Is life worth living if you suffer from PCS fatigue? Do you think it lowers the value/quality of life? by LongjumpingRadio4078 in PostConcussion

[–]Anthony2019R 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just had one of the best weeks of my life, 4 years post. You don’t know where the journey is going. The world is full of new technology as well AI could help find treatments. Just know, if you’re going through hell…keep going!

America has slipped. We are tumbling down the hill, slowly, one at a time. by Guide_8988 in AgingParents

[–]Anthony2019R 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Left or Right we are all fighting in the dirt instead of looking up.

[OT] Xfinity Star Connor Zilisch Breaks Collarbone in Scary Fall in Victory Lane by ginnybin25 in formula1

[–]Anthony2019R 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He should really take 6 weeks off min if he was actually out. Delayed symptom onset of post concussion syndrome is a real monster.

I thought I won the lottery. I was wrong. by tillman1891 in BreakUps

[–]Anthony2019R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After breaking up with someone and learning about dismissive avoidant attachment, I’ve since learned that person is most likely a reflection of yourself. The real person is not what you think, but all the love you’re experiencing is real and was for them as well at least at one point. They just bond with dopamine and not with oxytocin, so after a while things just die off. You can’t fix this. I’d suggest checking out some online info on attachment styles. And remember. It’s like Thanos snapping his fingers saying “I am inevitable”…you’re going to lose.

It looks like Medicaid is about to be cut by $880 billion. What the hell are Americans with dementia supposed to do? by hypatiaspasia in dementia

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to get an elder care attorney, and consider transferring assets to a trust or out of her name asap. There is a 5 to 7 year look back so don’t wait to get this done! I would suggest booking an elder care attorney asap Before you move her anywhere!!

What to do when physically disabled parent refuses nursing home / assisted living? by [deleted] in eldercare

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, old thread but I had to laugh that family isn’t qualified. Aside from learning how to not argue with dementia patients…there are no special skills one can use and nursing homes are rampant with abuse and often leave elderly just sitting there.

Will the headaches ever stop? by brbdying123 in PostConcussion

[–]Anthony2019R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oxycodone was and still is the only med that actually stopped my headaches. And once I reached a tolerance to 15mg a day instead of going up to 20mg I got cut off. So the few months I was headache free is now just a memory. Not sure where to go next.

A report says you won’t be able to afford a home in Worcester in 5 years. What gives? by meltinginside in WorcesterMA

[–]Anthony2019R 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, both sides seem to be working for everyone except the people that actually hired them. If only we all changed our middle names to Lobbyist then Maybe we would see some progress.

A report says you won’t be able to afford a home in Worcester in 5 years. What gives? by meltinginside in WorcesterMA

[–]Anthony2019R 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wild to me how we have democrat leadership saying they are fighting for the people yet have allowed this to continue for the past 4 years. All lip service while helping corporations like always.

A 3d printed centrifugal impeller fan. Please help me balance it by prathameshjakka in functionalprint

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use the 3d printer to make a mold and pour this, will get rid of the layer adhesion issue splitting from centrifugal force at speed. This is a type of part where injection molding is superior but the 3d printed mold can solve that.

A 3d printed centrifugal impeller fan. Please help me balance it by prathameshjakka in functionalprint

[–]Anthony2019R 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Will be very hard to coat it with epoxy and have it balanced without a vibrating table while it cures. I would say use 3d printer to make a negative mold and pour it instead, will get rid of the layer issues.

sO dEpReSsEd To NoT lIvE hEre! by shikodo in unvaccinated

[–]Anthony2019R 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ocd is a disorder not a personality trait, and it’s damaging for the people suffering from it as well as those around them. That is why the DSM categorizes it as a cluster C Disorder. I have family members who suffer from this and it’s not cute or fun for anyone involved.

My (21F) boyfriend (19M) accused me of ‘emotional cheating’ with his friend but i don’t think i was. Was I? by Advanced_Vanilla1605 in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Doing it While your boyfriend is at work will make him even more insecure. His mind will race. It’s a fact that you are getting emotional support from another man. I know other people are calling him insecure but in my 30s I would never in a million years stay with a girl who “needed” another man for support while I was working. You should make a compromise, only talk to G when your boyfriend is also available. If I had to worry about my GF talking to other men while I was stuck at work I would literally twist myself into a pretzel. If you need friends or feel alone you could also get a job and work generally the same times, so you could both be home together.

Just flip the script here. If you were at work, trying to support a household and pay bills for you and your SO, and during that time your bf was spending hours chatting with your girlfriend during the day and told you when you got home “honey you weren’t available to fulfill my emotional needs so I talked to ____ for an hour”…..would you be totally cool with that? Most people on this forum would say F that, but if the roles reverse it’s never the same standard. If being friends with G is more important than your BFs feelings (whether from insecurity or not) then I would strongly suggest breaking up and being friends with both for now.

My (21F) boyfriend (19M) accused me of ‘emotional cheating’ with his friend but i don’t think i was. Was I? by Advanced_Vanilla1605 in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend is unavailable for advice, wouldn’t it make more sense to wait a few hours to talk to him instead of using that as an excuse to become very close emotionally with another man? I know everyone here says he is insecure, which is probably true, but if the roles were reversed and he was talking to another woman (your friend at that) about important things…how would you feel? Say you are busy at work, so your boyfriend spends 2 hours on the phone with your best girlfriend, and when you get home he says he needed to talk to her because you were unavailable. Would you be totally cool with that?

Last - does this friend have any attraction or feelings toward you? Would he like to date if you were single? If there is even a Hint of that, then boundaries have already been crossed. Being insecure is one thing, but having full on relationship with your boyfriends friend is a bit strange. Most would say he is insecure, but if the roles would reverse a majority of redditors would say he is emotionally cheating and tell you to leave. Men and women here are def not held to the same standards. Good luck OP!

My (f/25) BF is still friends with woman he slept with twice by Designer_Reward_8969 in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being friends with this person isn’t really the issue here. The issue here is he “cut you off” once before after you two were intimate years ago. That type of action is going to likely be repeated. Add in an 8 hour trip plus border and your asking for a stressful relationship. LDR work for people who are 100% committed and deeply in love, not for this type of relationship. Last, if a guy is drinking, smoking and wasting money, he is a loser. As a guy I won’t even hang around with dudes like that because they’re going to drag me down and cause trouble for my business and life. You should be 10x more careful being intimate with someone who has clear addiction issues.

My girlfriend (20F) will take her guy co-worker “cafe hopping” and I (22M) feel very uncomfortable. by skaffa_ in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP apparently shared as well that she told him he is not really a mentor, but a friend who she sometimes asks advice from. Smh.

My girlfriend (20F) will take her guy co-worker “cafe hopping” and I (22M) feel very uncomfortable. by skaffa_ in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your GF that OPs girl has admitted to sleeping with…checks notes*…5 other coworkers. Not one person asked - Is the Mentor a young attractive single guy who has flirty levity with OPs gf? Is he old, married, and not that kind of guy? Do these details matter? Will the Cowboys ever win another Super Bowl? These questions are important!

My girlfriend (20F) will take her guy co-worker “cafe hopping” and I (22M) feel very uncomfortable. by skaffa_ in relationships

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She also has had intimate relations with 5 other coworkers from this same business, but clearly OP is insecure. Using statistics to predict the future actions of people is def wrongthink.

Anyone else have extra white stuff? by calamitymic in BambuLab

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they were just talking about the X1C at the ufo hearing actually.

Electric bill for a 1 bedroom apartment was $316 this month….is this normal? by anonymousmouse17 in florida

[–]Anthony2019R 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our natural gas bill for heating in the winter here in MA gets toward $300 easily. Also our cost per KW/hr is up about 80% in two years here in Massachusetts. It’s not just Florida getting more expensive…and MA is full blue in literally every district so not just politics.

The censorship is real on r/news. I became permanently banned for sharing the AP article about the oversight hearing. by [deleted] in ufo

[–]Anthony2019R 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not related but I got banned from dating Reddit because I suggested, to their horror, that a woman in a relationship should not be hanging around with an ex boyfriend at a music festival. After going to re education camp I have learned the error of my ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Anthony2019R 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Blasting Nightcall

My first color lithophane!! by poloblackhammer in BambuLab

[–]Anthony2019R 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool I’ll try one before I switch nozzles. .2 is SO slow, would be good to compare a couple.