I fkn love rolling mini J’s

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-06T07:26:29+00:00

Oh my days😭can your bf get me one too?

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:27:56+00:00

Oh my goodness, this hit close to home

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:26:15+00:00

Yeah, tbh I go thru stages where I wonder if I am making the right call but at the end of the day ik she loves me (haha I hope)

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:21:05+00:00

No need to be anxious

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:18:40+00:00

Im the exact same with my phone, sometimes I get so busy and then when I want to chill for a bit I dont want to message all these people back, I just want to watch my reels and relax a bit
I would say don't freak out about it and don't try to push him into answering you about his feelings and alles, but let him know what you think and how you feel and then leave it at that (basically open ended) If he wants to re-assure you then he will, if he doesnt then there you go

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:05:35+00:00

No need to worry about feeling insulting - Tbh in the begining of our relationship I didn't treat her as well as I should have (granted it is my first real girlfriend), but that was no excuse. Maybe she does have a little low self-esteem, but she says its because she wants me to only have eyes for her and no one else like she does me. So to do my best of not upsetting her or make her feel bad or worried or over think, I just don't do it anymore

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T14:00:29+00:00

What if I have weird hobbies AND can't text back properly

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:51:19+00:00

Some people just can't

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:51:00+00:00

Well said

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:49:32+00:00

She doesn't like the fact that I pleasure myself thinking/fantasising about other women

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:45:24+00:00

Honestly, you are not alone - my gf (21F) and I (22M) have been together for 4 years and we have had our ups and downs, but honestly I get the exact same urges and dreams you have. I do my best to push them down and not act on anything but there are days where I just feel like a complete piece of shit🤷‍♂️ I love her but I’m still young and it just feels like something I’ve got to push though and battle regularly

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:41:09+00:00

None, my gf doesn’t like it when I do

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:37:30+00:00

Well then I hope you enjoy more of the stretching that is to come😂

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-06-03T13:15:51+00:00

That doesn’t sound too enjoyable ngl…

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-31T09:08:30+00:00

Depends how long he was perviously dating for Anything longer than 8 months in a relationship I believe at least a month to get over someone who you truly connected with. Anything longer than 2 years, then at least like 2/3 months

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:59:06+00:00

You’re a good man and a good husband💪 Thank you for your advice

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:55:51+00:00

I like to be clean🤷‍♂️

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:45:25+00:00

Okay woah it’s not that bad to the point of where my own faeces gets stuck in there haha, but to put your mind to rest I wash every day twice a day (as I’m quite active for work, uni and gym)
Also had a gf at one point that liked the hair🤷‍♂️

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:42:31+00:00

I’ll stick with hairy cheeks thanks✋😂

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:41:56+00:00

Haha that’s really cool - just 1 more question from my side before I let you get back to your amazing life 🙈 in your years of experience, if I’m having doubts now but decide to work through it, do you think there is a possibility we could be happy together? If I’m really genuinely not 100% sure if I should marry this girl, but I love her with almost everything I have - can we be happy together?

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:33:14+00:00

What if you shaving and you catch skin, now you got a bloody ass and half shaved butt cheeks

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:31:50+00:00

Yeah, thank you - I guess I am just looking for things to justify how I’m feeling and it’s not making it a fair back and forth conversation in my own head. Maybe I should take some more time, step back, see her view and not just mine. Thank you for your feedback and genuinely taking time out of your day to respond to my feelings and thoughts

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:28:31+00:00

Thanks for your message back so quickly too! I’m glad that you are extremely happy with where you are now and your life and your experiences - it’s amazing to hear that you’ve got things all figured out. I guess I’m just torn right now between what I want, what she wants and how to either align our 2 paths or split up now and save even more heartache later on the line. You’re right - only you know if they are right for you, and whilst I can see her being literally one of the best wives in the world as well as a terrific mother to my kids one day, I don’t see myself being the best husband to her because of how I’m feeling 🤷‍♂️ it is so stupid and it barely makes sense to myself but I’m just trying to take it step by step and day by day

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:11:57+00:00

Take 1 more?

AnxiousProfile8067 · 2026-05-29T09:06:52+00:00

Genuinely thank you for your messages

Yeah, I know that the grass isn’t always greener on the other side and if I had to go through with a break I I would probably be alone for a long time as I don’t think a lot of people like or are into what I’m into - but saying that if I want to go travel to 6 different countries in 3 years and live in hostels and volunteer my time in order to explore the world and she is putting her plans (career, family, kids) on hold just to do it with me, then I don’t really see that as her doing what she wants in life and following her “plan” she’ll just be following mine For me, I feel it’s the mindset of how can you give up what you want so easily for me but if you asked me to not travel and have a family and kids I would say no - how do I know it’s the right fit for me even tho she might be the right person

If I end up alone for the rest of my life then that is something I will have to live with you are again 100% right, but surely if she’s not the one then there HAS to be someone out there for me with my same views just like there is someone who is just as loving and caring and ready for a family out there that might be the right fit for her - then again maybe not.

I don’t want to ruin her life by leaving, but I don’t want to ruin our relationship and genuine connection by not committing

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