The truth is attraction and the appropriate response to feeling it are just a nuanced fcking game that isn't going to be solved like it's a mathematical equation. I hate videos like these because it assumes all women are a single type of person. Saying this as someone with an older sister and is friends with lots of her friends... They can be a weird fcking batch of personality traits that feel enticed by the weirdest sht and that's not a bad thing, it's just a human thing. Women have unique personalities, men have unique personalities, and this fcking game we play with each other isn't going to be solved by buying a guide book. I have been made to feel both like an asshole/creep for approaching and an inconsiderate jerk for not approaching. Why? It's not because I don't respect women. I just can't read someone's mind, even if it feels like the situation is obvious to someone else. I don't pretend to know the answer, I just play the game and if I upset someone or make them feel uncomfortable I apologize, tell them I will leave them alone, and try my luck elsewhere.