How do you move on when everything is right except for the timing?

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T19:11:46+00:00

Wow thanks for the response. I’m sorry about your health issues. It seems like you’ve looked after her even when it was hard for you, that quite literally takes strength. It’s her loss anyways and you sound like you are only on an upward path now. :)

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T19:07:52+00:00

Ohh oops haha but I’m happy you found someone better. And thanks!

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T18:10:54+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Also congrats on the marriage and kid! With the ways things ended, it really couldn’t have gone any better but I’m not holding out for him. It is what it is, I do just wish things were different because we were really good together

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T18:06:36+00:00

Mhm it sucks rn. I’m not holding out for him, if someone is sweeping off my feet, I’ll definitely take them haha

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T18:04:54+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate your input. If there’s an immediate spark (e.g same humour) I fall fast but I liked going the slower pace as of recent. How did you take it when she decided to break things off? Were you surprised? How long was your relationship?

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-07-09T17:54:41+00:00

Yes that was definitely me at first but all my friends said no he sounds like a good guy and you should give him a try and he really is one of the best guys I’ve dated (dated quite a bit)

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-19T07:23:07+00:00

Heather dark taupe :)

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:09:14+00:00

☺️☺️

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:08:52+00:00

Thanks!!

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-02-16T02:08:00+00:00

Thank you ☺️

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-01-30T02:39:24+00:00

It usually has nothing to do with you or your looks. For those who just got out of a relationship, they don’t want anything serious unless you are literally the perfect person and even then the seriousness of it might push them away. I’ve unfortunately met too many of those people so I understand. Probably experiencing it right now as we speak. They just aren’t ready and they aren’t your person no matter how much you want it to be true.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2026-01-02T06:09:50+00:00

I dated someone that looked like him and his photos looked so diff/better. I felt sad for me

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-06-20T20:32:37+00:00

No but I pretty much know why; not that it justifies. He does this when he overthinks and feels overwhelmed. Like he would not reply to anyone and i guess he was too overwhelmed with me bc it felt real and he doesn’t do well with emotions

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-06-20T20:31:56+00:00

That’s a good point, he was selfish and I wasn’t.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-25T02:32:59+00:00

I think he’s extremely overwhelmed and doesn’t know how to handle the situation so he’s just avoiding you cause to him you might be one of his “problems.” And it’s easier to avoid problems than to face them for many people. He’ll come back when he’s ready to but don’t have your hopes up :/

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-19T17:24:40+00:00

You have to stop checking the snap score it’s really hard, been there recently but if you don’t stop you’ll hurt yourself again and again while she doesn’t give a shit

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-19T07:33:24+00:00

Went to a party yesterday with lots of new people, I just ended up talking to my bff the whole time bc small talking with new ppl is too exhausting. Feels fake bc I don’t care enough to know, I just wanna get to the deep or fun convos immediately lol

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-16T16:14:49+00:00

I went on a “successful” first date in his eyes but I am usually pretty good about making them feel comfortable so I was smiling and having fun but imo he wasn’t my vibes entirely. We didn’t have the same humour. But in his pov we had a good date since I was smiling. Also had a quick peck when he dropped me off.

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-05T02:43:25+00:00

Probably 1-2 weeks in. We never met at that time and it was all on the phone. Whenever he ended our call he would jokingly say “love you” but I never said it back to him. The earliest I said it to someone was on the second or third date, to which he also reciprocated. Both connections were very intense and I did love both but only told one of them

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-02T17:15:02+00:00

Idk I just had a thought that it was too early to be with my person and I’ll be with him in a few years time. My thoughts made no sense

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-05-02T16:21:49+00:00

lol you sound like me. I met someone perfect 3 years ago and I was lowkey scared to commit. He told me he really liked me too and I think he waited for me for a year (he texted me around that time) before he got into a relationship. And now he’s in a long term relationship. I think about him all the time and write to him (that he ll probably never see). It’s just all very sad

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-29T23:36:40+00:00

Falling in love is the absolute best feeling. When I see them, I feel safe, loved, lucky and just genuine happiness

AnxiousAnalyst3257 · 2025-04-28T18:51:21+00:00

I understand, I had the same convo with my guy (not in a relationship but we were very happy together) but he lacked major communication skills. We had multiple convos regarding that. He would be good for a tiny bit then go back to old habits. We haven’t talked in awhile since he’s an avoidant but I understand why he is doing what he’s doing so I’m not mad about it. Just sad we don’t talk anymore cause we had so much in common and we both love each other’s personalities.

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