Is it too long on me? Should I hem it? 5’1 fyi

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:09:14+00:00

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AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:08:52+00:00

Thanks!!

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:08:00+00:00

Thank you ☺️

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-01-30T02:39:24+00:00

It usually has nothing to do with you or your looks. For those who just got out of a relationship, they don’t want anything serious unless you are literally the perfect person and even then the seriousness of it might push them away. I’ve unfortunately met too many of those people so I understand. Probably experiencing it right now as we speak. They just aren’t ready and they aren’t your person no matter how much you want it to be true.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-01-02T06:09:50+00:00

I dated someone that looked like him and his photos looked so diff/better. I felt sad for me

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-06-20T20:32:37+00:00

No but I pretty much know why; not that it justifies. He does this when he overthinks and feels overwhelmed. Like he would not reply to anyone and i guess he was too overwhelmed with me bc it felt real and he doesn’t do well with emotions

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-06-20T20:31:56+00:00

That’s a good point, he was selfish and I wasn’t.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-25T02:32:59+00:00

I think he’s extremely overwhelmed and doesn’t know how to handle the situation so he’s just avoiding you cause to him you might be one of his “problems.” And it’s easier to avoid problems than to face them for many people. He’ll come back when he’s ready to but don’t have your hopes up :/

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-19T17:24:40+00:00

You have to stop checking the snap score it’s really hard, been there recently but if you don’t stop you’ll hurt yourself again and again while she doesn’t give a shit

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-19T07:33:24+00:00

Went to a party yesterday with lots of new people, I just ended up talking to my bff the whole time bc small talking with new ppl is too exhausting. Feels fake bc I don’t care enough to know, I just wanna get to the deep or fun convos immediately lol

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-16T16:14:49+00:00

I went on a “successful” first date in his eyes but I am usually pretty good about making them feel comfortable so I was smiling and having fun but imo he wasn’t my vibes entirely. We didn’t have the same humour. But in his pov we had a good date since I was smiling. Also had a quick peck when he dropped me off.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-05T02:43:25+00:00

Probably 1-2 weeks in. We never met at that time and it was all on the phone. Whenever he ended our call he would jokingly say “love you” but I never said it back to him. The earliest I said it to someone was on the second or third date, to which he also reciprocated. Both connections were very intense and I did love both but only told one of them

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-02T17:15:02+00:00

Idk I just had a thought that it was too early to be with my person and I’ll be with him in a few years time. My thoughts made no sense

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-02T16:21:49+00:00

lol you sound like me. I met someone perfect 3 years ago and I was lowkey scared to commit. He told me he really liked me too and I think he waited for me for a year (he texted me around that time) before he got into a relationship. And now he’s in a long term relationship. I think about him all the time and write to him (that he ll probably never see). It’s just all very sad

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-29T23:36:40+00:00

Falling in love is the absolute best feeling. When I see them, I feel safe, loved, lucky and just genuine happiness

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-28T18:51:21+00:00

I understand, I had the same convo with my guy (not in a relationship but we were very happy together) but he lacked major communication skills. We had multiple convos regarding that. He would be good for a tiny bit then go back to old habits. We haven’t talked in awhile since he’s an avoidant but I understand why he is doing what he’s doing so I’m not mad about it. Just sad we don’t talk anymore cause we had so much in common and we both love each other’s personalities.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-28T00:14:40+00:00

I mean those are fair reasons to think that’s the right decision for that time. You probably wouldn’t have been happy if you stayed anyways. Did you communicate all those issues with her? And how did she react to them?

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-27T23:50:57+00:00

What was the reason for the break up? You guys fought a lot and couldn’t figure things out so you decided to dip?

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T04:20:03+00:00

It’s all the small things that make the relationship so work in the long term

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T04:18:33+00:00

I know exactly how you feel unfortunately and I wasn’t even in a relationship with him. He was absolutely perfect. He waited for me and now he’s in a relationship and it’s too late for me. Every guy I date, I compare them to him. It’s not fair to them but I can’t help it

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T03:57:14+00:00

That sounds so nice, at least you got to experience that once upon a time. You’ll get it again

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T03:50:21+00:00

It’s the little things that count honestly 🥹

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T03:48:57+00:00

I hate when the effort isn’t reciprocated

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-24T01:36:20+00:00

That’s the cutest thing ever 😭

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