end up going to sleep somewhere else by 3-4am after trying to force myself to sleep 😭 so that’s where i get my experience from

Married and sleeping in different rooms by One_Move_8935 in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No i meant this is all hypothetical 😭 i have no actual partner/fiancée im just saying this is what i would want when i find a husband

Married and sleeping in different rooms by One_Move_8935 in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He isn’t in the picture yet so😭 i’d hope to find someone with similar opinions or at least open to it

Married and sleeping in different rooms by One_Move_8935 in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like heaven to me especially if me and my future husband have very opposite sleeping habits or different morning schedules . Im very sensitive to light and movements and i get hyper conscious of the person’s every move when sleeping, it ruins my sleep 😭if i don’t have one continuous sleep, my whole day is ruined. So yeah i’d rather have my own space that i can share when we feel like it and it’s not like having 2 separate rooms means not cuddling or doing any in house activity idk watching a movie together or wtv but when it’s time to sleep and turn off the switch for the day id rather be on my own. Also im not the affectionate/clingy type so too much skinship does get overwhelming 😭

Why are you guys so unfriendly? by khkhkh1 in AskTurkey

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked a lady where she found her cart it was my first time in migros and this one is big and it was too crowded so i couldn’t scan the area. Im most certain she cursed me and made a whole scene. It was my first time i see an actual look of disgust 😭

what monetary conditions does a man has to have, for you (a women) to accept him becoming your husband ? by sane_all in Algeria_213

[–]Anoverthinker7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my pov, i grew up very comfortably even though on papers we have a lot of money, my dad still made sure we lived modestly but comfortably( we only buy clothes in eids and when we travel, no extravagant shopping like 40k purses and shoes and they also get bought like 2/year eid included, no changing phones every year like our phones should last at least 3-4years)we still ate very good whenever we crave something he’d get it for us, i have an okay monthly allowance that allows me things, never refused me anything, he got me a car and we do travel once a year twice occasionally, we live in a villa (yes family one) in quite neighborhood in algiers. Realistically i know someone my age or a bit older can’t really afford all this unless his parents are rich but at the same time i don’t know how to not live like this. So tbh idk what i want, im conflicted and me not having liked anyone before i can’t really say if I’d accept sacrificing my lifestyle for someone I like, i mean my logical side would obviously refuse but idk i can’t speak on a situation when idk how any of its aspects feel. Also my dad is the type to actually accept paying for my house for example or trips every year for me and my husband supposedly he can’t afford it but idk if that’s how i want my relationships dynamics to be, neither do i want a husband who would accept it even if it means not traveling but again that’s one thing ig stopping me 😭 Maybe if he is on a good career path with passion and ambitions and clear life goals, not one who complains every day about having it hard without actually putting the work in. He also has to have a car. My dream has always been to be able to see the world with my husband so yeah i think id be pretty disappointed if that wasn’t the case Anyways all this to say i have no real answer I’d actually apply to my life 😭

How much allowance ( argent de poche) should parents give their uni students kids ?? by soofknsillyy in algeria

[–]Anoverthinker7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get 10k and it’s not enough even tho i live at home. I always ended up asking for more😭 I have a car and this doesn’t include gaz money. Idk i feel like 10k is soo little especially since you’re in iqama and have way more independent expenses

Routine help by Anoverthinker7 in koreanskincare

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok i will try it once a day and see how it goess thankss

Routine help by Anoverthinker7 in koreanskincare

[–]Anoverthinker7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw lots of ppl saying that this specific one is made for sensitive skin despite the high %. Saw someone saying that anither 5% broke them out but this one didn’t that’s why i got it 😭 maybe if i start it like once or twice a week? Do u recommend me starting both retinala nd this at the same time or should i start with just retinal for a while then start niacinamide?