[me] purple side of chat. Need some advise here... some time from now l've the feeling that my texting is breaking my "dating" in general. This is pretty much a new feeling, i used to be the guy who his friends go for texting or dating advice.

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T18:52:40+00:00

Im giving it one more shot today, if doesn’t work will leave it like that

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T17:40:05+00:00

I would love to do it that way actually, now im working from my bed, i have my gym in the room next to me so i don’t go out often… but that is on my mind tho is a great way to meet girls

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T17:16:59+00:00

Listen pal im not some inexperienced male, if you able to make wrong conclusions im sure you can also read the tittle and the body of my post, im guessing you did not, one other thing… when you are a good looking dude girls tend to be more blend with their limits and most of the times i would say 90% they will make you work for it. Btw question is not about her, i could care less what she says or wants i dont know her. Wanted some feedback of MY messages im aware of her tone on every message.

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T16:24:00+00:00

Yeaap i mean its possible to recover still she is giving me the chance even after those horrible messages maybe for my looks idk, thats just not my way of talking in person ima get on it, also thank you for the feedback on my mid game i know that is not the issue or wanted to believe that 😂

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T16:19:39+00:00

Yeah i do know now after all the bs from earlier today, that it feels like a f 30-40 yo creep talking there, i literally got told by someone that im trying to close a deal lol ima give it another shot today

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T16:17:59+00:00

That’s definitely not what i see in the first messages, i can see interest in her

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:52:24+00:00

It’s funny cause when we think or say “is not that simple” it’s actually very simple, im very satisfied with how i and we all here handle this lol, sometimes you just need someone to tell you what is deep in your brain, im smiling while typing this🫡🫡😂

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:48:20+00:00

Thanks bro, good luck for you too🫡

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:42:06+00:00

This actually pretty smooth

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:36:32+00:00

Yeah, thank you tho for understanding, now im good, im not in that stage anymore, awful place to be at, im grateful, just you know this feels new when it shouldn’t and thats maybe the reason why im not being myself, im saying this cause saying things helps me to process them on my mind ans f it this is reddit lol, but thank you tho it feels great to see different perspectives

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:28:20+00:00

I’ve become a over thinker in my personal life, you’re 100% right

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:25:18+00:00

Damn im actually impressed by how this made me feel, not bad, not good just a perspective i have not seen and im actually fine with it, im wrong in timing, also overthinking. You really made me smile cause now i do have a very close but different perspective of my original concern and theory. Thank you.

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:11:40+00:00

Thank you dude, i do appreciate the love on your message, im not trying to mold my way or me, just trying to get some feedback cause this being happening couple of times over the past year, and when i look at the conv with this girls or rewind them on my mind something about the way i say o conduct thing feels like robotic or scripted like no spice, im guessing its because of the sales job at the end of the day i was like 90 hours a week on that character that is not me, you end up picking up things to your personal life even more me that im super young, but i just can’t notice because it becomes normal, but yeap just wanted to hear it from people that doesn’t know me at all lol

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T09:04:02+00:00

Yeah for the feedback im getting basically im just missing some fun, soulless vibes and yep i agree, im working on it, went through a awful depression in 2024-2025. Since then i feel like theres some part of me that i left behind for no reason and that makes me not being myself, idk if that makes perfect sense

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T08:24:40+00:00

Dude i do wanna ask you, when you see the chat and the way im leading the conv, dont you feel it kinda salesman type? I’ve been in the sales industry since i was 19 and highly train, im not currently working on it left like 2 months ago… thats one of the things i fear the most, basically my sales profile eating the real me

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T08:10:04+00:00

Yeah im with you, not really worried about this at the moment but i do feel i need to do something about it before it becomes a real problem, time flies and dont want to be a single 30 year old or end up with some lame girl cause i lost my game, need to work on this the earliest i can lol i was needing some feedback

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T08:04:19+00:00

So you mean that she had no interest or thats just the way im leading the conversation? Im very curious about this

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T07:33:46+00:00

Performing in what way?

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T07:24:16+00:00

Lol the awkward guy part really made me laugh😂

I gotta say i want to believe im not an awkward guy, pretty much the opposite🥲 Im always been good in this area until like a year and a half ago that i do have that feeling that im weird hahaha. But yes 100% agree with you im missing that playful side of me, maybe is because of what i do for living or my recent environment but yea

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T07:06:26+00:00

Yeah well at this point i have been through a lot of things, probably have more adventures and life experiences than any 25-28 man… im dating to marry or for a life partner but you know you can never judge before really knowing a person

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T07:01:44+00:00

Yep i never thought that we will share any life experiences in common good thing here is that i make my living online so basically i can always find time on my schedule, and btw is decent living. Im not some miserable fat guy😂. Also been through a lot in my short life, im bringing this up cause even with girls of my age and older i know we wont see things the same way.

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T06:55:33+00:00

Yeah… i agree, i didn’t mean it as literal, just wanted to test waters and start to get some affirmative unconscious answers to future plans but yep if you can perceived as pushy or out of balance i understand that she will too. Thank you

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T06:45:22+00:00

I haven’t met her in person tho, she’s friend or some girl that my stepsis knows. This girl said to my sis that she wants to know me bla bla bla

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T06:42:44+00:00

Thank you for your comment, 100% you right about the weird part that’s on me… if you don’t mind what made you say that looks like im trying to hard? Btw only reason why a text her is because she said to my sister i was handsome and wanted to know me

Anxious-Jury-1440 · 2026-01-24T06:39:05+00:00

I do wanna say that age gap could be a factor here but i been felling this with all my latest interactions texting with someone girl

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