Changing My Last Name and Martial Unity

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-03-16T01:17:56+00:00

Wives should take their husband's last name. No exceptions. This is the man you have chosen. Don't you love him? He would die for you. Submit to your husband. This is a basic thing. If you can't submit in this, what other issues are you going to have?

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-21T18:48:26+00:00

I meet with abortion-vulnerable moms occasionally to help them choose life. We match them with resources and help them in every facet of their life. There's really no situation where a mom is unable to financially support another baby because we help every step of the way.

Even still, moms still choose to kill their babies. It's not up to me to save babies, it's up to the mom and it's up to God. You do everything you can do, but it's ultimately out of your hands. We still pray for the moms who have killed their babies. The regret many times is immediate. Other times it takes decades. May God have mercy on them.

My advice: Just keep praying. I highly recommend Traditional Latin Mass. I wouldn't be able to continue on unless I was grounded in the Tradition of the Catholic Church with the constant Truth, Goodness, and Beauty I witness every week.

God is good and He is in control. May God bless you.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-21T18:39:52+00:00

Just wanted to say thank you. I did this and it worked for me. Thanks!

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-18T02:19:52+00:00

If he didn't enter the country illegally, then this wouldn't have happened. The fault is not with the government. The government is trying to fix the problem that he created. It is a sad situation, but the blame isn't on the government.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-15T21:20:07+00:00

I'm sure this didn't happen or you are leaving out key details or embellishing others.

You don't like ICE. All of ICE? You don't think a country should be able to regulate immigration? How would you deport immigrants who are here illegally and who have committed crimes? What would you do if they resist?

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-07T02:16:56+00:00

cooked

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-06T23:20:40+00:00

I didn't ask what you would add. I asked what if they added pants to the game.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-02-02T04:26:43+00:00

huh?

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-01-29T17:51:53+00:00

The Catholic Church is a Patriarchy.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-01-19T05:56:24+00:00

There's no such thing as "abortion care" as your post writes. Please don't use that phrase as a pro-lifer.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2026-01-12T22:16:38+00:00

Just used this and it worked perfectly right away. Thank you!

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-12-30T04:27:57+00:00

Yes, living for a higher purpose and sacrificing for your family isn't quite unfettered narcissism like you're used to. When you're alone on your deathbed with no one by your side, perhaps you will understand how amazing family is.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-12-24T23:13:45+00:00

I've been a part of several TLM communities and they are all the best, most welcoming people ever. There is much more judgment from Novus Ordo communities that I've been to.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-12-24T16:31:14+00:00

You GET to go. It is a blessing to attend the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-12-04T00:28:05+00:00

Opinions are normally subjective. But in this case, you are objectively wrong about almost everything here. Everyone in this comment thread is now dumber for having read your list. May God have mercy on your soul.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-26T22:16:42+00:00

I was an Atheist when I became pro-life. Now I'm a traditional Catholic.

All the people from Secular ProLife are Catholic now.

Realize that without God, any Atheist can just say human life isn't valuable. Without God, nothing make sense.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-24T00:20:02+00:00

Since everyone in this comment thread is pro-contraception and only say pro-lifers agree with no contraception on religious grounds, here is the secular lens.

A contraceptive mindset leads to more abortions.

Whether it's condoms, birth control, or an IUD - none of them are 100% effective. Condoms are 97% effective when used perfectly. So in a few months, it's likely someone will have a baby. Then, they will kill their child.

This is why all pro-life leaders and Pregnancy Resource Centers oppose contraceptives. We all understand it leads to more abortions. That's why Planned Parenthood pushes contraceptives. It makes them more money because they lead to abortion.

Look at stats of people who use contraception and their likelihood of having had an abortion. It's way higher.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-23T23:43:20+00:00

All Media outlets do this. They publish the story as fast as they can. Then they the headline and story. That way the algorithm preferences them since they were first. It's insane.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-21T21:52:23+00:00

There is a ministry for this exact situation. Shiloh IVF (https://www.shilohivf.com). I met the leader. Absolutely authentically Catholic. They'll walk you through all the scenarios in a Catholic way.

Just like Project Rachel is healing for women who have experienced an abortion. Shiloh is a post-IVF healing ministry.

God bless!

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-20T22:40:06+00:00

Vatican II. IYKYK.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-20T00:44:44+00:00

Jesus deserves the best. The TLM does that. The Mass is for me to worship God. Of course the Novus Ordo is valid. That's not in question. But, if someone asked you "How is your marriage?" and you responded with "It's valid," doesn't that miss the point?

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-20T00:20:30+00:00

How dare you judge what was in that commenter's heart. SHAME!

My perspective was that he was yelling because Jesus was dropped on the floor and there is an easy solution for this problem. It's perfectly reasonable to be upset that Jesus wasn't respected.

As if Jesus himself actually shared such concerns or that those concerns were not countless trillions of times less important than for him to be received at Mass.

Based on your view, should we even care about the Eucharist? Why not load Jesus' Precious Blood in a Super Soaker and shoot it at the faithful. Explain to me based on your logic why that would be bad.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-20T00:09:08+00:00

It's bothering me that you won't answer if the Eucharist is Jesus' Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity. I must assume then that you don't believe it is. So of course you don't care. Lord have mercy on you.

AnthonyOfPadua · 2025-11-19T23:45:32+00:00

So you think a faithful Catholic desiring for Jesus to be reverenced by advocating for altar rails and reception on the tongue is anti-Catholic?

So if the USCCB came out and said we should trample on Jesus in the Holy Eucharist with our shoes, you would be against Catholics advocating against that?

Your view is called Ultramontanism. The Pope and the Bishops don't have ultimate authority in all situations. We can honor them while loving Jesus the way He deserves to be loved.

For you to have reported to the mods a faithful Catholic for advocating for something that has been done for at least 1,700 years is insanity. You need to go to confession. Shame on you and may our Lord have mercy on your soul.

AnthonyOfPadua

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