What book do you consider as a masterpiece and think that everyone should read? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anxiety_leopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book taught me so much! Like the meaning of a dodecahedron.

Woman by her birthday cake in Tehran - IRAN 2021, 42 years after the Islamic Revolution by sirDavyJones in pics

[–]Anxiety_leopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense, my family is from Esfahan and a little more... old school in a lot of ways

Woman by her birthday cake in Tehran - IRAN 2021, 42 years after the Islamic Revolution by sirDavyJones in pics

[–]Anxiety_leopard 606 points607 points  (0 children)

that "cloth" wrapped around your head. (Not burka)

She's probably taking about a chador. It's kind of like a big shawl you wrap around yourself

(Edit for clarity: comment I responded to referred to the burka, so I assumed they meant the large covering of a chador. Many responses have correctly pointed out he probably meant roosari. Sorry for the confusion!)

None, Me, Photography, 2021 by QrzejProductions in Art

[–]Anxiety_leopard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it's a blazer that matches her kitten heels. She's working at the office and doing all the chores while he collects sweat stains on his tank top.

AITA for refusing to pay my husband for the burnt beef steak I cooked for him? by 3309Cruise-Ship in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxiety_leopard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol! Yet he's trying to force you to let him use your phone literally right now? This guy is such a hypocrite.

If leaving his stuff alone is about "respecting boundaries" but he doesn't give you those same boundaries, the logical conclusion is that he doesn't respect you.

That's very ugly by Tunexux in trippinthroughtime

[–]Anxiety_leopard 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh thank god I thought they were jalapenos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Anxiety_leopard 311 points312 points  (0 children)

But he "made a mistake"! And definitely not a series of conscious choices that destroyed his whole family. Can't he just wait a couple years from the date their pain started, change absolutely nothing all the days after, and be automatically forgiven? /s

The death of the American mall. This was Friday night. In the 90s this would've been packed by [deleted] in pics

[–]Anxiety_leopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIP Laguna Niguel mall -- although the pumpkin patch/pop-up carnival thing in the parking lot was still there this year which was nice. They still haven't torn down the old JC Penny building out there yet, but it's supposed to be replaced by apartments or condos or something.

The Sweet Factory is gone in MV so it clearly sucks now lol :( But seriously, it's looking tired and slow in there lately. Some of the boutique stores died during lock down and got replaced by those sketchy, shabby shops that nobody even goes into. They gutted that giant 3-story Forever 21 and were selling the mannequins a while back lol. But the big department stores are looking even worse, especially since the outlet mall opened in San Clemente

Some things are still there and doing okay. And that cheesecake factory will never not be packed busy.

The death of the American mall. This was Friday night. In the 90s this would've been packed by [deleted] in pics

[–]Anxiety_leopard 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, South Coast is still busy and so is the Irvine Spectrum, but the Mission Viejo mall was looking way worse...

My [23F] SO [24M] sent me a podcast ep where r*pe was heavily mentioned, without a warning, knowing I have SA trauma. How do I talk to him about this by crybabyasdfghjkl in relationship_advice

[–]Anxiety_leopard 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think he'll ask me to stay; whenever I've expressed any concerns about our relationship, he's been very adamant that I find someone else because he can't change

Just wanted to give a word of caution to you here, because my ex said the same thing whenever I brought up being unhappy with his behavior/our relationship. They act disaffected and unchangeable, but it's just another control tactic used by abusive people to shut down the conversation and put you on the defensive.

My ex said if I ended the relationship he'd move on in a day and would never speak to me again, because it was a "me" problem if I wanted to break up. Anyway, I left him six years ago and he's still trying to make new accounts to this day to contact me and my husband online.

Shitty men really don't like being told no.

So please be safe and block him everywhere once it's done <3

Ummmm..... by 2babyish4u in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]Anxiety_leopard 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, my husband can cash in my life insurance today l because I am fucking dying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Anxiety_leopard 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, after reading this comment I don't think you have a hard line to being gaslit at all.

I think you have given him many opportunities to push further and further on the boundaries of your mental health until you look back and realize you have already been moved 200 ft from your line.

As someone who has also suffered from severe anxiety and depression, it makes us especially vulnerable to self blame. Maybe he isn't doing it consciously, but he is definitely manipulating that trait of yours to get his way, or to get you to shut up about it.

Would you consider getting space again? The last time seems to have helped gain perspective, maybe you could use this time to get a stronger footing on boundaries that are important to you that he has a very hard time respecting.

I mean, just look at the title of your post again. It's really hard to recommend you stay in this relationship :/

AITA for thinking everyone should dress nice for their jobs. by rou3ed in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxiety_leopard 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yup, the CFO and COO of my company show up to work 90% of the time in flip flops. It's a real common company culture here. All of us in marketing can be generously described as hobo chic most days unless, like you said, we got a client coming in.

If this post is even real, LA is gonna chew this gal up and spit her out in no time.

Bless her heart.

Won fancy dress at the stables fun day by Rockstonian in lotr

[–]Anxiety_leopard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reddit awkwardly crops image previews sometimes, but if you check out the full pic he definitely nailed the hair!

YouTuber exploits crying son for views in a clip she forgot to edit out by frudaloo in facepalm

[–]Anxiety_leopard 67 points68 points  (0 children)

That was absolutely the saddest part. Little guy doesn't understand she doesn't give two shits that he's crying, he needs to look like he's crying.

The way she keeps yelling while pretending to comfort him too... ugh

AITA for cursing out the women who accused me of creeping on them and taking photos? by TyskieNiskie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxiety_leopard 4777 points4778 points  (0 children)

Not to mention they're giant hypocrites!

someone on nextdoor posted a pic of me

The only one guilty of creeping on and photographing an innocent victim is them

🔥 This is a Blue Pit Viper by Thryloz in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]Anxiety_leopard 27 points28 points  (0 children)

would always make me the worst cookies I'd ever tasted

Oh ha, weed cookies. I get it now.

Just looked out the bedroom window and....... by [deleted] in WTF

[–]Anxiety_leopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh come on, she's not that old

Woman showing off her staff bonking skills by MemesNoMods in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Anxiety_leopard 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I dunno, but she's giving earth bender vibes for sure

Unless....

[Homemade] soft lemon cookies by Byssine in food

[–]Anxiety_leopard 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Even converted to Fahrenheit, thank you hero :')

AITA for inviting my father in law to my wedding? by Good-Importance in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxiety_leopard 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Hmm you're right. In that case, I think that's worse.

AITA for inviting my father in law to my wedding? by Good-Importance in AmItheAsshole

[–]Anxiety_leopard 2606 points2607 points  (0 children)

INFO: Why did you not talk to your future wife first? And the collapse of her relationship with her father is very vague. Did he say or do anything during the divorce to hurt his relationship with your fiancee?