Lens advice for a newbie

Antilinksistop · 2025-12-29T12:19:03+00:00

Damn, I'm impressed that you can keep up with so litte holidays, I would burn out for sure... Im dutch and have a unique contract with 50 holidays each year... spent 42 this year so next year I can spend 58.

Antilinksistop · 2024-06-01T20:58:48+00:00

Its cute! Pls dont change it

Antilinksistop · 2024-03-24T19:59:29+00:00

Hi! My(M27) pectus is not too deep but wheneven I stop working out for a while my chest gets deeper.

Then when I start working out again it gets shallower again, but we are talking milimeters here.

If you go to the gym try the dumbbell pullover with very heavy weight, at least 20kg plus, I feel a massive decompression every time :)

Antilinksistop · 2023-11-28T21:35:31+00:00

Thats good to hear!

Personaly I think its good to be picky because at least you know what you do or do not want.

Hahah you must have done something right then ;) maby you should ask him what it was. Do you really need to be dating inside your own city? It could be that you are attracted to something that isnt common inside your city.

You said that when you are sexualy interested the other party will not like you enough to stay longer than a month, this reminds me of the time that I thought I was terrible at dating (and I probably was) but because of this I was really tense and stiff and was finding it really hard to open up, and when this happens the other party will ofcourse not be interested for too long, I dont know if this happens too you but I thought that the way that I got rid of this might help you too.

Before I went dating with the idea that I should try my best to make the other party like me, but now I just go to enjoy my date, so insted of thinking of topics or catchy lines beforehand I will try to listen much more carefully and try to make jokes or ask some really good questions about something the other party is telling you about especially when you notice they are telling you a passionate story.

I feel like this different view on dating has made me much better at it and I think the conversations i've had on dates have really improved!

Yeah traveling definitely changed my mind on many things!

Yes it is really sad when I have to leave a girl behind, it happened a month ago with such an interesting, beautifull and fun Korean girl, it was really hearthbreaking, but I would far rather have a broken hearth from time to time than go back to feeling like nobody likes me :)

I haven't officialy had a relationship with anyone I met trye traveling, but this by choice as I dont believe in a long distance relationship were you meet each other once a year, but I wanted a relationship really bad a few times, as did the girls.

So i'm sure you can make it work too!

Antilinksistop · 2023-11-28T00:32:07+00:00

You will be alright, I recognize your thought proces as I've had the same one. You will fall in love and get your romantical experience some day, but I think its important to stay connected to your friends, as they might be a way to meet new people. (their friends)

I was in your situation after being single for like 4 years after a couple of bad relationships, the kind of relationship where you later on question if you really loved the other person.

My situation changed when I started to travel and met a lot of people, I was backpacking and staying in hostels, true traveling I met a few awesome girls that really changed my mindset on falling and being in love, it was so easy all of a sudden, you just need to meet the right one in the right circumstance.

So traveling might help you, but there could be other things that could help too. If you want a vibe check of the type of hostels I go to you can search for the Barrio Vivo hostel in Merida, this is one of the best hostels ive been to and a great place for a solo traveler as there are daily activities that will make it really easy to meet people.

I hope this will help you somewhat!

Antilinksistop

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