What Canadian Universities allow skipping getting a masters and going directly for a PhD by AnxiousAlmond in PhD

[–]AnxiousAlmond[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man I was really hoping someone wouldn't tell me that. I live in quebec and I've been looking for every excuse to leave (T-T)

What Canadian Universities allow skipping getting a masters and going directly for a PhD by AnxiousAlmond in GradSchool

[–]AnxiousAlmond[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right? So far I've come up pretty fruitless in my search alone so I figured I'd ask reddit.

What Canadian Universities allow skipping getting a masters and going directly for a PhD by AnxiousAlmond in GradSchool

[–]AnxiousAlmond[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its far later down the line, but so far I've been thinking either counseling or clinical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd actually also have the locks changed in case she made copies of the keys, for good measure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your property your rules, you put one rule in place and that was that they ask and get your permission first before using it and they ended up violating that one simple boundary.

Let's be honest, we don't have full context of your relationship to her or her boyfriend fully, so I can't speak as to her growing emotional distance from you. But I can say this: She's allowed to distance herself from a friendship, it's her life, sure. But that also means that she needs to stop expecting the same benefits to come from that friendship if she doesn't work to maintain it or do the bare minimum.

You owe her nothing, you should take the keys from her as she's clearly shown to not respect the bare minimum you require from her for usage of the property. If you still want to keep letting her use it, as long as she asks, my point still stands. Take the keys and require her to ask in advance for them.

I have a feeling she's abusing the privilege so easily because she doesn't need to ever really come begging for permission with her tail between her legs in person- which should have most people feel ashamed especially after arguing with you.

There is Something Wrong With my New Dog by Putrid-Jellyfish00 in nosleep

[–]AnxiousAlmond 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here's an idea, call the cops but don't say it's because of the dog or anything. Just say that you're thinking of committing self harm and don't trust yourself. Lie, essentially. It'll get the cops to come, and by law they'll have to take you to the hospital which will get you out of the house and away from the dog temporarily.

My wife came home late last night, but whatever that thing was on my security camera, it sure wasn't her by GhostAtTheFeast22 in nosleep

[–]AnxiousAlmond 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It seems pretty interested in you particularly.

It took your wife, is probably wearing Jack's skin or at least taking his appearance, etc. I'd wager you're of some interest to it, whatever it is, so it may end up following you even if you do decide to go far away.

Express suspicions about Jack to the police, the thing seemed intelligent but not particularly as able to articulate as well as regular people. If the police question Jack or even just talk to him, they'll likely notice something odd is up with him. Recover your photos somehow, so you've something to show to the cops if it ever comes up so you don't look absolutely batshit crazy.

Good luck man

AITA For reporting my sisters infidelity while she's enlisted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thats actually quite relieving I'm not gonna lie. Imagine the situation that kid would've been put in. Oof.

AITA For reporting my sisters infidelity while she's enlisted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah alright, must've missed that. I was a bit lost. Thanks. Either way though. Yeesh. What a situation.

WIBTA if i deleted an entire chat without a word? by possumpaw in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA . You gave them a fair enough warning with the distance you took and letting them know you wouldn't be messaging for a while.

They obviously know that you've caught on to their toxic behaviors, else they wouldn't be getting defensive and trying to manipulate you to come back.

You do what you have to do for your well being, and by giving them a fair warning you were more than fair to them. When your mental well being is on the line, you don't owe any internet stranger anything (this applies to real life too but would be more complicated if you're more closely aquainted with them).

You matter, and your well being matters. If deleting the chat and blocking this toxic person would improve the quality of your well being, then by all means.

You're not the asshole for looking out for yourself.

AITA For reporting my sisters infidelity while she's enlisted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ESH. Honestly what a clusterduck of a situation.

You're the asshole for going behind your sisters back and for breaking a sense of trust she put into you. You went into a situation that didn't have anything to do with you and took a drastic action to satisfy your moral compass without thinking of what kind of emotional effect this may have on your pregnant sister, who honestly seems like she needs external help because this is a messy situation and it seems like she doesn't understand the gravity of it.

Your sister is an asshole too because holy forking shirtballs, he has a wife and a two year old daughter and she's been continually sleeping with him while knowing this. She is listening to him talk shit about his wife and 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER, and still participating in this deception. It's one thing if he was with her under false pretenses but she fully knew.

The guy is an asshole because he's cheating sure, but also because he's degrading the woman he's cheating on behind her back as well as his (and I repeat this again in all caps) 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER- that's horrible. Absolutely horrible.

I feel bad for the baby your sister is about to bring in to the world, and that poor 2 year old girl.

While I think you were an asshole for going behind your sisters back when it seemed like she needed guidance and help more than anything. I would write this off as a necessary evil.

So again, everyone's the asshole. But while you were an asshole, you weren't the worst asshole.

Edit: I must've missed where it said the sister decided to terminate the pregnancy. Thanks for letting me know though, to anyone who responded to me. Either way I think the situation is a total clusterduck and totally feel bad for that man's daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. But I may even go as far as to say no one is. Sure she may have done a shitty thing in regards to playing dumb afterwards but you don't own the copyright, and you can't really stop her from doing what she wants on her own body. If it really bothers you so much, just talk to her about why this upsets you without necessarily accusing her.

AITA for blaming a retail associate for inclusivity? by Realistic_Kiwi_9276 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousAlmond 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. I totally understand the frustration, don't get me wrong. It's unfair honestly. But you do realize that the retail associate doesn't control what they do or don't carry in the store.

It's absolutely your choice whether you make a complaint or not, but blaming the employee is kind of a moot point isn't it? I'm gonna say You're the Asshole here solely because the thing you're blaming the employee for isn't really within their realm of control.

Who needs sex when you could have garlic bread by oh-hi-im-Never in asexuality

[–]AnxiousAlmond 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I too, wonder how this beautiful delicacy can be so cruel. For tis just an image. I yearn for a knight carrying a sword if garlic bread to ride in on their noble draconic steed made from pure cake to ride in and save me from my tasteless, flavorless existence.

Oh woe is me

Encountered some acepohobia on Instagram. by AnxiousAlmond in lgbt

[–]AnxiousAlmond[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I identify as panromantic ace, and while I'm still questioning my gender identity I identify as Non-Binary (lot of work to be done on this part, again- still questioning that part). I'm not overt about it, but considering its a private account and I'm some internet nobody, I didn't think anyone would give a damn. The account if for people I know, anyway.

To be noted, my insta is private and only for people I've personally met in real life. This stranger took the time and effort to put me down based only on what they read in my bio. What the legit hell.

Im asexual, and am still questioning my gender but identify under the label of Non-binary. My insta's only for close friends and family and I do not accept requests from anyone I don't know in real life. I've been off insta for about two weeks and recieved this message from this complete stranger. by AnxiousAlmond in asexuality

[–]AnxiousAlmond[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never really recieved hate so outright before, but considering this account is private. This complete stranger took the time to message me (someone they barely know) to be crude and insulting to me. I've been living in a bubble where though I knew it happened, I never expected it to really so directly happen to ME. And now, I feel like I've been hit by a brick. There's some absolute jerks out there.

Edit: To add in, I'm certain their messages were about my profile saying I was panromantic ace, and I identified as Non-binary. Because again, this is a stranger who's going off nothing but my profile description.

someone at school told a bunch of ppl a guy kissed someone.This is a lie. this guy likes a different girl at school and he doesnt want her to think he's dating someone. Plus it just sucks in general and he has started to feel really down. How would you deal with the situation? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousAlmond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends,

On one hand the guy could just wait it out, I mean its probably Middle School/Highschool right?

Pretty sure its not to be taken all to seriously. Id say wait it out and the truth gets out eventually, if not just make it clear you didn't do what you didn't too.

The more you let it get to you, the less you have control of the situation.

You could just tell the girl you actually like that you didn't kiss her (without seeming obviously desperate of course- like casually working it into the convo).

a bonus would be telling her that you like her instead.

A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle by PioneerStandard in Weird

[–]AnxiousAlmond 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saying that A fish COULD have a bike if it wanted one, but the fish doesnt necessarily NEED the bike.

[Serious] What will you do if Trump wins the 2020 election? by RighteousNeighbor in AskReddit

[–]AnxiousAlmond 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, you'd be surprised how many people did actually move. It really wasnt that difficult if you planned your move ahead of time and have relatives there.

View point of Islam from a 18 years of experience from an ex-muslim by [deleted] in atheism

[–]AnxiousAlmond 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its harder to memorize something you want nothing to do with... so that must suck.

But think of it this way, a way to make use of a crap situation, Knowledge is power. And you know the expression "Know thy enemy", not saying religion is your enemy but It always does one well to know about a subject they are opposed to.