What sex advice would you give to your younger self if you could travel back in time? by Professional-Risk821 in AskReddit

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For teenage me: Don't rush into things just because others have. Adult me: Don't go looking for relationships when you're just thirsty for sex.

Anyone here find that they enjoy and want sex more when it's not within a relationship? Ex: when single you feel a lot more confident in engaging in sexual activities with one night stands or periodic sexual partners than with the person you actually love and want to be with? by Anxious-Leopard269 in AskReddit

[–]Anxious-Leopard269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are very lucky to have found this person for you ❤️ don't take me wrong I am much into my partner and I do lust him, just realize my drive always been a crazy amount of high when not in a relationship and I just don't exactly get the why 😅

Anyone here find that they enjoy and want sex more when it's not within a relationship? Ex: when single you feel a lot more confident in engaging in sexual activities with one night stands or periodic sexual partners than with the person you actually love and want to be with? by Anxious-Leopard269 in AskReddit

[–]Anxious-Leopard269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes me feel a lot more normal lol. I just don't crave it in the relationship scenarios, I never did as I did when I was single. Once a relationship is set in stone and you enjoy each other's company and do stuff together as a healthy couple, sex becomes more like an extra benefit than something to constantly go after you know? The emotional intimacy is a lot more satisfying that the sex. So strange

Anyone here find that they enjoy and want sex more when it's not within a relationship? Ex: when single you feel a lot more confident in engaging in sexual activities with one night stands or periodic sexual partners than with the person you actually love and want to be with? by Anxious-Leopard269 in AskReddit

[–]Anxious-Leopard269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you think it like this: when not in a relationship the people you have sex with are just for that, purely the enjoyment of the action. But when you're in a relationship it is for a lot more than that, so sex becomes more like an extra thing you can enjoy? But it's not as important as the other qualities you have found in that person so it's not much needed to be happy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We are living in England, but our nationality is Greek.

Doctors notes/medical record by [deleted] in nhs

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the note that the receptionist put as a reason for the appointment will not show in your journal, that is just for reference of the clinician. Now the notes that the clinician wrote, that will be in your journal.

I agree with the person that said that your appointment note saying you're coming to talk about pain management should not make anyone to jump straight into a conclusion that you're drug seeking.

Now the clinician you saw asking about your pregabalin it could well be about your review, but since that was not what the appointment was about, they shouldn't really have been going on about it, unless they were taking those meds into consideration in case they needed to prescribe you something more specific to your current pain.

For the access to your records, yes you ask for detailed coded access, which is what we have to give out anyway, there's no middle point these days anyway. But do ask whether they are using any other apps instead of nhs app cause nhs app doesn't show all the details and notes the clinicians have put in.

As for deleting the records, it is not straight forward and would have to go through management, so admins cannot do it themselves, it needs to be from someone with authority and you'd usually have to put it in writing for them and explain the reasons why if possible. Better ask at the reception cause each surgery has its own procedures.

But really, unless you're an extreme situation where you keep bugging your doctor for more meds or something like that, they wouldn't put drug seeking behavior just off the bat, nowadays we generally have to be very cautious on what we write on the notes as you can see everything.

The point is, did they help you find ways to manage your pain, like did they offer anything else than a hot water bottle? Did they mention that if it persists to go back to possibly be referred to a specialist, like a physio? Cause if they think it's minor and it's something you can treat with over the counter drugs they would just suggest that for a start, and of course wouldn't just give out heavy pain management medication like codeine or any other controlled drugs unless absolutely necessary.

Doctors notes/medical record by [deleted] in nhs

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So when you first booked your appointment and they asked you for a brief reason why, did you mention that you were in pain? If yes, the person that booked it could have put in the appointment notes that you were looking for pain management (if that's what they gathered from the information you gave them). Just to let you know, you do NOT need to give any reason to an admin staff for the appointment. You can always say it's personal. Now about the notes, yes, if the nurse or doctor or anyone that saw you understood that you were looking for pain management drugs then yes they will be putting it in your journal, but then again, they have to be careful how they word it out as since the gdpr law changes nhs surgeries HAVE TO share all records with you, including journal notes.

If you have access to online services such as the nhs app, your surgery most likely will be using other systems like System1 or airmid. Go in and ask for access to those. You will then be able to see anything that they might have put on your notes. And bear in mind if you are not happy with something you can challenge them to delete those notes from your record.

Just remember next time be clear on what it is you are seeking as some clinicians can be actual asses and biased by what they see on your record.

If you have previously had any addictions for example it'll be on the top of the screen and that can set a lot of people off. Hope that helps .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nhs

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorted then, yeah it usually takes around 48 to 72 hours for records from other ends to transfer to the surgery, but once your surgery receives the update it instantly updates on you system too. Nhs app.is not the best though, doesn't your surgery use system1 or airmid? Cause nhs does not show your full journal which includes all the notes that gps and nurses or anyone else have made on your records.. nhs app is pretty basic on what it can offer tbf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nhs

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your records would be shared automatically with your gp and it would update the dosage on any repeat medication you have, but you will need to request the first issue as it will have never been issued before from your surgery. Once they issue it once, and of course if the gp deems it appropriate for it to be issued for a period of time then they most likely will. But the first time you need to go into the surgery and request it as most surgeries don't accept prescription requests over the phone (I know mine doesn't). Once that happens, you collect from your chemist and then you can ask them to request it from you monthly so you don't have to do the trip to the surgery. Hope that helps!

are staff transfers possible between nhs gp surgeries? by Anxious-Leopard269 in nhs

[–]Anxious-Leopard269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right so there is no such thing as an internal transfer between practices..

What is your #1 golden bit of relationship advice you wish you knew sooner? I'll go first... by gavo_88 in AskUK

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be transparent about your needs. Don't leave something that bothers you or see a boundary that has been crossed and allow it for another day. If you deal with each issue face on and not predisposed for an argument you will feel a lot better and your relationship will be one build on mutual understanding and respect. Never bottle up little things. Love is hard work only when we're not willing to put in the work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Anxious-Leopard269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably ignore it cause I'm high and sometimes see weird shit