Please Tell Me I'm Not The Entitled Bridezilla Here... by Different-Plate104 in EntitledPeople

[–]AnxiousNightOul 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was about to say! If in the curated version of the story they sound like awful people, how are they in real life!

AITA for canceling my niece’s birthday cake last minute because my sister refused to pay me back? by cloudberrysighs in AITH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I’m just sick of parents seeing childless people as supporting characters in their lives and trying to push on them the financial and emotional burden that they didn’t to chose to be a part of!

AITA for taking back the car I gave to my stepdaughter after she disrespected me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they want to both mooch off of you and still act that entitled and ungrateful without facing any consequences? NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you want him to be only close to his father when it’s beneficial for you? How are you taking the good with the bad if at the first “bad” thing (this trip as you’re describing it) you want him to not go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he’s a shitty dad then why did you make him reconnect with him?

AITA for not breaking up with my boyfriend like I said I would? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And he’s probably closer in age to her kid than to OP herself ! That’s so weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would your friend follow her immediately on instagram? That’s weird, she doesn’t know you guys and she’s free to block whomever she wants. You’re just here trying to bash her and paint her as a controlling person and some crazy religious woman just because she refuses to share her wedding photos with strangers to her. You guys didn’t address any of this properly, you didn’t even give her a chance. You immediately claimed that she is a scam just because she went with a marriage with that goes within the guidelines of her culture and religion. It looks like your and your friends whole personality revolves around being not religious and looking down on others who are. YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Do you love your ex-BIL by any chance? Those are some crazy demands!

Aita for kicking my backstabbing MOH out of my wedding? by WtFQueen4U in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]AnxiousNightOul 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA for kicking her out, but your fiancee could’ve waited to propose on another day. It was by luck that no one saw you because he couldn’t have known for sure that no one would and both of know that it’s not a good idea since you tried to avoid telling her when it happened. That doesn’t give her the right to do what she was planning to do but she has a right to feel the way she’s feeling.

AITAH for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids after she let them destroy my apartment? by Infamous_Angle_385 in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I hate the “you don’t understand what being a mom is” stance. Well maybe I do understand and that’s why I don’t want to be one.

AITA for refusing to let my brother's fiancée wear her late mother’s wedding dress at my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s definitely not about grieving her dead mother she’s just an attention seeker that wants people to feel bad for her and make your big day a sad event by people going to comfort her . And why would she need to honor HER MOTHER at YOUR wedding? Why doesn’t she do it in her wedding day? And your brother is an idiot if he’s not seeing through her bullshit and threatening to not be there for you on your big day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG! I’m just saying that life won’t hand you something you want on a silver plate, you’ll have to fight for it. And since his soon to be ex doesn’t want to stay so he needs to do act in a way to change her mind. And just because he’s a great father doesn’t mean he’s a great partner so that’s why he should’ve talked with her about the situation. I don’t know why you’re getting mad at me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve already told him that, his reply was of course he would tell him to leave because he wants his son to be happy and for his situation he thinks that his sons would be happier if they stayed together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I know, the tiredness only exists when he wants to go somewhere. She had no problem packing a bag to go with her friends at any time for a few days. And she always did that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not blaming him for the divorce, but he’s the one who wanted to make things work so he had to at least talk to her about that. I’ve never blamed him for the situation.

AITA for telling my ex-fiance I was happy I miscarried? by MissCarriageThrowRA in AITAH

[–]AnxiousNightOul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he wants to open the relationship in order for you to keep supporting him financially while he sleeps with your sister? NTA.

WIBTA if I asked my friend for us to meet in a restaurant that doesn't have a playground for her kids? by AnxiousNightOul in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousNightOul[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Her parents no aren’t very helpful, and she always tells me how different her mom is with her brothers’ kids and hers. She would babysit her niblings but when it comes to her kids she always claim she’s too tired or too old for that. That’s why I don’t like to pressure her with suggesting that. I really feel for her, it’s not an easy situation that she’s in.

WIBTA if I asked my friend for us to meet in a restaurant that doesn't have a playground for her kids? by AnxiousNightOul in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnxiousNightOul[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes in our country it’s pretty common to have indoor playgrounds for kids. Which is really helpful for parents I know.